Once you have the self control to look her in the eye and tell her to go fvck her Mother you'll have courage which supercedes
Nice one, Karma.
Basically, some women look at men as weak and inferior, incapable of handling a "real" woman.
They want to see if you really are what you appear to be.
They want to know if the confidence is real. If you are sincere in your interest in her. And they want to know just what IS your intention with her.
women have built walls and sh*t test after sh*t test to weed through the phonies, and the users and abusers.
Of course, that doesn't explain the women who are still in "love" with the pill popping, alcoholic, unemployed wife beater, and why she stays with
him.
Many women have become bitter and disillusioned with men. And vice versa.
They
say they want a nice guy.
But they're not
attracted to the nice guy.
So they
settle with the nice guy, and so begins her Oscar worthy performance.
That's why so much of the seduction community knowledge is called "counter intuitive".
One of Lance Mason's programs is even called "Everything you were tasught about women is wrong." or something like that.
Women get frustrated at he flowers, candy, cards, etc.
They don't understand WHY you do that.
"
Why are you doing this for me, when you don't even know me?"
THIS is what she is thinking when you go the AFC route with a woman you "like", and you hope "she will like you back."
They want real,masculine men who aren't
afraid or intimidated by them. Real men who aren't looking to please her every whim.
This doesn't mean he won't want to make her happy and satisfy her.
But the
supplication, the servant attitude CANNOT be there for a REAL romantic, and healthy Male/Female relationshiop to exist and for a long time.
"Don't do what I say, DO WHAT I NEED."
This is what women are really saying.
Face it, many males are NOT doing what women NEED.
But realize this, they were NEVER TAUGHT this. And the little bit of "wisdom"
about "dating" or "relationships" is pure Sh*t. Has nothing to do with real relationship dynamics in attraction, or even less , seduction.
Males (Dr. Phil anyone?)trying to blindly teach other males what women say they want, NOT what women NEED.
This is why women will be drawn to the
masculine man, no matter how unsavory. Because at least his
Masculinity serves as the Compass, the
Polarity a
woman needs.
As a male,
if you act like a female,
you will draw a masculine Female.
As a male,
if you are a masculine male,
you will draw a Femenine female.
What is frustrating to men too is, that many women have no patience or comapsssion or understadngn that Men are lacking in Rites of Passage into well entrenched and manifested Masculine Traits.
They see a male, and they immediately distrust huim, they are on guard and ready for your "approach".
"All Men are Dogs."
"Men are only interested in one thing."
But they don't take into account that many, many, men have never been taught anything about women, except some locker room teenage bullsh*t. Even then, it's just blind hit/miss. Blind luck knowledge.
But women don't see this. They don't appreciate it. They only see a male and they may think:
"He should know what he's doing. He is a Man, isn't he?"
And they get frustrated at this.
But they don't see how society by and large has completely neglected the notion of Masculine Role Models.
So they expect, as women do, for Men to know everything.
Which we can. But Goddamn, not every guy gets this chance. But women often don't see that.
Women want to be successful at their careers, and as wives, and mothers.
Not saying that does not have it's own unique set of challenges.
But men must understand their place in life AT THE EARLIEST AGE POSSIBLE.
They must start realizing their masculinity as soon as possible.
They must start their direction in life the soonest possible.
But this not the norm. Not in modern society.
Hence, what you see aorund you is the legacy of this disaster we've inherited.
