AlmostThere! said:
Getting rejected by a girl I just met doesn't bother me as much. But I'm still having trouble dealing with girls that seem to have interest, but nothing ever happens. I text a girl earlier and she said she'll call later but no call. Why did she respond to my text so quickly, or even respond at all? It seems like I can't figure this stuff out.
I don't know how to meet a girl, and keep her interest high enough to hang out with her again.
I feel myself going backwards but I need to fight it!
Steps to get a date:
#1 - Get number or email, or whichever method of communication you like to use.
#2 - Don't spend much time texting or talking to her.
Your goal is the date.
When you want to set up a date,
YOU call. If she doesn't pick up, leave a message.
Say "quit playing hard to get and call me back."
#3 - If she doesn't respond, depending on how well you know her, call again after a week. If you just met her and didn't spend a lot of time in comfort, my advice is that you should call back after 3-5 days.
Don't call any more than 2 times; you're not needy.
Oh, and if you call without leaving a message, she'll just get a missed call.
Honestly, how often do you call people back when they
don't leave messages?
#4 - Regarding texting, limit your conversations, unless they have a good sexual/romantic vibe going.
If you're going out to clubs, I REALLY suggest that you read Magic Bullets. You will find a lot of very useful information in there and you'll have a better understanding of how the process works.
You will also hopefully gain further interest on how to attract women/keep their interest level high.