Jair213
Master Don Juan
watt u guys think?
being a nice guy means you have issues? wtf???floydb25 said:Yes, but most nice guys aren't interested in them, since being a nice guy means you have issues, and seek after those who fulfill them, or have similar issues. Ex: Trying to save crazy *****es.
Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
^This.bradd80 said:of course girls like nice guys as long as you look like and are as famous as matthew mcconaughey
Ha ha, well said.Mike32ct said:Nice guy = slightly above average to ugly guy with insecurities
Bad boys = hot to good looking guy with insecurities.
Yeah, this too. But neither party lasts with women (or men). Being a nice guy or bad boy isn't ideal for anyone. There's other things you should work on, in addition to looks. The whole package, if you will. Being good looking doesn't mean much in the long run. There's gotta be more. It also depends on what you want. Not to downplay looks, as they are vitally important.Mike32ct said:^This.
Please understand that the whole nice guy vs. jerk thing is one big SMOKESCREEN to hide what is really going on. It's about LOOKS.
If she considers you hot, it doesn't matter if you are nice or a jerk.
If she doesn't find you attractive, being nicer or more of a pr$ck isn't going to change things.
Do nice guys often have issues? Sure, but it's more about their average or below average looks that hold them back. Bad boys have plenty of insecuritues too (of a different kind), but get a free pass because of their looks.
Nice guy = slightly above average to ugly guy with insecurities
Bad boys = hot to good looking guy with insecurities.
Do whatever you can to optimize your looks.
This. I alluded to this in another post. Looks are one of those make or break qualities along with fame, money, charisma, game, etc.Mike32ct said:If she considers you hot, it doesn't matter if you are nice or a jerk.
If she doesn't find you attractive, being nicer or more of a pr$ck isn't going to change things.
This goes for guys as well, dudes don't want to be known among their friends as the one with the ugly girlfriend. Just pay attention around here for a while and see how many times posters will admit that the range of women they'll sleep with is larger than the range of women they'd want to be seen with in public. They only want their friends to know about the 8s and 9s they've laid, not the 7s and below.K2000kidd said:I often wonder if when a woman is concerned about looks she's worried about what her friends think more than her own level of attraction. once upon a time me and this girl were vibing real well or so i had thought, dinner at my mother's putput golf, made out twice and even got to fngrbng it. Then i met her friends then she seemingly dropped offf the face of the earth.
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.