Do people think you're gay if...

[ghost28]

You're good looking and don't have a girlfriend? I haven't been dating lately, and people always ask me if I got a girlfriend. I tell them "no" and they have this look of "Oh, he must be gay". Of course they don't say this, but when people ask me, and I tell them I don't have a G/F they think I'm lying or something to cover up that I'm gay. And I'm not. Well actually. One friend of mine (who I see only occasionally) asked me "Do you have a girlfriend yet?" I said "No". He then replied with "Are you gay?"

What's with this?

 

[sexy_kuta]

i usually tell them i dont have a GF yet but im seeing someone a few times a month

 

[Centaurion]

Depends. If you look like a tutti fruity complete with the 'wrist' and the pink shirt, then yeah, people might think you are an assrider if you don't have a gf.

But on the other hand, if you're a normal guy I got no idea why they ask if you're gay. Maybe it's Freudian slip on their part of some sort? Next time as them if they are gay.

 

[Matthias]

Friend, I used to (note "used to") have this very problem.

I tend to keep my romantic life to myself. I don't talk about it much with friends, family, or anyone really. I find a girl, go on a few dates, we break up, I move on. That's just how I prefer to operate. I don't inform people becuase I feel no need to.

Unfortunately, this is the main reason why many people think I'm gay. They think I've been single for five years. I mean, voice, clothing, body language, etc. They all factor in for some people. But for me it's just the lack of communication.

Pretty much, I'd say, watch a few episodes of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy and try your hardest to NOT mimic those guys.

Matthias

 

[ScrewIt]

this is a funny post really. i remember back 2 years ago when i was asked this by 2 acquantances i knew, i replied "no, and im not gay." ...hah we had a good laugh.


However other times in the past i've been questioned if i was a player.

but i agree with matthias, usually i tend not to tell anyone about my dating life. that is unless they ask first.

 

[the_reader]

lol, I hear ya bro.

Only thing is that, I have girls chasing me ocassionally, and I do date ocassionaly, but none of the girls I feel can keep my interest, they either get too annoying too fast, or they're just fuked up. So I never have a steady gf, ppl esp girls keep asking me if I'm gay.

My answer. No, I just haven't found anyone worth my time, there's too many stupid people out there.

I don't care if they think I'm gay, because I get the action that I need from girls, I don't need any LTR's to prove I'm not gay.

But ya, mine's also due to a lack of communication. I don't think it's any of other people business what I do.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Eh, I've was accused by many people of being gay from about ages 17-25. No big deal homie.

 

[S.S.N. 318]

Originally posted by ScrewIt

but i agree with matthias, usually i tend not to tell anyone about my dating life. that is unless they ask first.

same here as well cuz.......

 

[Gonzalo]

Am I the only one who sees the opportunity for C&F in here?

- Are you seeing someone?
- I'm trying to keep it down to about five girls

A David D. classic. Straight answers are usually so boring anyways.

Originally posted by ghost28
One friend of mine (who I see only occasionally) asked me "Do you have a girlfriend yet?" I said "No".

- No. Why, are you looking for someone? (even funnier if it's a guy who asks).


Keep it funny, guys. People will realize that the joke is on them.

 

[blinkwatt]

Gonzalo,you da man for picking up on the oppurtunity for some c & f.
If someone ask you, "do you have a girlfriend?". Just say "If you want to go out on a date just ask". Or if a guy ask respond with "No homo here" and walk away.