do i have any chance of f*cking her? instagram

[pete101]

This chick i been talking to on instagram is hyper sexual, sexually promiscuous liberal whatever all i care is that she f*cks a lot and is super hot. It started off with me trying to meet her for a date when she wasnt forthcoming with her number i called her out saying she was an attention seeker.. she upped the ante by suggesting indirectly sexual pics. I challenged her and she delivered but wanted some from me. So basically the back and forth for the past 2 weeks has been sending dirty pics to one another and dirty talk but every time i suggest we f*ck she ignores that direct message and comments on something else. I get it she's not attracted to me physically ethnicity wise, she likes white guys. (She likes my c*ck tho always telling me how much she likes it asks for more pics/vids)

Yesterday i thought i had a break through she said to me 'there's nothing i love more than come going inside me. So make sure you stock up a full can' i thought ok this is the first time she has been direct about us f'ing so i said to her in response 'is that the clearest indicator we'll be f'ing on your return from holiday?' She doesn't reply to that message snd comments on other direct messages buttering me up and mentioning she went home with a stranger today (previous message i encouraged her to have sex as she is on holiday and should enjoy herself)

Do i have any chance of f'ing her if i just start to withhold my attention? Every time i do this she increases hers sends me more pics comments on all my direct message photos. I know she's part attention wh0re but she does put out sleep around etc..just not with me.

 

[marmel75]

No because you just fell for her trap and responded with something desperate.
You are playing her little game while she gets the satisfaction of knowing she has you wrapped around her finger.

Pay attention to her actions not her words.

If you want just be bold and tell her something like
"Well it's been nice talking to you but I'm into women who are less talk and more action. Take care."

Then wait for her response if she sends one, which she probably will saying she is action, blah blah blah. Then invite her over or invite yourself over to her place. If she goes for neither then drop her like a bad habit, she is wasting your time.

 

[HoneyHitter]

Stop asking her questions like 'is that the clearest indicator we'll be f'ing on your return from holiday?'. Rather respond with some sort of funny or ridiculous over-the-top ****. Again, NO QUESTIONS. Statements and provocations. Good luck.

 

[Revok]

This chick i been talking to on instagram is hyper sexual, sexually promiscuous liberal whatever all i care is that she f*cks a lot and is super hot. It started off with me trying to meet her for a date when she wasnt forthcoming with her number i called her out saying she was an attention seeker.. she upped the ante by suggesting indirectly sexual pics. I challenged her and she delivered but wanted some from me. So basically the back and forth for the past 2 weeks has been sending dirty pics to one another and dirty talk but every time i suggest we f*ck she ignores that direct message and comments on something else. I get it she's not attracted to me physically ethnicity wise, she likes white guys. (She likes my c*ck tho always telling me how much she likes it asks for more pics/vids)

Yesterday i thought i had a break through she said to me 'there's nothing i love more than come going inside me. So make sure you stock up a full can' i thought ok this is the first time she has been direct about us f'ing so i said to her in response 'is that the clearest indicator we'll be f'ing on your return from holiday?' She doesn't reply to that message snd comments on other direct messages buttering me up and mentioning she went home with a stranger today (previous message i encouraged her to have sex as she is on holiday and should enjoy herself)

Do i have any chance of f'ing her if i just start to withhold my attention? Every time i do this she increases hers sends me more pics comments on all my direct message photos. I know she's part attention wh0re but she does put out sleep around etc..just not with me.

You never met this person? How do you know its not someone catfishing you? Have you spoken on the phone? Regardless. Its all fantasy if they arent willing to meet. Could be a dude or a completely different woman. Drop the number and keep it moving. But you wont as you are addicted to the fantasy and willing to be strung along.

I myself would have dropped the number. But if someone else wants to help you entertain this person to get them to possibly meet have at it.

 

[pete101]

No because you just fell for her trap and responded with something desperate.
You are playing her little game while she gets the satisfaction of knowing she has you wrapped around her finger.

Pay attention to her actions not her words.

If you want just be bold and tell her something like
"Well it's been nice talking to you but I'm into women who are less talk and more action. Take care."

Then wait for her response if she sends one, which she probably will saying she is action, blah blah blah. Then invite her over or invite yourself over to her place. If she goes for neither then drop her like a bad habit, she is wasting your time.

I actually said that originally when i called her out for being an attention seeker saying is she all talk no action so i cant really say it again.

But i hear what you're saying i have to take a risk of playing to win eather than playing not to lose. I feel right now that if she probably isnt going to f me then i might as well just sit on my laurels and accept i will just get nude pics of her and be satisfied with that as if i pull the ignoring stuff if she isnt attracted to me she isnt going to put out so maybe i should just keep getting pics and forget about trying to meet her and concentrate my energy as i have been doing in more realistic prospects. I was kinda hoping that if i start ignroing her a bit she'd may f me but it seems like from what you aay it prob wont happen.

 

[pete101]

You never met this person? How do you know its not someone catfishing you? Have you spoken on the phone? Regardless. Its all fantasy if they arent willing to meet. Could be a dude or a completely different woman. Drop the number and keep it moving. But you wont as you are addicted to the fantasy and willing to be strung along.

I myself would have dropped the number. But if someone else wants to help you entertain this person to get them to possibly meet have at it.

She hasnt given the number it's an instagram thing only. Im pretty certain it's her because of her postings and tags of location 100% her.

 

[pete101]

I think from what it sounds like it isn't going to happen so i have to decide whether i just continue as i am and forget suggrsting to meet and be happy to get pics while focusing my time on more realistic prospects.

