Do Not Stand For This ****e!!!!

[jakeyboy]

fellow DJs and brothers of the board

i have seen way too many posts about how the chick is so flakey.. what should i do? she didnt call me back.. what should i do? she stood me up, what should i do???
should i call her? or try to date her again???


the answer is....


NO

man, where are your balls at?

Go get a life for gods sake

she stands you up? leave her be

she doesnt return your calls? who cares?

you are a strong and powerful man who has goals in his life... why sit around moping about some biatch who didnt call?

don't stand for flakey chicks

its unacceptable

if you try to date her time after time even when she's flaked on you so many million times, its like giving her an axe and telling her to fell your balls.

NONONO... we cannot stand for this type of behavious. only exceptions are when she's deathly ill or has a reasonable verified explanation

because too many chicks i've known in my lifetime are nothing but mere **** teasers

the typical scenario:

boy gets girls number, boy calls girls number, boy makes date with girl, boy feels happy, girl doesnt show on day of date, boy gets frustrated and calls and calls the girl, girl doesnt answer

its a form of panic attack most girls are capable of driving men on.

because the fact is you tried to call her, and surely she will know that you tried to, because of a caller ID or answering machine perhaps (if you left a message)

and the fact that she didnt bother to call you back really ticks you off. and you sit around wondering why she didnt.

WELL, DONT FOR BALLS SAKE

you got to accept that at any time you ask a girl out, she is bound to flake on you. if she doesnt, then very well, you guys go out and have a good time, she flakes? no harm done brothers. there are many more fishes in the sea (as cliche as this may sound)

so don't stand for flakiness, you only give her one shot to prove herself worthy of your presence.

after all, if she doesnt call you back, or makes stupid excuses not to see you, how much interest could she possibly have in you?? think about it.


-TravisJake

 

[Lifeforce]

You get both my thumbs up. Good post.

You know women test men alot, we hear about this all the time. It is time that mean test the women too. Are they happy to see you? Do they carry a part of the conversation? Do they return calls? Do they give out their numbers willingly? If There is a no she has a low interest in most cases. So listen to the Jakeyboyher. NO!

 

[dereklearnslow]

See...half of you advise to NEXT a girl who flakes out or doesn't return your calls, but the other half advises to keep at it, to show determination....

WHO TO BELIEVE!!?!?

 

[jakeyboy]

Originally posted by dereklearnslow
See...half of you advise to NEXT a girl who flakes out or doesn't return your calls, but the other half advises to keep at it, to show determination....

WHO TO BELIEVE!!?!?

say NO mate, thats personally works for me.

i've been flaked on too many time already to know what its like.

once i got fed up with a girl who flaked on me twice in a row, and i stopped all contact with her. a few weeks later it was she begging me to go out with her.

some girls do this because they just want to test you, like in the above example, i got the hell outta there, and when she saw i couldnt be tested, but she was still interested in me, so her walls came crashing down.

some girls have logical explanations though, see how trustworthy she is, if you really want to give her another shot after she's flaked on you for a very good reason, then go ahead, but 2 times is the absolute maximum.

look at what Lifeforce said, :"if there is a no, she has a low interest in most cases"

and to state my case, if you so determinedly call and call to contact her when she doesnt pick up, just picture your selfworth hit rock bottom in her eyes.

how cool is an alphamale who sits at the phone all day long keying in numbers of chicks who never ever call him back ever?

its simply not worth it, you called her once, left the ball in her court, or if you told her to call you back, and she doesnt, and you just keep on trying to show DETERMINATION, i think what she will see instead is DESPERATION

we are men, gotta act like them don't you agree?

 

[dereklearnslow]

Thank you Jake.

 

[Jariel]

Damn true!!

Flaking is a cowardly way of letting you know she's not interested. Sometimes there's a reasonable explanation and dates have to be rescheduled, but if she's outright ignoring your calls, take the hint!

Good post! I hope guys take note.

 

[jakeyboy]

Originally posted by Jariel
Flaking is a cowardly way of letting you know she's not interested. take the hint!

well put mate. women are cowards. i wish more guys would understand though. at least it got absorbed by a few people! this post has served its purpose.




p.s. and you're welcome derek, glad to have made my point