Do we realize that 99% of posts here all stem from trying to increase interest level?

[DreamAgain]

Imagine if women were always respectful, courteous, polite.

Stuck true to their word, dependable, made sure to present themselves in the best way possible to you.

Would this site exist? You would simply pick the one which you liked the most, and have a great relationship with her, no playing mind games, no manipulation.

And if she decides to no longer behave this way, no problem, you say your goodbyes cordially and move on to the next one.

My point with these obvious, trite remarks is to remind yourself when you were with a girl who had a high interest level. She likely behaved just as above, and things were likely great. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level. You will never have a problem with women anymore, you will never have the need to go to this site, you will never think about red pill / blue pill, alpha / beta, chad, whatever bull**** terms.

This whole site should be replaced with a single line. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Imagine if women were always respectful, courteous, polite.

Stuck true to their word, dependable, made sure to present themselves in the best way possible to you.

Would this site exist? You would simply pick the one which you liked the most, and have a great relationship with her, no playing mind games, no manipulation.

And if she decides to no longer behave this way, no problem, you say your goodbyes cordially and move on to the next one.

My point with these obvious, trite remarks is to remind yourself when you were with a girl who had a high interest level. She likely behaved just as above, and things were likely great. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level. You will never have a problem with women anymore, you will never have the need to go to this site, you will never think about red pill / blue pill, alpha / beta, chad, whatever bull**** terms.

This whole site should be replaced with a single line. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level.

Yes trying to raise interest. The other part of the population is men who have been blown out by a selfish cheating wife or selfish cheating LTR GF. His masculinity gets knocked down to zero. He has no game and has to start from the bottom.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

"How to wreck your life with females who dont give a fvck about yuuuuuuuu"

 

[DreamAgain]

Yes trying to raise interest. The other part of the population is men who have been blown out by a selfish cheating wife or selfish cheating LTR GF. His masculinity gets knocked down to zero. He has no game and has to start from the bottom.

I have personally found trying to raise interest is stupid on my part. I need to work on myself to become a better man all around, not for anyone else's external validation.

The signs are always there. Always. We choose to ignore them because the truth hurts, especially if you have a fragile ego to begin with.

 

[sosousage]

so you mean fuc.k deformed whales or wat

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have personally found trying to raise interest is stupid on my part. I need to work on myself to become a better man all around, not for anyone else's external validation.

The signs are always there. Always. We choose to ignore them because the truth hurts, especially if you have a fragile ego to begin with.

Sometimes no matter how exceptional you are your not their type. Whys that a problem?

 

[Spaz]

Sometimes no matter how exceptional you are your not their type. Whys that a problem?

If u r exceptional then you'd have ur pick of women.

Women would be easily replaced and they know it.

That means they have to fight for ur attentions.

If they r not fighting for it then you are not exceptional.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If u r exceptional then you'd have ur pick of women.

Women would be easily replaced and they know it.

That means they have to fight for ur attentions.

If they r not fighting for it then you are not exceptional.

So the non social VP is going to be banging out stripper and young chicks without paying?

 

[Spaz]

So the non social VP is going to be banging out stripper and young chicks without paying?

If he's non social then how is he exceptional in that arena ?

He's a noob and should learn to be exceptional then.

 

[DreamAgain]

Sometimes no matter how exceptional you are your not their type. Whys that a problem?

Not a problem at all, people can be incompatible for many reasons. Different interests, different life views, maybe just she prefers vanilla and you like chocolate chip. It doesn't matter.

What matters is not wasting your precious time and resources.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Not a problem at all, people can be incompatible for many reasons. Different interests, different life views, maybe just she prefers vanilla and you like chocolate chip. It doesn't matter.

What matters is not wasting your precious time and resources.

1. Females choose
2. She must cooperate
3. She must invest

 

[Skyline]

If she isn’t willing to show up on a date, have sex/kiss, or even bother to reply, then delete her information.

You don’t really “raise interest” you kinda just maintain it and then she becomes more comfortable around you so it looks like you “raised her interest.” Interest has to be there to begin with.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I support a stress free policy in this case, being the best version of yourself is surely more beneficial and satisfactory than trying to bullsh1t a woman into thinking that you are better than what you are.

Regarding gauging interest it shouldnt take a war council made of the best generals availabe, just approach her or flirt with her and withing few seconds your gut will let you know how its going, put the ego aside, focus your brain on more important tasks and just humbly listen to your gut.

If you feel confused, worried, annoyed or suffer any discomfort you cant explain then you have your answer about her interest level.

Also I dont buy this seduction, create attraction or raise interest things...a woman knows within 5 seconds of talking to you if she likes you or not and if you are quick enough you can see it in her micro facial expressions even before she talks.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Imagine if women were always respectful, courteous, polite.

Stuck true to their word, dependable, made sure to present themselves in the best way possible to you.

Would this site exist? You would simply pick the one which you liked the most, and have a great relationship with her, no playing mind games, no manipulation.

And if she decides to no longer behave this way, no problem, you say your goodbyes cordially and move on to the next one.

My point with these obvious, trite remarks is to remind yourself when you were with a girl who had a high interest level. She likely behaved just as above, and things were likely great. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level. You will never have a problem with women anymore, you will never have the need to go to this site, you will never think about red pill / blue pill, alpha / beta, chad, whatever bull**** terms.

