Do girls really go for guys with nice cars?
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Spoken like a man who does not own a Porsche.FairShake said:
I am currently hitting three millennials like the fist of a wrathful god. Each of them has commented on how awesome my car is. None of them are dating me strictly because of the car, but you can't tell me they don't care. Two of the three of them have blown me in it, and I intend on hitting for the Trifecta next week.
I have had strange women in parking lots yell "Nice car!" as I'm getting in or out.
Only people who drive ****ty cars think cars don't matter.
The car is not enough. A job that they can brag about ("I'm dating a [whatever]") is not enough. A nice house is not enough. Gaziano & Girling vintage oak wholecuts are not enough. Tailored clothes are not enough. A killing smile is not enough. A deep, clear voice, strong hands, and bright eyes are not enough. But it's all part of the package. It all goes together to define who you are, and who women see when they look at you. Or at least, when they look at me.
Do your thing if it's working for you but I wouldn't be me if I was riding a bicycle to work.
Bible_Belt
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I wouldn't be me if I was riding a bicycle to work.
Fine, but don't end up knocking up or marrying any of these hos, or she will end up taking everything you have and then you will be riding a bicycle to work. But you would still be the same person, other than perhaps a little wiser about women.
Fine, but don't end up knocking up or marrying any of these hos, or she will end up taking everything you have and then you will be riding a bicycle to work. But you would still be the same person, other than perhaps a little wiser about women.
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I had a vasectomy several years ago. I use condoms regardless and will until I'm monogamous again. So . . . forever, I imagine.
There's of course no way you could have known that. So technically, you're right; that would be bad. Fair warning to others.
Given my financial situation, I figure it's just a matter of time before a girl comes at me with a kid, although I'm gonna laugh when she does. Well, I won't. My lawyer will. Because I imagine by that point she and I will be done talking.
I don't understand why more men don't get snipped, but that's a conversation for another thread.
There's of course no way you could have known that. So technically, you're right; that would be bad. Fair warning to others.
Given my financial situation, I figure it's just a matter of time before a girl comes at me with a kid, although I'm gonna laugh when she does. Well, I won't. My lawyer will. Because I imagine by that point she and I will be done talking.
I don't understand why more men don't get snipped, but that's a conversation for another thread.
ladiesman217
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Lexington said:
This is false. I get to drive my fathers classic Corvettes, Mustangs, Bel Airs, Chevelles and chicks notice. You would not believe how many of them beg for a ride or cheer as you drive by.
As for my birthday present ('05 Prius), I can't say the same.
backbreaker
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see, that's the **** that pisses me off right there, and you might be my fav poster on this entire site Colussus
why do people with nice **** get **** on on this forum? It's like, I have to go out of my way not to talk bad about people who ride around in ****ty cars, live in ****ty houses, have ****ty jobs.. but let one guy say he has anything remotely materialistic and it's game on. "oh you're showing off", "BETA MALE ALERT". This is a thread litearlly about how cars affect game, and the dude responding in kind talking about how his car affected his game, and you talk about him "swigingin his **** all over the place" come on man you are better than that.
At the end of the day, the vast majority of the people on this forum don't cut the mustard in some department.. looks, money, job, whatever. and they don't come here so much for advice, as they come for an ego shield to double down on why it's not okay have **** and why having **** makes yo a faggot.
I've driven a 93' Oldsmobile Cutless, a 90' Cadillac Deville, a 92' Honda Accord, a 95 Honda accord, a 92 Toyota Tercel, a late 90's model Geo Tracker and 91 Nissan Sentra. Oh and a 95 Mazda Protege
I have also driven a 98 Lexus SC400, a 94 Lexus ES300, a 2003 H2, a 2005 Vanquish, a 2003 Mercedes CLK Convertible (wife's car), a 2008 Mercedes S550 and my current car a 2012 Jaguar XKL
I can tell you
1. the quality of women skyrocketed in the second group. I was more of a catch then but still
2. it's night and day.
A guy who has never had a nice car telling a guy who has a nice car that nice cars dont' matter is like a below avg looking guy telling a good looking guy that looks don't matter. lol how the hell would you know
why do people with nice **** get **** on on this forum? It's like, I have to go out of my way not to talk bad about people who ride around in ****ty cars, live in ****ty houses, have ****ty jobs.. but let one guy say he has anything remotely materialistic and it's game on. "oh you're showing off", "BETA MALE ALERT". This is a thread litearlly about how cars affect game, and the dude responding in kind talking about how his car affected his game, and you talk about him "swigingin his **** all over the place" come on man you are better than that.