 

[marmel75]

I actually said that originally when i called her out for being an attention seeker saying is she all talk no action so i cant really say it again.

But i hear what you're saying i have to take a risk of playing to win eather than playing not to lose. I feel right now that if she probably isnt going to f me then i might as well just sit on my laurels and accept i will just get nude pics of her and be satisfied with that as if i pull the ignoring stuff if she isnt attracted to me she isnt going to put out so maybe i should just keep getting pics and forget about trying to meet her and concentrate my energy as i have been doing in more realistic prospects. I was kinda hoping that if i start ignroing her a bit she'd may f me but it seems like from what you aay it prob wont happen.

That's a weak mindset bro...

 

[pete101]

That's a weak mindset bro...

Maybe. But it's more efficient of my time and energy pursuing other girls rather than trying to get with this one?

 

[marmel75]

Maybe. But it's more efficient of my time and energy pursuing other girls rather than trying to get with this one?

The mindset of wanting to get nude pics from her even though you know nothing is going to happen shows you need to get laid pretty badly. Just saying. You should just delete her number then if you aren't going to go bold.

 

[Lozboss]

OP you are a Beta Orbiter of hers. She has no intention of f*cking you, she simply enjoys the attention.

Next her and move on.

You also need to seriously evaluate yourself if you are orbiting. Time for a change in mindset.

 

[pete101]

No because you just fell for her trap and responded with something desperate.
You are playing her little game while she gets the satisfaction of knowing she has you wrapped around her finger.

Pay attention to her actions not her words.

If you want just be bold and tell her something like
"Well it's been nice talking to you but I'm into women who are less talk and more action. Take care."

Then wait for her response if she sends one, which she probably will saying she is action, blah blah blah. Then invite her over or invite yourself over to her place. If she goes for neither then drop her like a bad habit, she is wasting your time.

I did what you said and she responded with 'ohhhhh that was final'

I dont know what she means whether it's the final straw or the final pic i sent.

Wtf. Should i bother asking her round like you said? Im not gona respond to her she is testing me if i really am walking away. I reck she'll follow up in a couple days to see if she can get my attention but it looks like im wasting my time.

Btw originally when you said i fell for her trap and said something desperate what should i have said instead? Bear in mind she's on holiday and not back till next week so initiating sex for the same day is not possible if she isn't in the country.

 

[JohnChops]

talked on instagram, refused to give you her number, doesn't want to meet up for a date. Not interested.

 

[Infern0]

Stopped reading @ "talked to on instagram"

Come on man...

 

[pete101]

See? There is never a comittment , just more games.

Respond back one last time "let me know when you are ready to get together"

And then never EVER respond to anything else she send unless it is an agreement to get together. Otherwise ignore the message.

Is it really wise to respond though?

If we're going to meet it's for f'ing only im not gona meet for coffee she just wasting my time that way. Should i say more explicity 'let me know when you're ready to get together to f*ck' ? No need to sugarcoat it she's been more sexually explicit in her older messages

 

[badboyjmm]

Is it really wise to respond though?

If we're going to meet it's for f'ing only im not gona meet for coffee she just wasting my time that way. Should i say more explicity 'let me know when you're ready to get together to f*ck' ? No need to sugarcoat it she's been more sexually explicit in her older messages

IF, and that's a BIG IF, she wants to meet up, you invite her to your place, have some drinks ready and that is all.

There's no need to be overly sexual, especially when it would be the first meeting.

Also you are the man, so if she wants to meet up but she's not comfortable meeting you straight at your place, you invite her to a bar near, give her a drink or two, then proceed to your place.

If she wants to meet for coffee, walk to see the lake, have a picnic and all that stuff that people to on a first date when they are trying to aim for something more than sex...

Drop it like a bad habit and disappear.

Simple :rock:

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

No. It's been two weeks and nothings happened yet. Also, you've been "text gaming" her which is a waste of time that kills your chances. It destroys chances with good women, and obliterates any fathom of a chance you might have with a chick like this. You can't bend the odds in your favor with these types, especially if you're communicating with her on Instagram like all the other guys are doing.

Walk away, and forget about her.

 

[pete101]

No. It's been two weeks and nothings happened yet. Also, you've been "text gaming" her which is a waste of time that kills your chances. It destroys chances with good women, and obliterates any fathom of a chance you might have with a chick like this. You can't bend the odds in your favor with these types, especially if you're communicating with her on Instagram like all the other guys are doing.

Walk away, and forget about her.

It's been 2 weeks because shes been on holiday she wasnt even in the country! So i couldnt do anything if i wanted to. However your point is still valid. Thing is shes not an ordinary attention wh0re shes a slut too just unfortunately for me a picky slut who has many orbiters to choose from and various f buddies. Maybe if i gamed her in the beginning withdrawing my attention rather than making the mistake of getting excited when she sent nudes i'd have a better chance.

 

[Yewki]

Is it really wise to respond though?

No. You already told her you're only interested in women who take action, then she responded with more bullsh*t. If you continue to give her attention you'll look even more stupid.

Two words: walk away. If she contacts you again, cool... it not, cool.

 

[Infern0]

It's been 2 weeks because shes been on holiday she wasnt even in the country! So i couldnt do anything if i wanted to. However your point is still valid. Thing is shes not an ordinary attention wh0re shes a slut too just unfortunately for me a picky slut who has many orbiters to choose from and various f buddies. Maybe if i gamed her in the beginning withdrawing my attention rather than making the mistake of getting excited when she sent nudes i'd have a better chance.

Seriously.....

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:nono: