Do girls that like you act like a bi*ch to you or what?

[Rhino22]

My band played this loft party tonight and there was this REALLY hot blonde there.

Anyway, our bass player is really fat and she comes up to us and basically starts talking to him and acts like she is in love with him. I say a few things and she responds but still keeps her eyes on him for the most part. I could have sworn before she approached us I caught her looking at me and then she would look away.

Now Ive been told before that I am "hot" or whatever by other hot chicks, even our bass player tells me I am lol but she acted like she was "playing hard to get with me". Well, it turns out she was married anyway.



But later on that night we go down the elevator and this girl I have talked to on facebook randomly walks up to me and shakes my hand. Tells me I should come party with them downstairs. We tell her we have to go back upstairs to get more equipment and we will come down after that.

Uh so after that my band members and the hot blonde are like, "You need to get with that chick. She wants you." ANd i"m like, "Thats a whole other story. You have no idea. Then they are like, "You cant go after what you want" and bla bla bla. I tell them they are full of crap because I don't even like that girl to be honest.

I straight up tell the married chick that she is freakin hot and that if she wasn't taken I would try to get with her so there...thats me not caring about going after what I want. She looked embarassed when I said this. Actually everyone kinda did, but I didn't care.


After that we all parted ways, shook hands ,etc. When I reached out my hand to shake the hot blonde she said, "good luck with that" And I'm like wtf. Then my band members cracked some jokes and she made some small talk with me (I dont remember what exactly but she was smiling quite a bit). Oh yeah, I forgot to mention there was another point in the night where I was walking to the elevator and I saw her by the bathoom. She looked at me and then looked away. Am I really that scary or what? Wtf am I doing wrong? Wha does our fat bass player do right or is it that she is just comfortable with him???

 

[JJ109]

think about it like as if you were in your fourth grade classroom.

 

[Rhino22]

think about it like as if you were in your fourth grade classroom.

I hated that classroom. Explain???

 

[Joe Stud]

Like when you "liked" a girl, so you pulled her ponytail, put a frog down her dress, or insulted her...

 

[DondottaJuanpappa]

You stating aloud that you were going to get with her right in front of her ruined it. She was intimidated by that more less. You should of kept it to yourself and started talking to her. When you're coming on to any chick thats between hb8-hb10, you have to come on a courtesy level first. That means not coming on to her in a way that she notices it, then when shes receptive, you take it to the next level and start flirting with her. Then take it to the next level and so forth. Just remember, girls that are hot always suspect someone is trying to hit on them even when you're stopping to ask for directions lol. Just keep it subtle in the first inning bro and you'll be home free. be cool!

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[MeteorMash]

You stating aloud that you were going to get with her right in front of her ruined it. She was intimidated by that more less. You should of kept it to yourself and started talking to her. When you're coming on to any chick thats between hb8-hb10, you have to come on a courtesy level first. That means not coming on to her in a way that she notices it, then when shes receptive, you take it to the next level and start flirting with her. Then take it to the next level and so forth. Just remember, girls that are hot always suspect someone is trying to hit on them even when you're stopping to ask for directions lol. Just keep it subtle in the first inning bro and you'll be home free. be cool!

pimpin

I think it's actually pretty Badass how he did that. He was upfront with no BS games and that seemed to catch her off guard like a bat to the back of the head. Most hot chicks don't expect that sort of thing. A lot of guys come in with the whole "subtle" strategy, which works sometimes, but sometimes doesn't. Chicks in my experience dig honesty. Don't try and hide the fact that you want to fvck her brains out

From what he says, this chick seems to dig him. But she is married, which means too bad for her. He stated this clearly and it didn't hurt him at all. I don't remember him saying that he was trying to hook up with this chick. He doesn't give a fvck, which means he has nothing to lose.

My guess is that she does like him, but being married puts her in an uncomfortable position. She might not wanna say it or except it because she doesn't want to seem like a cheating *****. Hell, she might even have some respect for her husband, who knows. But because of this she tries to hold up the b1tch act to protect herself

In the end the OP did nothing wrong.

 

[DondottaJuanpappa]

Don't try and hide the fact that you want to fvck her brains out

^^^This is a very stupid approach to the vass majority of female species lmfao

What women and especially hb9's-h10's find attractive and sexy are men who are sexualy disciplined. It is ok for you to show that you can **** her if you want and that you dont really care to, but only WHEN its time and you've reached that level of rapport. When you reach that level, flirting and all that does the trick but thats all i can tell you, the game is to be sold not told. The advice that I'm providing is not just for this married chick but for all the chicks you ever come incountered with. You must not show your interest, you have to make her show intrest unless you're at a club trying to lay someone for the night.


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[Rhino22]

I think it's actually pretty Badass how he did that. He was upfront with no BS games and that seemed to catch her off guard like a bat to the back of the head. Most hot chicks don't expect that sort of thing. A lot of guys come in with the whole "subtle" strategy, which works sometimes, but sometimes doesn't. Chicks in my experience dig honesty. Don't try and hide the fact that you want to fvck her brains out

From what he says, this chick seems to dig him. But she is married, which means too bad for her. He stated this clearly and it didn't hurt him at all. I don't remember him saying that he was trying to hook up with this chick. He doesn't give a fvck, which means he has nothing to lose.

My guess is that she does like him, but being married puts her in an uncomfortable position. She might not wanna say it or except it because she doesn't want to seem like a cheating *****. Hell, she might even have some respect for her husband, who knows. But because of this she tries to hold up the b1tch act to protect herself

In the end the OP did nothing wrong.

Yeah, thats exactly how I did feel. I didn't give a fu**. I knew it would catch everyone off guard. You think she dug me though? How so? I really don't know. I think she was shocked after I said that lol...I think everyone was. Honestly I will probably do it again...married or not. There is a way to be upfront about stuff without acting like you just want to f**k them.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

What kind of married woman is hanging out at parties without hubby?

 

[Rhino22]

What kind of married woman is hanging out at parties without hubby?

Lol he was there...

Just not around when I said that. And yeah, she seemed to be talking to more people then him.