At the end of the day, the vast majority of the people on this forum don't cut the mustard in some department.. looks, money, job, whatever. and they don't come here so much for advice, as they come for an ego shield to double down on why it's not okay have **** and why having **** makes yo a faggot.
I've driven a 93' Oldsmobile Cutless, a 90' Cadillac Deville, a 92' Honda Accord, a 95 Honda accord, a 92 Toyota Tercel, a late 90's model Geo Tracker and 91 Nissan Sentra. Oh and a 95 Mazda Protege
I have also driven a 98 Lexus SC400, a 94 Lexus ES300, a 2003 H2, a 2005 Vanquish, a 2003 Mercedes CLK Convertible (wife's car), a 2008 Mercedes S550 and my current car a 2012 Jaguar XKL
I can tell you
1. the quality of women skyrocketed in the second group. I was more of a catch then but still
2. it's night and day.
A guy who has never had a nice car telling a guy who has a nice car that nice cars dont' matter is like a below avg looking guy telling a good looking guy that looks don't matter. lol how the hell would you know
pierce_r
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I am not a player. I was with my wife for twelve years. I am new at this.
I found this site some time ago when I was looking to get back into the game, but I'd already made a series of decisions at that point about how I was going to proceed with my life to make myself marketable. I didn't want to be 45, fat, broke, and alone, rattling around inside my house looking at porn and wishing my dead wife was here.
I was overweight, I was in a job I hated, I made a workable salary but nothing great, I had a bull**** degree and an unremarkable life overall. Except for my wife, who was awesome. And I was about to lose that. So I straightened myself out. I started running, went back to school, picked up a commission and became an officer, got my MBA, opened my own business, got my teeth whitened, went to Nordstrom for a makeover, etc. My feet were in the starting blocks when the gun went off.
The car came after -- hell, the car was grief therapy -- but the car is part of the package. The package attracts women. (My package, being statistically average if not a little below, does not; at least, not on its own.)
There are a lot of guys on this forum who come here because their lives are ****. They're fat, or they're broke, or they're hung up on The One, or they've done nothing to differentiate themselves from the herd, and they want someone to pat them on the back and tell them that it's okay, they're special snowflakes and everything's going to work out. "You'll get hot chicks, too, honey. Just say these magic words. Buy her this drink. Do *this*. Chicks love *this.*"
BULL****. If there's anything I've learned through this experience, it's that you have to make your own luck.
My understanding is that guys come to this site to learn how to attract women. I'm posting on here because I have figured it out. Or at least, what is working for me. And if it works for me, there's no reason it wouldn't work for anyone.
There is a very slim set of circumstances that make a man my age socially acceptable as relationship material for a younger, fit, attractive woman. I identified those circumstances, and then spent the past five years busting my @** to meet those parameters and remain within them. If you meet those expectations, the actual attracting-hot-women part is pretty much effortless. (I'm not gonna lie, though: staying within those parameters is a full-time job.)
I could have stayed fat, met some old gray cow my own age, and spent the next twenty years having sex with my eyes closed. No, thanks.
It's really easy. Make yourself attractive. And not just physically. Financially, sartorially, emotionally. Do what it takes. A very nice car will help, but more than that, having your life together and working for you to such a point that you can drive a nice car and have people who know you say, "Oh, that makes sense," is the true attractant.
Now if you'll excuse me, I'm having a 22-year-old Delta Gamma over for brunch in an hour. Enjoy your weekend.
I found this site some time ago when I was looking to get back into the game, but I'd already made a series of decisions at that point about how I was going to proceed with my life to make myself marketable. I didn't want to be 45, fat, broke, and alone, rattling around inside my house looking at porn and wishing my dead wife was here.
I was overweight, I was in a job I hated, I made a workable salary but nothing great, I had a bull**** degree and an unremarkable life overall. Except for my wife, who was awesome. And I was about to lose that. So I straightened myself out. I started running, went back to school, picked up a commission and became an officer, got my MBA, opened my own business, got my teeth whitened, went to Nordstrom for a makeover, etc. My feet were in the starting blocks when the gun went off.
The car came after -- hell, the car was grief therapy -- but the car is part of the package. The package attracts women. (My package, being statistically average if not a little below, does not; at least, not on its own.)
There are a lot of guys on this forum who come here because their lives are ****. They're fat, or they're broke, or they're hung up on The One, or they've done nothing to differentiate themselves from the herd, and they want someone to pat them on the back and tell them that it's okay, they're special snowflakes and everything's going to work out. "You'll get hot chicks, too, honey. Just say these magic words. Buy her this drink. Do *this*. Chicks love *this.*"
BULL****. If there's anything I've learned through this experience, it's that you have to make your own luck.
