Do women buy their guy friends Christmas presents?

[CornbreadFed]

yes

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Do women buy their guy friends Christmas presents?

Only to the men they are fvcking; otherwise no.

 

[NealIRC]

Usually gift giving takes emotional investment. Women who are “friends” with men are often there to take resources, not for emotional connection. Rarely do they give in return, including meaningful gifts. In the same light, do you go out of your way to buy your bros a thoughtful gift? My guess is probably no.

Chicks aren’t out here giving buddies random gifts. That also implies interest on the part of the giver and most women don’t want to send the wrong idea. Similar to giving a man a compliment. This is usually reserved for family, the person you are exclusively dating or your spouse. If you are handing out random gifts because you are generous, they’ll probably take them but I doubt they’ll reciprocate.

Only to the men they are fvcking; otherwise no.

So there's a quote that goes like this.

Women don't really like a man, even in a relationship. They only like you to the extent you like them more, and you like them 1st.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

So there's a quote that goes like this.

Women don't really like a man, even in a relationship. They only like you to the extent you like them more, and you like them 1st.

Maybe you should stop quoting morons.

 

[NealIRC]

Maybe you should stop quoting morons.

Only if you can disprove them.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Only if you can disprove them.

I'm not going to discuss with morons statements like 'Women don't really like a man'.

If you believe that, you better move your topics to a website for homosexual seduction advice.

 

[NealIRC]

I'm not going to discuss with morons statements like 'Women don't really like a man'.

Because you can't. You make the typical counter-response. You're just like anyone else that says "You're wrong" but not show why I'm wrong. I've seen this on the Internet for the past 15 years.

You give up too easily.

If you're gonna respond, respond with something convincing,

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

All the women I've dated like men.
All the women I know, apart from a few lesbians, like men.

You hang around with the wrong crowd. People who make such statements are incels.

 

[Stanley]

I don't really know what is going on is this thread, but to answer the question in my experience, yes.

Ignoring female coworkers, family and group events where gift exchanges take place I have received gifts from girls. Much of my social group consist of women and last year I received gifts from some of them. Small things like a coffee gift card or some small trinket. Of the gifts received most came from girls that I had no romantic interest in, but I my gut tells me at least one of them is interested in me.

I wouldn't read much into it personally. Some people and cultures are more apt to present gifts during the holiday season and women love to shop. I suppose it depends on the gift received and how big the gesture is. If a girl is giving you a bottle of wine, reindeer lingerie and a box of condoms...well that seems obvious?

 

[AureliusMaximus]

So there's a quote that goes like this.

Women don't really like a man, even in a relationship. They only like you to the extent you like them more, and you like them 1st.

Women do not love you for who you are as person "per se", but more like love you for what you do for them,
(E.g. right here now in this moment), mate.

Therefor always insert "Right now" after her sentence when she says to you "I love you".

Female love is conditional and transactional while we men is way more unconditional in our love and easy going...

So you will never be loved by a women the way you really want to be loved e.g. unconditional - for that you talk to your mom and dad or get a dog.