Do beautiful girls not get approached that much because (most) guys are intimidated?

[SKOL Vikings]

Hi guys. I'm new here. This is a great site. The articles are amazing. They make a lot of sense and are very well written. I've been reading them for months. I decided to register to the forum tonight because I could use some help/advice with how to pick up girls. But first, I have another question.

Do beautiful girls not get approached a lot because most guys are intimidated by them? You'd think that really attractive women get approached a lot because guys obviously like good looking women. But on the other hand, I think that most guys would be too intimated to approach them.

There's this girl I work with who's already taken. She's clearly an above average looking women. I was curious, so I asked her when she goes throughout her day (at school, work, gym, grocery store) do a lot of guys try to talk to her/approach her and she told me she doesn't get approached a lot.

 

[zekko]

This is something I remember hearing when I was a youngster. However, when I grew up I was very disappointed to find out it wasn't true. On the contrary, I've found that the prettier the girl, the more guys they will have sniffing around her.

In fact, in my observation very attractive girls have a hard time going anywhere without getting hit on. That's why Mystery taught to come in under the radar.

I'm not surprised a girl told you she didn't get approached much. I wouldn't be too quick to believe anything a chick tells you though. They have their own agenda.

 

[mangotot]

In the club's when guys are drunk they'll have courage to do so. But in daylight no. Even the pickup guys most of them only approach the average to a bit more gitls. To really approach top tier pvddy you have to be brave and confident. But that is no big deal because after you get used to it its no more difficult then walling up and dowm a flight of stairs. Tight inner and outer game is also needed to get the result. Most pickup guys leave hot ones alone because they are not going to get them.

During daytime most men just stand and admire them.

 

[zekko]

I completely and totally disagree with mangotot.

Guys are on pretty girls like flies on sh!t.

 

[SKOL Vikings]

I wouldn't be too quick to believe anything a chick tells you though. They have their own agenda.

What do you mean by this? Please elaborate.

 

[Skyline]

If they don't know the girl then they will generally not approach her in daylight. Maybe at a party or night scene but that's about it.

If they know her or not, guys will generally orbit her on social media before they approach. I personally don't believe that women get cold approached often but they definitely get looks thrown their way and the social media spam is present as well.

That's all the attention they need anyway!

 

[NeedToImprove]

Guys are getting tired of the way women are treating them nowadays. Every day that passes is becoming worse, they are becoming shallower and pickier every day.

They reject you and try to hummiliate you even if you look fine. They are having the upper hand on the dating game and are having fun with.

 

[zekko]

What do you mean by this? Please elaborate.

I mean she will play the "No one ever asks me out because I'm so beautiful" card. This is nonsense, but it makes guys think they have a chance so they shower her with more attention, which is what she is after.

If they don't know the girl then they will generally not approach her in daylight. Maybe at a party or night scene but that's about it.

Even if that were true, if a girl is very attractive, you will find that somehow a whole bunch of guys will find a way to get to know her. One way or another, a hot chick is going to end up with a LOT of male admirers, you can't tell me otherwise. I don't agree that they don't get cold approached either, because the hottest girls I've been out with would get hit on all the time. Strangers would practically approach them on the street. Maybe 19 year old guys are too afraid to talk to pretty women, but get midway into your 20s and I guarantee that won't be the case.

 

[skinnyguy]

If a beta approaches a hot girl, to her, it doesn't count. It only counts if she gets approached by an alpha.

So yes that girl you were talking to does get approached a lot but to her it doesn't even matter.

I agree with zekko. The hot ones are getting approached left and right. Girls will often say "no one ever approaches me" just to get more attention.

 

[Masculinity]

I agree with zekko. Most men are thirsty for women and will do very AFC things to get their attention. I also agree with the other poster, in that approaching increases in socially acceptable places of courtship like a bar or a night club.

Here is a video of a woman who walked in NYC and gets a lot of attention. She's not what would be considered very attractive in my book, yet she gets showered with attention. Hence, I could only image how much stronger it would be for an attractive female. The people of the website call it "street harassment," which I think it ridiculous. However, it does show how many AFC approach. Keep in mind that this video is only of NYC; it may not be exactly same in other cities or with other populations.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1XGPvbWn0A

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Here's a similar video with a male actor. If a man is getting approached or hit on, just imagine what it's like when the woman is a recipient.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InUeOWlgebM

 

[G_Govan]

If a beta approaches a hot girl, to her, it doesn't count. It only counts if she gets approached by an alpha.

So yes that girl you were talking to does get approached a lot but to her it doesn't even matter.

I agree with zekko. The hot ones are getting approached left and right. Girls will often say "no one ever approaches me" just to get more attention.

Agreed.

The hottest women are also the most aloof. They're the ones that generally don't go places without their boyfriends or can be seen wearing head phones and/or staring at their phones constantly. They also tend to walk really fast. Oh and they sometimes employ the b-tch face as a deterrent.

Basically, they actively avoid most men wherever they go.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The first day of law school, we split up into these little orientation groups and were supposed to tell the rest of the group about ourselves. One girl, who was hot, yes, mentioned she had a dog. I had just gotten a German Shepherd, and I was honestly wondering if she had one, too. In front of the group of about eight people, I asked her what kind of dog she had.

"I have a weiner dog...AND A HUSBAND!!!" was her reply. lol, I wasn't even trying to hit on her.

