Do bigger guys need to act different?

[Mr_knowit_all]

As some of you might know, I'm a pretty big guy. I'm 6'5 and weigh about 250lbs. I'm ripped, and have 21.5 inch arms. My question is: are bigger guys supposed to use neg hits anc C&f, or does that just work for normal sized guys?

Most bigger guys know we have to overcome the physical intimidation factor with most women. We can be the nicest guys in the world, but because of your physical presence, women tend to be intimidated. Would neg hitting just serve to intimidate her more? Therefore being counter-productive?

It's an interesting question. I've always felt I had to act extra polite just to dispell their impressions that I'm a big brute.

 

[Yuriy777]

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I've always felt I had to act extra polite just to dispell their impressions that I'm a big brute.

:crackup:
Well, underneath your politeness, are you?

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

:crackup:
Well, underneath your politeness, are you?

Oh shyt no...I'm rude as FVCK

 

[pooparu]

So why are you acting that way? EMBACE YOUR PERSONALITY. Act as yourself and no one else.

For example, I'm really philosophical and into the mind (I wanna study psychology), I used to try to hide this, act overly ghetto because I thought that's how all of us black people should act. Then I embraced my personality, I'm changing my clothing style a bit (from ghetto gangsta to clean and fresh, armani exchange style kind of), and everything about my life exudes my philosophical nature. When people talk to me I often inspire them alot because I tell them how it is using the language that I've learned.

Most people would think this would drive people away. "That guy must be hella weird". **** no, if anything it attracts people. Alot of girls like hearing me talk, especially the few I'm actually FRIENDS with, because I give advice based on **** like that, it sounds ****ing awesome to spit philosophical ****, and most importantly, it is who I am, and anyone who has ever attempted to make fun of it:

1. Gets cut out of my reality, which usually isn't good because,
2. Almost everyone I interact with like me, and it creates some great ****ing bonds with people who all wanna be my friend and ****. You know what ends up happening? What most people would consider nerdy or too smart, other people find it cool and laid back with me, they like my style and nature, whereas most other guys couldn't pull it off because of because its not them.

so I encourage you man, find exactly who you are, and then dive into it, **** wearing a persona and all, when you accept your inner nature (that sounded kinda fruity I'll give you that one), people will respect it.

Edit: Damn theres alot of ****ing explitives in there lol.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

You should be playing professional ball, and your question would change to how the fk do I get rid of all these hoes and find a real women.