Do i honestly have any chance?

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i just want you guys to tell me if with chin advancement and maxilla + double jaw surgery if i stand a chance with a girl. what am i? a 2? a 3 in a good day? i dont even know what to change. i noticed today that i have ptosis in one eye (pics came from the orthodontist) and the strabismus still exists, not always, but when i'm tired or nervous it shows (it was way worse). please help guys, i really am tired of all this **** and without hope.

2010

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2015

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i know now some of you will probably change your minds, when you said it was all in my head. i just wanted to be normal, respected, instead of ridiculed. did all these surgeries for what? i got 0 results, im still ****ed.
 

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You look more like a normal man in the 2015 ones.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
you didnt answer my question.
Oh right... Looking normal won't get you anywhere but if you hit the gym and get cut, make sure your posture is good, get a new haircut to take advantage of your balding, make sure you don't have a pissy vibe about you and that you don't look as downtrodden as you do on the photos - then sure. And keep up the surgeries.
 

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Sorry wtf is your issue? Guys that look like you get women all the time... I have a friend that is worse looking than you and he gets better looking women than I do and more of them, and I am a pretty good looking dude. So pick up your confidence, pick up your game, and quit being insecure. The problem isn't your looks, the problem is your lack of confidence.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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MountainSlide said:
Sorry wtf is your issue? Guys that look like you get women all the time... I have a friend that is worse looking than you and he gets better looking women than I do and more of them, and I am a pretty good looking dude. So pick up your confidence, pick up your game, and quit being insecure. The problem isn't your looks, the problem is your lack of confidence.
that phrase says it all
 

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NeedToImprove said:
basically im ****ed
Well yeah, because of your sh!t attitude you probably are.
 

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Shave your head.

Work out, get a nice dress style, work on your voice clarity, and your facial expressions.

Stop blaming things and start improving. You think I'm going to get my GT-R by crying about my looks because women don't "like it?"

No.
 

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then rate from 1 to 10 and tell me if the ****in double jaw surgery + chin advancement will help.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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so where are the guys that said, you look perfectly fine? you dont need anymore surgeries, you have BDD.~

this is bull****. at least have the guts to say you were wrong and im ****ed
 

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1) If you looked like Brad Pitt, it still would not help your success with women.
2) Your mind is debilitated, not your face.
3) You are a 6. With a muscular, low body-fat physique, you could max at an 8.
4) Chin/jaw augmentation will do very little, if nothing, for your overall aesthetic appearance.
5) You possess neither a rational nor sane mind to make a sound decision to engage in any facial surgery.
5) Stop posting on this forum and seek professional help for your BDD.
 

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guru i will stop posting but you know better. all efforts were for nothing. i was just ****ed up from birth
 

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guru1000 said:
1) If you looked like Brad Pitt, it still would not help your success with women.
2) Your mind is debilitated, not your face.
3) You are a 6. With a muscular, low body-fat physique, you could max at an 8.
4) Chin/jaw augmentation will do very little, if nothing, for your overall aesthetic appearance.
5) You possess neither a rational nor sane mind to make a sound decision to engage in any facial surgery.
5) Stop posting on this forum and seek professional help for your BDD.
^ This

You seem unable to accept that your problems are in your head and are desperately trying to convince us that you are a monster. The fact you ignore everything people are saying and only filter the parts that may re-enforce your viewpoint shows what kind of mind frame you are in.

Put the work into the gym rather than the surgery room. But even then nothing will change because all this is a mind issue. So for the last time, see a professional therapist, before you drive yourself over the edge.
 

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LondonTowers said:
^ This

You seem unable to accept that your problems are in your head and are desperately trying to convince us that you are a monster. The fact you ignore everything people are saying and only filter the parts that may re-enforce your viewpoint shows what kind of mind frame you are in.

Put the work into the gym rather than the surgery room. But even then nothing will change because all this is a mind issue. So for the last time, see a professional therapist, before you drive yourself over the edge.
QFT. Fixing your attitude will do more for you than any surgery.
 

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Dude you look fine. You honestly could've pulled before surgery. Looks dont matter much. As long as you're at least an averagely attractive guy and you're not overweight. More important is your attitude, grooming/style, body language, etc. just get out there and keep going.
 

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Tictac said:
________

May as well stop posting because you have not listened to a single word.

Why'd you bother?
so you guarantee that if i work with what i have, just like this, in these pics, i will stop being an incel?
 

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You want guarantees?

Seriously?

This is real life.

You decide.

Quit blaming. You're just using all this so you don't have to deal with your self-image.

You are working very hard to fail.

Why?
 

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ok you guys say no surgeries.

then what the hell is wrong? im not saying i should get a 7/8 or 9 HB, but at least a 5 or a 6? looksmatched? not even the fatties give me a chance. so obviously something is very wrong.

im not sick dude, you saw those pics, you know i needed those surgeries for christ sake.
 
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