Do girls ever approach you?

[Omega]

I've noticed that the girls who approach me are extremely self aware. Alot of the times in the past when my confidence was pretty low, I would miss signals, however now I pick up on them all.

You have to realize that girls rae not built to approach unless they reverse engeneer themselves which is esentially what we men are doing to ourselves. If they find you attractive their body will show it through tipping of the head, eye contact looking upwards at you, open postion, etc. You hvae to be on the prowl and ready to jump at every opportunity.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Girls approach to collect attention.

Never to pick up.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

People that hit on me!

Here you have my profile:

1. One histrionic/borderline hit on me, later smashed me.

2. Two years later, another histrionic/drama queen did the same.

3. A guy hit on me, and was trying to get my phone number!

4. Another guy couldnt' stop looking at me, and trying to be my "friend".

5. A girl was hitting on me, but I was too afc to notice.

6. More 6 girls were hitting on me, but I was still too afc to notice/do something.

7. A girl chased me and I grabbed her (finally).

Extra comments:

She said: I like you!
Me: Why?
She: I dont know.... I always had guys chasing me all the time... For the first time I chased a man.
She: Phoenix, you're picky (and a little pervert)... I like what is difficult!
Me: I know that!
She: I cheated on my BF, just because it was with you!
Me: I said, come on dont say that!
She: And when you have a GF, you`ll cheat on her with me, won`t you?
Me: If I plan to cheat I dont have LTR, "your little hor"!
She: "kissed me and slept over me"!
Me: Gosh! Definitely, not a LTR material!

WOW!

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Nice, I don't know when was the last time I read anything very worthwhile lin the General Forum ike this thread.

Yes, women will approach, but not in a direct, obvious way, they way men operate. They will go and talk to you, usually by asking you a question(s). If they like you, they expect you to pick up on the hint and take over the encounter. Most guys don't pick these things up. In the last year or so, I've noticed this a lot. Partly because I got in very good shape, but mostly because I am now aware of this stuff.

Same thing when you approach a women, believe or not, she knows when you are actually trying to pick up, even if its done in a sublte attempt. Why? Because they do it all the time; you're playing a game that they master early on. If you ask them sublty, or direct, she will know how to respond. If she likes you, she will probably like the subtle way more, but will lead you on either way.

 

[California Love]

Women will also gently avoid a man they like. Its all part of the run n chase game. It is uncommon for women to initiate things unless it is in a professional circumstance that requires it.


Women that do approach are -

-Unpretty, but with a killer determination.
-Attention wh0res.
-Agressive girls.


Prettier things tend to avoid approaching. This goes for men as well as females.

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by California Love



Prettier things tend to avoid approaching. This goes for men as well as females.

Are you calling me an unpretty, agressive attention ***** with a killer determination?

 

[ER!C L!VE]

I have witnessed both hot and ugly girls both pick up and **** guys who the just met in a bar, online, and on vacation.

It happens all the time. You just gotta have what they want.

I have many stories regarding women hitting on me. I have ****ed them either that night or later. Blatently hitting on me... as in, "**** me, **** me right now".

At a mortgage company where I worked, the secretary called my office extension and asked me to go to lunch with her.

I can go on for a while with different stories about women hitting on me and my friends.

Lets see, most recently, a woman walked right up to me and my buddy and said, "you're not from around here, you're young and good-looking" Then she told me all the reasons why older women are better than younger ones (qualifying herself).

Another girl at a bar was standing behind me and she ****ing kicked my food "by accident". hah then her and her friend pounced on us and talked forever.

Another one came and sat down next to me and just started talking to me and wouldn't shut up. Kept asking me what I thought of her body (which was very nice btw). I left the bar early to hook up with a date that I had planned and my buddy made out with her.

fun fun....

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Nice, I don't know when was the last time I read anything very worthwhile lin the General Forum ike this thread.

That makes me so happy because the last two threads I started didn't go too well.

Thanks for the responses guys, keep them coming.

 

[So Many Ways]

I think I've gotten a little better at picking up women's subtle hints, but I still miss them. Even recently, I was at a bar waiting to get drinks when a woman walked up to me and asked me where the restroom was. So by what you guys are saying, that's an approach? I guess she could have asked anyone else where the bathroom was. Interesting.

I have had women approach me aggressively and start conversations with me out of the blue quite a few times. I still miss the subtle approaches and I think the subtle ones are probably of higher quality than the aggressive ones.

 

[Soma]

Of course there IS the possibility that she asked where the bathroom is cause that's all she wanted to know.

Then again, she could have been hitting on you.

You don't know for sure. But if you're going to err, you might as well err on the side of her hitting on you. Nothing to lose, everything to gain.

 

[JDZ]

lol this gal once foned my house fone and jus sed straight up " hi I think ure quite fit i dunno if u know me but yer i go to ure church ..... bla bla bla ".... i was like errrrrrr..... are women that brave these days? :S

 

[CLOONEY]

I get approached ALL THE FUKCING TIME!! Infact sometimes it gets VERY annoying!! All my friends do is laugh and get pizzed off cause they feel like stooges sometimes!

