Do U think chicks think that because they are settling due to The Wall, that they won't have to do certain sexual acts that they would do with Chad?

[MatureDJ]

I was watching this, and it got me interested:

I can remember being in an early-teen social circle where there were some chicks that seemed to do wilder things with the lads in their previous social circle that with the lads in my social circle, and it p!ssed me and the other lads off.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It's a good thing the videos I made with my kittens stay private, I guess.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

100%

Women have a different concept of "deserving" than men.

If your wife, the mother of your kids is not as hot as that sexy girl you banged in your 20s you still believe she deserves more than her for what SHE DOES.

A wife instead believe that a man who married her and with whom she has a family doesnt deserve anything more that the chad she banged in her early 20s for what HE DOES because HE IS NOT as top tier as that chad.

This is also the reason why no married man drops his family to run away with his mistress while we have plenty of married women that dump their family to run away (or try to) with their chad coworker.

 

[SW15]

Do U think chicks think that because they are settling due to The Wall

I don't fully accept the premise of this thread. The Wall is a major cope and isn't all that applicable.

A lot of women believe in not settling. Many thirsty guys in their 30s/40s will commit to an aging spinster. Sometimes the women won't settle with them and will continue to carousel ride.

There are women who will commit to a lesser men than they could have had at 20-25 when they are 33+.

Courtney Ryan is a well known example of a woman who had the self-awareness to realize that the most physically attractive Alpha males weren't giving her the commitment level she was seeking. As a result, she found a dweeby beta male with $$ and got a commitment from him. She did this well before The Wall hit, as she did this in her mid-20s.

they won't have to do certain sexual acts that they would do with Chad?

The first words of this video is that it is an age old situation. I think it is possible that women are less inclined to do some wilder sex acts after they are 30+. However, that's not entirely true. Swinger couples at sex clubs tend to be married women 35-65.

When a woman settles in her 30s after riding the penis carousel for 10+ years, they are often settling for a lesser man. Even Courtney Ryan did this, though her less physically attractive man could offer her money. With lower level of pure attraction, a lot of women aren't going to be as wild for a man. In addition, since women did a lot of wilder stuff earlier in life, they are often also less inclined to do some new wild stuff, with the exception of swinging/open relationships. The combination of those factors can annoy a woman's current partner though they are usually betas with scarcity and end up just living with it.

 

[pipeman84]

I'll add this to @SW15 above post:

(timestamp 21:08)
Do you believe a guy who hugs his soon to be wife like that is in position to demand certain sexual acts?

 

[LTG71]

The body language in this video seems awkward. Seems like a gay male friend playing a role to promote her content. The hug and space between them just looks off. I doubt she’ll be offering her wildest to this guy.

 

[SW15]

The hug and space between them just looks off. I doubt she’ll be offering her wildest to this guy.

She offered her wildest to the guys she met in college, although per her LinkedIn, she did not go to a major party college.

She's an Ohioan. She's in the Cleveland area now but did go to high school in the Cincinnati area. Cleveland and Cincinnati are populous areas but not considered influential cities upon US culture anymore.

Had Courtney Ryan spent her formative years in a more exciting US metro area (examples -- Dallas, Houston, Metro NYC, Miami-Fort Lauderdale, Los Angeles, San Diego, Las Vegas, or Phoenix), there's less of a chance she would have stepped off the penis carousel in her mid-20s. In many ways, Courtney Ryan is a basic Midwestern White woman. There have been episodes on her channel where she has brought on some single friends/acquaintances from around Cleveland and those women seem more like women of bigger US cities.

Courtney seemed to get fed up with Chads earlier in life and was more willing to settle than most US women.

 

[Nitrozv20]

I'll add this to @SW15 above post:

(timestamp 21:08)
Do you believe a guy who hugs his soon to be wife like that is in position to demand certain sexual acts?

thats who shes married to? lmao wtf

 

[SW15]

thats who shes married to? lmao wtf

Teddy Baldassarre & Courtney Ryan got married in 2023. They've been a couple since at least 2020-2021.

