Do these Techniques work for LTR's, Yes, but:

[Sapiens]

Do what we learn in this site work for long terms relationships?

Yes, it does, but the object changes dramatically. Initially you are just trying to get laid.

But once you have your fill, what next? You want to stabilize, change your lifestyle, and dare I say, “settle down?”

The point becomes to get to “know” the woman.

Is she loaded with baggage you don’t want to lug around and can’t live with it? Is she a nut? Does she have major issues that you can’t help her overcome? Is she set in her ways? Is she thoughtful, caring, confident, smart, sincere, loyal, helpful, humorous, productive and/or other things you value?

Remember, once she sleeps with you, the dynamics of the game change. Once, your need is satisfied how can she keep you interested long enough for you to get to know her?

My 2 cents.

-Sapiens

 

[locarius]

Are these not all things you should find out before sleeping with her?

Ask my wing... I've opened sets and just walked away because they seem weird, and / or I have no interest in wasting my time getting to know them more. Some women are disqualified as soon as I meet them.

For example, sync and I met this girl who said her only passion in life was smoking weed. Next.

 

[Sapiens]

Originally posted by locarius
Are these not all things you should find out before sleeping with her?

Excellent point! You are a smart man.

The problem is when you just want to get laid first because you are a walking hard-on, ask questions later.

You get the point. Good post.

-Sapiens

 

[locarius]

If I was sexual with a girl after just meeting her I would know she is not LTR material FOR ME. How many other guys has she done that with? How easy will it be for some other guy to seduce her and get her to cheat?

Sleeping with random girls does not give off the impression that you have the frame that YOU ARE THE ****ING PRIZE.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Sapiens
Do what we learn in this site work for long terms relationships?

Yes, it does, but the object changes dramatically. Initially you are just trying to get laid.

But once you have your fill, what next? You want to stabilize, change your lifestyle, and dare I say, “settle down?”

The point becomes to get to “know” the woman.

Is she loaded with baggage you don’t want to lug around and can’t live with it? Is she a nut? Does she have major issues that you can’t help her overcome? Is she set in her ways? Is she thoughtful, caring, confident, smart, sincere, loyal, helpful, humorous, productive and/or other things you value?

Remember, once she sleeps with you, the dynamics of the game change. Once, your need is satisfied how can she keep you interested long enough for you to get to know her?

My 2 cents.

-Sapiens

BS.

Nothing "changes". The "technique" as you call it (it's more of a lifestyle) stays the same. It is the romantic foundation of your relationship. The more platonic aspects are an ADDITIONAL layer that comes into play ON TOP of all the "game".

 

[Sapiens]

Re: Re: Do these Techniques work for LTR's, Yes, but:

Originally posted by squirrels
BS.

Nothing "changes". The "technique" as you call it (it's more of a lifestyle) stays the same. It is the romantic foundation of your relationship. The more platonic aspects are an ADDITIONAL layer that comes into play ON TOP of all the "game".

LOL, Tell me this after you have "kids", the house, mini-van and the woman you care for in the same bed with you everynight.

Anyhow, just sharing my 2 cents with you. You are quite welcome to disagree with me. My purpose of sharing knowledge is to give back from where I received very much.

Cheers,

-Sapiens

 

[frivolousz21]

there is no games in a LTR.


an LTR is simple.

the reason most of the guys here are anti-LTR

is becuase they are afraid to get close to a women.

because they fell hard after becoming a needy afc in a relationship.


a women in a ltr is your best friend(platonic) lover(romantic) and partner(companionship)


you dont change anything.

being CONFIDENT doesnt mean your perfect..and when she learns of your imperfections and how u try to make urself better...she will love you more for that...than a BS fasaude of being perfect...


if you want a LTR..you should hold off on sleeping with her until your connecition with her is strong

 

[spider_007]

LTR questions
http://jconserv.net/djltr/index.php?sid=1599a7ec1f8250edb122fcd39199318d


hey friv. seen this yat???

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=86769

 

[frivolousz21]

LOL.....I really hope you guys dont think im like that.


its not like that at all.

but that was some giddy shyt!