My understanding is that guys come to this site to learn how to attract women. I'm posting on here because I have figured it out. Or at least, what is working for me. And if it works for me, there's no reason it wouldn't work for anyone.
There is a very slim set of circumstances that make a man my age socially acceptable as relationship material for a younger, fit, attractive woman. I identified those circumstances, and then spent the past five years busting my @** to meet those parameters and remain within them. If you meet those expectations, the actual attracting-hot-women part is pretty much effortless. (I'm not gonna lie, though: staying within those parameters is a full-time job.)
I could have stayed fat, met some old gray cow my own age, and spent the next twenty years having sex with my eyes closed. No, thanks.
It's really easy. Make yourself attractive. And not just physically. Financially, sartorially, emotionally. Do what it takes. A very nice car will help, but more than that, having your life together and working for you to such a point that you can drive a nice car and have people who know you say, "Oh, that makes sense," is the true attractant.
Now if you'll excuse me, I'm having a 22-year-old Delta Gamma over for brunch in an hour. Enjoy your weekend.
DJ SO STEVE
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Driving a nice car can give you an edge that's all. We all know impressions count, it's variable as all women are different. Some like the sporty cars and some like pure luxury, it's hit or miss. As long as you don't drive a cardboard box you'll be ok. Case closed.
Way back in the day there was a poster on this forum who had a great story about his cars. I can't remember his name right now but I do remember him posting a pic of himself and some pro baseball player. The two could've been identical twins. He was a good looking dude who did very well with the ladies.
Anyhow he owned two cars. (Which I don't remember exactly either). One was a new luxury sports car which was very expensive. Probably a Mercedes or something. The other was a classic 60's Cadillac or Oldsmobile or something like that. It was a luxury ride too in its day and was kept in mint condition. He only paid a couple thousand for it though.
Anyhow he was on a bit of a tear and had several classy hot women on the go. He told a tale of how he would introduce these women to his cars when they were at his place and ready to go out on a date.
He would take them out to the garage and before he opened the doors he would give them a choice. "Do you want to go in luxury?" At this point he would reveal the Mercedes. Then he would say, "or do you want to go in style?" As he revealed the classic Caddy.
Every single chick he did this to chose "style" and they took the old Caddy. He said if a chick did choose the Mercedes it would give him a good indicator of what she was all about. A great test indeed.
I'm a bit of a car guy myself. I have always driven classic cars with style. None of these cars were overly expensive and some of them were actually very cheap. However they were all kept in great shape and they are the kind of cars that turn heads and get attention everywhere you go.
I always laugh when I meet up with some buddies who drive their fancy expensive rides and I pull up in my classic and everyone gathers around to check it out and ask questions.
When it comes to women I could care less what they think. I just like old cars. However in my experience women love the attention we get driving around in these classics. That is a universal truth.
When it comes to expensive cars I think it really depends on your location and who the guy driving it is. At my 20 year grad reunion one guy showed up in a new Porsche and received a lot of behind the scenes mockery. He made himself look like an a$$ pulling up in that thing.
At the end of the day a car gets you from point A to point B. As Colossus said, "who really sees you in it?" Mostly strangers that you will never interact with anyway. Or it's people you already know and they already have an opinion of you.
If you have money and like to spend it on such things then great for you. If you get off on thinking your car makes you a better man then you have issues. A loser with a nice car is still a loser and a winner with a beater still wins.
Anyhow he owned two cars. (Which I don't remember exactly either). One was a new luxury sports car which was very expensive. Probably a Mercedes or something. The other was a classic 60's Cadillac or Oldsmobile or something like that. It was a luxury ride too in its day and was kept in mint condition. He only paid a couple thousand for it though.
Anyhow he was on a bit of a tear and had several classy hot women on the go. He told a tale of how he would introduce these women to his cars when they were at his place and ready to go out on a date.
He would take them out to the garage and before he opened the doors he would give them a choice. "Do you want to go in luxury?" At this point he would reveal the Mercedes. Then he would say, "or do you want to go in style?" As he revealed the classic Caddy.
Every single chick he did this to chose "style" and they took the old Caddy. He said if a chick did choose the Mercedes it would give him a good indicator of what she was all about. A great test indeed.
I'm a bit of a car guy myself. I have always driven classic cars with style. None of these cars were overly expensive and some of them were actually very cheap. However they were all kept in great shape and they are the kind of cars that turn heads and get attention everywhere you go.