WTF is the appropriate reaction. He is a rather dweeby guy. Money and her willingness to settle for a non-Chad looks guy are the reasons why she is married right now. Most Millennial women won't do what Courtney did, especially so early in life.

 

[Nitrozv20]

Teddy Baldassarre & Courtney Ryan got married in 2023. They've been a couple since at least 2020-2021.

WTF is the appropriate reaction. He is a rather dweeby guy. Money and her willingness to settle for a non-Chad looks guy are the reasons why she is married right now. Most Millennial women won't do what Courtney did, especially so early in life.

Beta bucks lol

 

[SW15]

Beta bucks lol

You are right. Teddy is her Beta Bucks guy. You said it more simply than I've said it.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Your average woman over 27 is not dreaming about some younger bad boy Chad that can provide her the Teenage Dream experience. This is all romanticized from books and coping tactics.

 

[SW15]

Your average woman over 27 is not dreaming about some younger bad boy Chad that can provide her the Teenage Dream experience. This is all romanticized from books and coping tactics.

What is a 28+ woman dreaming about for her relationship life when she is not in a committed relationship?

 

[CornbreadFed]

What is a 28+ woman dreaming about for her relationship life when she is not in a committed relationship?

The notion that women 28+ are dreaming of dating some older Andrew Tatesh oligarch rich bro, Hypemax, Hyper-masculine guy is complete bullshvt perpetuated by the manosphere and pills.

First, I can only speak for white/white influenced women with degrees and careers. These women tend to dream about dating three types of guys:

Tupac with a degree- This is basically an edgy/fun Weekend Warrior Chad that has adapted to corporate life or has a decent paying business or side hustle.

Golden Retriever Energy Beta Brad- This guy is desired by the more control type white women, but this guy is sociable and the life of the party but knows who holds his leash at the end of the day.

Mr. Show off to your friends and family- I see a lot of these guys desired amongst Asian & Black women, but this guy is a superstar and tends to be in a well deserving field or business and aggressively self-motivated and Type A oriented. He knows how to put on a show for her friends and family to make them go "Wow girl"!

-For Black and Hispanic women- I can see them going for a bad boy or pretty boy because they tend to hold on to the Teenage Dream Pvssy Tingles longer than White and Asian women...Sometimes they never let it go.

 

[SW15]

I can only speak for white/white influenced women with degrees and careers. These women tend to dream about dating three types of guys:

As a 40 year old White male, I have typically been interacting with 28+ bougie White women with degrees and careers in recent years. I found a lot of what you wrote relatable to my own experiences.

Tupac with a degree- This is basically an edgy/fun Weekend Warrior Chad that has adapted to corporate life or has a decent paying business or side hustle.

This is generally the type that bougie White women seek on the swipe apps. Bougie White women tend to ride the penis carousel with this type and are hoping to lock this down. This man is an elusive man. Rollo has said that women spend years chasing a man who is "alpha with a side of beta" but that man doesn't really exist.

A 28+ woman who is 7.5+ in looks might be able to lock down one of these men.

Golden Retriever Energy Beta Brad- This guy is desired by the more control type white women, but this guy is sociable and the life of the party but knows who holds his leash at the end of the day.

A lot of bougie White women will settle for this type if they decide to settle since they can't get a commitment from "Tupac with a degree". Golden Retriever Energy Beta Brad is someone often plucked from a social circle, though it can happen through other methods.

28+ White women would prefer to meet this type through a real life method. Whereas 28+ White women on swipe apps show a strong preference for the "Tupac with a degree" type, the Golden Retriever Energy Beta Brad guy has more of a fighting chance in a real life method.

There are many Golden Retriever Energy Beta Brads on swipe apps though and they are getting frustrated. The average frustrated chumps type of the late 1990s - mid-2000s has mostly moved onto swipe apps now and out of the nightlife venues.

 

[CornbreadFed]

This is generally the type that bougie White women seek on the swipe apps. Bougie White women tend to ride the penis carousel with this type and are hoping to lock this down. This man is an elusive man. Rollo has said that women spend years chasing a man who is "alpha with a side of beta" but that man doesn't really exist.

