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I was reading this man explain why he's proud of his ugly woman. It was started by a self-professed ugly woman asking a question, and there is a particular comment by a man that got me thinking:
https://www.quora.com/Ive-been-told...ver-been-in-a-relationship-Why-is-life-unfair
https://www.quora.com/Ive-been-told...ver-been-in-a-relationship-Why-is-life-unfair
I've been told by a lot of men that I'm an "ugly girl". I'm in my late 30's and have never been in a relationship. Why is life unfair?
My opinion: If this woman is in the USA, she must be extraordinarily butt-ugly to not have some desperate man not want to pursue her. And this guy who responded is trying to justify his reasons for having an ugly woman so as to not admit that he could not attain a better one.I am a man. 30 Years old.
I loved a girl. She was ugly by society’s standards. She was 29 when we met.
When showed her photograph to some of significant ones, they surprised that how can I fall in love with ‘this’ girl.
‘This’ girl was dark, she was a bit fat. She was not tall. She had her teeth protruding and she had not used braces. She used to sweat a lot.
In society, where fairness is the beauty standard, you can imagine this girl was not at all beautiful.
When I showed her photograph to one of friend, she laughed at me, and got angry too. She said that how can I fall in love with such ugly person. She even said that she even does not look like a women.
Now, why did I fall into love with her?
Why I am telling this to you?
- She was sincere in her work.
- She and I used to have discussions on many topics including our work.
- She was very much honest. She accepted the most severe mistakes in her life. of course, she was at fault but then she believed in me and accepted everything.
- She was earnest and intense. She was earnest in her intentions and she was intense in her love. Both the qualities, I liked so much.
- She was messy and complicated, but she was also a strong person. She was smiling after all that she had faced in her life.
You find your calling in your life. Try to work hard, even it seems hard. Try to find happiness in your work and just go on living your life.
- Those people who have told you that you’re ugly are themselves ugly. Those who cannot go beyond bodily beauty, cannot see the inner beauty and should not be taken seriously at all.
- Life is never fair and it was not never fair - not to you but to most of us. So it is in vain to complain. Seriously, I also feel that life is unfair to me and I am not very much positive about life and living but then I try not be negative, that is it !!
- I suggest to you - to never take these men seriously. Our society is flawed, absolutely flawed and hypocrite.
(I am kind of practical, though I may sound pessimist but I can’t say things - like fly or chase your dreams or something like this because I myself have been alone and I know, how it is difficult to tread the path alone, let alone ‘fly’.)
Thank you. I hope you will read my answer and find something useful!