This whole site should be replaced with a single line. Only invest your time with women who have a high interest level.

AMS only suggests pursuit of high interest. I concur however, it is in my nature to chain gun cold approach, to spin plates, and take my **** out.

I binged a recent rsdtyler vid. I have seen a recent jmluv podcast where he boasts pulling 1010x including 2 trannys lulz

For me, its productive to hit on baeeeees. Its about cultivation of being "that guy" but, IOIs, eye ****in, proximity, double take, kino, staying put, etc its got better ROI.

RSD Tyler asked a room of a hundreds how many men have been told to **** off, that she's gay/lez, that you're ugly, etc and a absurd amount of men experiencing the following. How often do men dare do women the same?

 

[The_411]

I think it comes down to two things.

How to project value to women while remaining congruent, and recognizing when a woman is conveying interest.

Raising interest is a misnomer because if we accept the idea that women make the decision about attractiveness in very short time then it would be pointless to try to raise interest on a decision that has already be made.

The exception here is creating competition, but even then would it not stand that absent competition the woman probably isn’t attracted?

 

[IKO69]

If you're trying to increase her interest level, then you are trying to swim up stream with a ball and chain around your ankle...and that's at best. I know there are situations in which guys pull it off, but it's not the norm and nor is it smart to base your approach off the outliers. Typically when the woman has genuine interest, the guy is in without little effort - he doesn't even have to try minus just basically have decent social etiquette. Women have dealt with guys trying to get into their pants since puberty, they've SEEN AND HEARD it all already - so they know how to assess the value of a guy, not just through observation, but by talking they can genuinely get a feel of the guy....it happens within a relatively short amount of time.

The guys that are having problems and post on here are doing so because they chose the WRONG women, ones that had LITTLE interest in the first place. That's why they get blown off or worst spend MONTHS trying only to get nowhere. You are wasting your valuable time fellas.

A bombshell revelation - the guys we think of having "game" are just smart enough to pick out the right women. See what I said above - just about anything works when the woman is already interested.

 

[logicallefty]

Agreed, we have a lot of posts on here about interest level. But over the past ten years I think this site has became not only a site about pickup and attracting women, but about male preservation. In other words we have a lot of posts on here about damage control for men, far more than 1% IMO. A lot of our conversations are about how we as men can be able to coexist on the same planet with women with minimal risk to a our finances, reputation, career, belongings, time, and mental and physical health.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Interest level is a metric by which we can measure our growth as men.

In this case, I define Interest level as "Receiving obvious interest and body language invitations from women in day-to-day life".

Just today I decided to visit a new grocery store in the area and was carpet bombed with ladies showing interest. It's not because of how I look physically, but rather because of who they sense I am... What I project. Ten years ago I was clueless and virtually incapable of attracting women. Thanks to SoSuave that is no longer a problem.

Women are a mirror, men. Use that mirror to gauge who you are and what you project.

 

[Skyline]

Just to add to what others have said:

Women like you or they don’t. There’s no low or mediocre interest. The way to attract women is by focusing on yourself and raising your value. Not by saying some pick up line or smooth move- these are good qualities to have but they will not create or raise interest.

Remember, if a woman is attracted to you then you can pretty much do anything. You can only maintain interest, not create it.

 

[Poonani Maker]

It's very few women that just everything I say is the Right thing to say to her because her voice or her personality or her welcoming always sparks my brain to create a line or inflection that spurs interest in her mind and every time we see each other we never get put off by one another or angry or in a bad mood with one another. We just 'click.' I have one like that going on 4 years now, she's a mom, a teacher, a former librarian, with a chirpy voice (always has turned me on or sparked my mind to love her in speech and other ways of course - the woman who changed me forever in 2005 had that same voice, think June Carter or Reese Whitherspoon you know A-type). My first impression to her landed perfect (like a gymnast and SHE is very gymnasty), and all throughout our 'liking' of each other has stayed strong even building. She's 4 years OLDER than me, but my mind shunts this knowledge, though I know my eyes seeing her declothed would wince the sag and fatness (though she's recently lost weight, doesn't matter cause 'I' know past early 30s, most women's bodies are not to my liking) so maybe we could just lose control and not get fully naked, that would be ideal. She's married. I feel a strong urge from myself and her everytime we meet though, how I say her name how she says mine and how we must hide our affections from one another from others present because all of us know she's married. She's very sexual in being like in secret she lets slivers get shown in smile from the side. She's (or was) involved in church. She probably sees me as being a validation of sorts of that she's still "got it" (attraction). It's purely her spirit and voice that attracts me though and her acceptance of me or dropping everything for me and sexual word play with me overtones/undertones that get me aroused many hours after an encounter with her. It's youthful. It's the sneakiness of it all also that draws me in or I can tell she's spinning a spell on me and I'll return it on her. She's kinda a mercenary in her work and from a state in the midwest - middle of nowhere - or obscurity (cold place) but she has to work and is certainly Not rich just middle or low-middle class. She's a mom and a reader/educator. If we were to be alone (completely and without a shadow of a doubt for the next few hours) I wonder if she would force the issue because she has grabbed my hands before (kind of alarming or surprising last year). She likes to play though. It would be dangerous.