I always laugh when I meet up with some buddies who drive their fancy expensive rides and I pull up in my classic and everyone gathers around to check it out and ask questions.
When it comes to women I could care less what they think. I just like old cars. However in my experience women love the attention we get driving around in these classics. That is a universal truth.
When it comes to expensive cars I think it really depends on your location and who the guy driving it is. At my 20 year grad reunion one guy showed up in a new Porsche and received a lot of behind the scenes mockery. He made himself look like an a$$ pulling up in that thing.
At the end of the day a car gets you from point A to point B. As Colossus said, "who really sees you in it?" Mostly strangers that you will never interact with anyway. Or it's people you already know and they already have an opinion of you.
If you have money and like to spend it on such things then great for you. If you get off on thinking your car makes you a better man then you have issues. A loser with a nice car is still a loser and a winner with a beater still wins.
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LOL. I think I might have you beat. My only vehicle is a mid 90's RV. Old, but in nice shape. Mounted on the back of the RV is a small motorcycle that I use to run errands. The RV is also small, at 19 feet, will fit into a normal parking space. To spare a long story, it fits in with my unique lifestyle.Scaramouche said:
I've gone out with quite a few gals since owning the RV. It's actually quite the conversation piece. The RV itself doesn't get any direct attention, but if a gal is interested in me, I get the 20 questions. I first tell them it's great to have a bathroom where ever I go, and how if I get hungry, I can just pull over and make a sandwich.
I think it's the uniqueness of the RV that makes me seem interesting, it's just so different than all the other vehicles on the road. Furthermore, gal's assume if you are fine driving around in an RV, you don't care what others think and must have some strong inner confidence.
5string
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Do you park it down by the river and smoke doobie in it? Chi chi balls on the dashboard or one of those hula girl bobble head dolls?Mr.Positive said:
PrettyBoyAJ
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Nice Jaguar BB,
I can definitely say that driving a nice car is a status symbol. I'm pretty sure I can still bag bad females without a nice car but having nice stuff definitely defines a status. I drive a 2013 Challenger R/T with some add ons too it. Its a nice car and I always get compliments on it.
I can definitely say that driving a nice car is a status symbol. I'm pretty sure I can still bag bad females without a nice car but having nice stuff definitely defines a status. I drive a 2013 Challenger R/T with some add ons too it. Its a nice car and I always get compliments on it.
backbreaker
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When I sold cars I had a demo car at one point, which basically was any used car on the lot the managers weren't driving. I used to drive like an 03 Subaru WRX which is a bad ass car, twin turbo, stick shift, AWD car. Very fun car to drive. It was nice but i mean, girls were meh.
But when I would dip into the G35 coupe, it was an infiniti dealership we had plenty of those, or the lexus 4 door that we just could never sell, i'd go out and man.
PBAJ,
Honestly I don't' care for it anymore. That's why I hate buying cars I like to lease them. I want a BMW convertible now. I've pretty much sold myself on that.
But when I would dip into the G35 coupe, it was an infiniti dealership we had plenty of those, or the lexus 4 door that we just could never sell, i'd go out and man.
PBAJ,
Honestly I don't' care for it anymore. That's why I hate buying cars I like to lease them. I want a BMW convertible now. I've pretty much sold myself on that.
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I absolutely do need to get one of those hula girls for the dash. Great idea.5string said:Chi chi balls on the dashboard or one of those hula girl bobble head dolls?
That would be perfect for this RV.
I always joke I need to roll out the fake green grass and put out a pink flamingo, and call it home. Maybe a couple of tiki torches. Needless to say, the gal's that date me definitely have a sense of humor.
backbreaker
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lol i want the big boy BMW. I want the 6 series convertible. I'll probably do it sometime after the holiday season. Too much going on right now. probably do his and hers or something like that my wife's car has like 220 thousand miles on it now it's time for an upgrade
5string
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I dig the flamingo, tiki torches and hula girl. Make sure you get a naked hula girl. A naked one should really confuse the hamsters.Mr.Positive said:I absolutely do need to get one of those hula girls for the dash. Great idea.
That would be perfect for this RV.
I always joke I need to roll out the fake green grass and put out a pink flamingo, and call it home. Maybe a couple of tiki torches. Needless to say, the gal's that date me definitely have a sense of humor.
PrettyBoyAJ
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BB if your selling that car I might be interested brother.
My next cars will probably be a Maserati (Crappy car on the inside/I know) or a Fisker Karma.
My next cars will probably be a Maserati (Crappy car on the inside/I know) or a Fisker Karma.
