Now, when i say do martial arts i dont mean some pansy karate class or something, i mean something that you have to train and train hard for, like kickboxing, wrestling, pankration, boxing , MMA...etc..
The reasoning is this
A. Once you know you can beat anyone then strangely nobody can end up bothering you anymore by talking trash or whatever
B. Confidence improves a million times over because you know all the hard grueling hours you put in , the teeth and bones that have cracked and the opponents you have defeated.
C. If you get hung up on a girl or some other stupid ****, i have found the best way to get rid of it is through serious training and some nice full contact bouts to boot.
I started off in martial arts just goin to class and such for somthing to do and i liked fighting, this was back when i was the major afc. Then i really started to get down with girl problems and found this site, then i got really really hung up on one girl and decided the only way to get it out of my head was to start some serious training. I proceeded to run a ton, lift more (i was already in good shape, but i wanted to become more then human lol) and hit the bag for hours...
This took my mind off the girls, i no longer gave a **** what anyone thought, i had supreme confidence......and now that type of training has become habit more then work for me....i actually look forward to it. Becoming so involved in fighting has also made me appreciate the arts more and i read alot more and work on music alot more now...... martial arts is a great key to becoming a well rounded individual in the doorway of life.
PS. full contact matches are fun
The reasoning is this
A. Once you know you can beat anyone then strangely nobody can end up bothering you anymore by talking trash or whatever
B. Confidence improves a million times over because you know all the hard grueling hours you put in , the teeth and bones that have cracked and the opponents you have defeated.
C. If you get hung up on a girl or some other stupid ****, i have found the best way to get rid of it is through serious training and some nice full contact bouts to boot.
I started off in martial arts just goin to class and such for somthing to do and i liked fighting, this was back when i was the major afc. Then i really started to get down with girl problems and found this site, then i got really really hung up on one girl and decided the only way to get it out of my head was to start some serious training. I proceeded to run a ton, lift more (i was already in good shape, but i wanted to become more then human lol) and hit the bag for hours...
This took my mind off the girls, i no longer gave a **** what anyone thought, i had supreme confidence......and now that type of training has become habit more then work for me....i actually look forward to it. Becoming so involved in fighting has also made me appreciate the arts more and i read alot more and work on music alot more now...... martial arts is a great key to becoming a well rounded individual in the doorway of life.
PS. full contact matches are fun