Two examples of girls not missing me and missing me.
Girl 1. Haven't seen her in a year. We meet, not even a hi.
Girl 2. Same thing, she was away for a year. We meet, she is on the phone. She sees me from across the room and runs over to me yelling my name "CATNIP", Pauses and speaks into the phone, "Mom, I'll have to call you right back". Hangs up on her mother and then grabs me and gives me the biggest bear hug she can saying "I missed you so much catnip".
If you are getting responses from all girls like I got from girl 1 then it tells me you are doing something wrong.