Sometimes I will be boldly approached by a girl, others it will be their friends coming over telling me to go dance with her or go talk to her! Some even come over to me and cling onto me like they are my long lost wife! WTF, man, so damn annoying! Although I am getting very good at being rude to chicks who approach me! I used to just take it as a compliment, but when they start ruining chances with fine ladies, it really sucks!

Infact, two nights ago when I was out, I had a very annoying experience. I was out with two beautiful woman, and on a few occassions guys tried to fight me, and I ended up being kicked out of two club simply because they were jealous! So one tip, only go to clubs with your mates or ug chicks! Any of u guys ever experienced this when out with some hot friends or girlfriends?

 

[CLOONEY]

lol, I just read over my post, sorry to rant or sound aggressive, but if you have experienced it you will see how annoying it is. Especially what happened 2 nights ago, I was gonna post it as a seperate thread, but didnt want to sound like I was just tooting my own horn, it only ruined my night.

 

[PeeGee]

Damn, I get approached a few times, but the more extreme stories reinforces the idea that (some) women like physical aspects as well.

 

[Dirtheart]

I don't think women "approach" as a rule, but I think Soma summed it up best - women's approaches tend to comprise innocent icebreakers, and it's upto you to make the most of it.

I think women are generally more protective of their egos than men, so they rarely approach in an obvious way (unless drunk or slvts etc).

 

[Unforsaken]

I get approached all the time. I put myself in a position to be approached.

I am a freshman at my university. I had classes over the summer. MY english professor really liked me (I had all girls in my classes so I would bust out the ****y and funny jokes) and he gave me a job working at the bookstore. It amazing on how much # I get at the bookstore. I help people find there books. So I have a easy ice breaker, because they need me to find there books. So, I always have hot women walk up to me asking for help . All I do is just make ****y and funny jokes and bust on them. I tend to make them look for there own books as I do this. Then when we are done looking for her books. I say "you wouldn't have a e-mail address?". If she says yes then I pull out paper and pen so she write it down. I then say "Hey, write your number underneath it". So I get both and gives me option on how to keep contact with her. If she doesn't have a e-mail address, then I bust a joke and ask for her #. The best experience I had this is, when she was practically begging me to take it. I did it infront of everyone in costumer service area. In which my co-workers mouth dropped and other costumers were in shock. Even my co-worker told me "I shouldn't be getting costumers e-mail address". I laughed it off and thought he was just mad, because he couldn't do it himself.

 

[Walken]

It's happend to me, infact the first time I ever talk to a girl was when she came up to me. It happens when I'm doing something. When I'm at work or school or when ever I'm trying to make something happen. If I'm frustraded or happy with what I'm doing doesn't really seem to matter as long as I'm full tilt into what I'm doing. Working like mad, taking control of the situation, weather I'm succeding or not. I girls just like it when someone's going at somethign to the point when nothing else matters.

And if this works for you, I've found it works really well when you don't pay that much attention to them, when they ask you a question about what you're doing or how's it going, say something fast, not a grunt give them full sentances, but don't explain it. Tell them what you're doing in a way were they would know what you're doing if they were an expert. Keep working, keep em talking, get them to hand to you something, but don't LOOK AT THEM. You're to busy. Then she'll say something like, "Well I have to get going." Girl said that to me when I was working in an OSH store where I was laying on the floor with my head under a gondola. All you have to say to that is "Write down your number." She can write it down and act akward about what to do with it while your head is stuck under something. I just reached my hand out and she put it in. Didn't even say good bye, to busy.

That's how I got my first phone number.

 

[joecollapoppa]

girls approach me and tell me i was cute or whatever. They sometimes call me by the clothes im wearing. They be like AY Yo Polo. boy in the polo, get over here or let me talk to you. these instances don't happen often.

 

[mahon83050]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
I get approached ALL THE FUKCING TIME!! Infact sometimes it gets VERY annoying!! All my friends do is laugh and get pizzed off cause they feel like stooges sometimes!

Sometimes I will be boldly approached by a girl, others it will be their friends coming over telling me to go dance with her or go talk to her! Some even come over to me and cling onto me like they are my long lost wife! WTF, man, so damn annoying! Although I am getting very good at being rude to chicks who approach me! I used to just take it as a compliment, but when they start ruining chances with fine ladies, it really sucks!


You serious? Those guys are quite pathetic. To tell you the truth, since I Am sexually frustrated etc, If I were out and saw some dork or ugly guy with some hottie, I might get a little jealous. However, I would not start a damed fight with the guy!! Those people have problems man!!

Not to sound pessimist, but it seems every good situation come with a problem.....JEALOUSY being one of them!!
Infact, two nights ago when I was out, I had a very annoying experience. I was out with two beautiful woman, and on a few occassions guys tried to fight me, and I ended up being kicked out of two club simply because they were jealous! So one tip, only go to clubs with your mates or ug chicks! Any of u guys ever experienced this when out with some hot friends or girlfriends?

 

[mahon83050]

Damned, I really screwed that last post up! Clooney my response is in between your two, in bold!!