Do Looks = Confidence?

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Just think of 'looks' as the body under the clothes and the face... I mean, if you look good, then as long as you don't dress ridiculously you're effect on women doesn't change much at all...

Say you look ugly but wear hot clothes, you ain't gonna land the same girls that a good lookin guy dressed more simply would land... once you get into the good lookin realms then things such as clothes and the rest come into play with regards to looks
 

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Originally posted by xblitz44x
Hollow,

Everything is a perception. EVERYTHING. A model could think they, themselves, look ugly, and undesireable, thus having zero confidence. At the same time, the model could think they are good looking due to the extensive validation going on in model industry, yet could realize that they are nothing BUT looks, and feel that once a person's learns about the REAL them, they will bail....thus they have ZERO confidence still.

Confidence isn't what this site makes it out to be. This site is mistaking confidence for a quick burst of bullshyt affirmations that fuels them just enough to get themselves into a situation with a girl. That's not confidence. What's confidence is to realize that we are ALL fvcked up in some way or another, and are led into each experience to learn about ourselves in order to work things out. What we look like is irrelevant, because each girl will have their own perceptions.

Fvck yeah, Blitz. That was probably the best definition of confidence I've heard yet. I respect what you've said man.
 

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Originally posted by Ashley Chuckles
Just think of 'looks' as the body under the clothes and the face...

Only Ugly and fat pepole say that

Well as of what i know...........
 
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