A 28+ woman who is 7.5+ in looks might be able to lock down one of these men.

I agree, these are the types of guys that tend to kill it on swipe apps. I think I would fall in to this category because I have that rogue vagabond Sasuke Uchiha type energy with a decent corporate job. A lot of these guys on the apps can be frauds though and women get extremely dispirited when they burned or catfished by them. When women are complaining about men or taking a break, it is usually from a negative reaction with this guy.

A lot of bougie White women will settle for this type if they decide to settle since they can't get a commitment from "Tupac with a degree". Golden Retriever Energy Beta Brad is someone often plucked from a social circle, though it can happen through other methods.

I do agree that these guys are generally swiped from social circles and not the apps. From my experience, a lot of women will get with a "Tupac with a degree" and try and try and convert him in to a "Golden Retriever Energy Beta Brad", so a lot of these guys might have been in the "Tupac with a degree" category when they initially met.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Do you believe a guy who hugs his soon to be wife like that is in position to demand certain sexual acts?

He's a watch nerd. Techno geeks are rarely good at intimacy.

 

[SW15]

When women are complaining about men or taking a break, it is usually from a negative reaction with this guy.

White women with bachelor's degrees or higher tend to complain a lot. TikTok and YouTube are filled with videos with these 28-44 White women complaining about their dating lives. Yes, I agree they are often complaining about the "Tupac with a degree" type and their inability to get a commitment from them.

This woman went viral for being a 30 something in the 6-7 range and not being able to secure a commitment from a top tier man. She is realizing she's going to need to settle for a mid-tier beta and it annoys her.

I do agree that these guys are generally swiped from social circles and not the apps. From my experience, a lot of women will get with a "Tupac with a degree" and try and try and convert him in to a "Golden Retriever Energy Beta Brad", so a lot of these guys might have been in the "Tupac with a degree" category when they initially met.

Rollo has accurately mentioned how beta-ization occurs as time passes in relationships. It's possible that a guy goes from the "Tupac with a degree" type and turns into a beta male.

One of my friends is a 6'4" guy who was an NCAA athlete in a country club sport. He has a triple digit notch count and was very much into nightlife and seduction in the first few years after I met him. He got into an LTR and later married a woman and turned into a typical beta male. I'm not sure how a man goes from getting a lot of casual sex from nightlife venues to a guy who gets an LTR from a bar approach and becomes a typical beta male.

Another thing that happens is that women's social circles weaken as they age. As a woman progresses into her 30s, more and more of her friends & acquaintances will get married and have babies. The 30 something woman who is unmarried then lacks female friends who are able to accompany her to nightlife venues. As a result, she becomes more reliant upon swipe apps or her Instagram DMs unless she's able to field enough approaches in non-bar venues. Most bougie White women won't be fielding enough approaches in their day-to-day lives at non-bar venues. All a typical bougie White woman would need to do to field more non-bar approaches is not wear earbuds to the gym or urban outdoor walking path for 2-4 weeks. However, this idea doesn't always occur to these so-called intelligent bougie White women. It doesn't often matter either because they have enough volume of men in their DMs or their swipe app queues to keep them busy and keep them from noticing their lack of in-person approaches in day-to-day life.

It's not uncommon to see a 32-37 year old White woman who barely gets approached in the real world have 200+ men in her swipe queue, in-app swipe app messages, and her DMs combined.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I’m very vanilla. But most women I’ve been with are pretty sexually wild. I look like a ‘pervy pornstar’ so I guess that attracts a certain kind of woman. They assume I’ve done very naughty things with ex-s but won’t with them. Which gets them upset. One assumed I munched my Zoomer ex-s a$$ and was miffed I wouldn’t do that to her. I told her ‘I don’t even munch carpet. So I certainly won’t munch a$$.’. So I guess women might feel men are more sexual with a previous lover. And get upset about it.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Wall or not the women in your life will follow whatever lead you set out for them

Its why most of the time women won't give "nice guys" a chance and friend zone them because they know these guys are going to be incapable of sexually arousing them or leading them in the bedroom

Most women have absolutley no limit to what they will do sexually its just what type of man / men will take them there