I remember another law school girl, she was tall and thin. I only thought of her as moderately attractive, though. I'm sure she thought she was hot. We both got to school at the same time, parked our cars, and were about to end up walking in together, just out of coincidence. She saw me coming, and this is a girl I had never even tried to talk to before, and that b!tch did the 50-yard dash in high heels to keep from having to talk to me. I have never seen a woman move that fast in heels.

 

[KingBeef]

The first day of law school, we split up into these little orientation groups and were supposed to tell the rest of the group about ourselves. One girl, who was hot, yes, mentioned she had a dog. I had just gotten a German Shepherd, and I was honestly wondering if she had one, too. In front of the group of about eight people, I asked her what kind of dog she had.

"I have a weiner dog...AND A HUSBAND!!!" was her reply. lol, I wasn't even trying to hit on her.

I remember another law school girl, she was tall and thin. I only thought of her as moderately attractive, though. I'm sure she thought she was hot. We both got to school at the same time, parked our cars, and were about to end up walking in together, just out of coincidence. She saw me coming, and this is a girl I had never even tried to talk to before, and that b!tch did the 50-yard dash in high heels to keep from having to talk to me. I have never seen a woman move that fast in heels.

Wow, that's crazy... One of my turning points as a DJ was back in my early 20's. I was just an average, maybe a below average looking guy (before lifting weights, braces and finding my sense of style) I would walk up to a girl "just to talk" to them, honestly that's all it was. I kid you not it must have happened to me like 10 times in a row in one year. As I walking up to them, once they get a look at me, they would either grimace or briefly give me that "disgusted" look on their face like you are disgusting. After that I used it as motivation to get me physically were I needed to be to play this dating game.

As far as hb9 women that claim that no men hit on them, TRUST ME. I've witnessed thousands of scenarios at bars/clubs. The men who hit on them who they think are not in "their league" are not even considered as a hit on. If there are 3-5 of them in a group, they would rather dance by themselves then interact with some guy who they claim is just "average" or not worthy of their time...

 

[nismo-4]

Do beautiful girls not get approached a lot because most guys are intimidated by them? You'd think that really attractive women get approached a lot because guys obviously like good looking women. But on the other hand, I think that most guys would be too intimated to approach them.

There's this girl I work with who's already taken. She's clearly an above average looking women. I was curious, so I asked her when she goes throughout her day (at school, work, gym, grocery store) do a lot of guys try to talk to her/approach her and she told me she doesn't get approached a lot.

Don't waste your time with this taken woman as you're already friendzoned. Point being, she told you she don't get approached a lot.

That's right, not a lot by alphas!

She just says that to get some more attention. Though she gets swarmed by beta males who she would rather be invisible.

And this thing of hot women don't get approached a lot is an urban myth. How often do you think Kate Upton gets approached? Or any Sports Illustrated model? Oh, do you think you wouldn't be approached a lot if you were Katy Perry or Shakira?

Remember, a woman's perfect world is one where all men are muscular model tall millionaires.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Yeah sure guys dont approach hot girls cause they are intimidated from them as much as beggars dont approach guys parking a ferrari cause they're afraid they couldnt handle so many coins.

Its one of those myth you hear when you are a kid, its real as much as the one where a girl likes a guy who buys her flowers or is persistent while rejected.

 

[SKOL Vikings]

So the majority of you feel this isn't true. Interesting. I don't feel like this girl would lie about this, but who knows.

*shrugs shoulders*

 

[zekko]

I have to say this myth was one of the things I was told when I was younger that I was most disappointed to find out wasn't true when I grew up. In that respect, it's a real Blue Pill myth. The upcoming guy gets to think he can be a real hero to the prettiest girl because he'll be the only one to ask her out. What a load of BS.

I never believed girls were Disney princesses, but I believed this when I first heard it. Like I said, I was very disappointed to find out this wasn't true. Gorgeous women are surrounded by men. All kinds of men: Men to bang them, men to take them out, men to like their Facebook pages, etc.

 

[mangotot]

I don't agree that they don't get cold approached either, because the hottest girls I've been out with would get hit on all the time. Strangers would practically approach them on the street. Maybe 19 year old guys are too afraid to talk to pretty women, but get midway into your 20s and I guarantee that won't be the case.

Maybe its dependent on your location. Which city you live in?

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

What I've personally realized is, Gorgeous women are actually more often surrounded by WOMEN. They are at the frontline and are, I think, used by the hot chick, as a superficial strategic defense system...this includes your c0ckblockers and scavengers...the lesser attractives who try to intercept guys chasing the hot chick. This sexual hierarchy is adhered to in bars and clubs. I would include the occasional gay lean-on male friend and the subservient orbiter...she sees ALL of them as equally below her.

I don't think they plan this system in this way. They are just so self-centered that if you go along with it, you fall into your spot around her.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Totally agree. The hierarchy of which I speak is never planned...nor is it even realized...I personally suspect it is enacted from the biological impulse...a Darwinistic "sexual survival" if you will.

When I see a hot chick surrounded by a group of lesser attractive females I immediately envision a shark and that little tiny fish that attaches itself to the shark.

Mutual agenda. It's nature's way of preserving the food chain.

Some of those "lesser" visually attractive females may be more attractive when you get to know them... Think about that one for a bit.

Some of these 9's and 10's are narcissist of the highest level and that's not much fun to deal with.