Do attractive girls make eye contact with you?

[DJVladdy]

YES

For me,
amount of eye contact I get from girls in random everyday situations...
is directly proportional to how I'm feeling (my vibe, mood, intent, flow, energy w/e u wanna call it... Weird isn't it??

I mean.. I still have pretty much same face and body, right?
regardless of that, and doesnt even matter how im dressed - every fvcken time the above turns out the same way.

If I feel like James Bond in a particular time period, that's when I get eye-fvcked.

 

[KennethJones]

Why whats wrong are you sick, or handicapped etc? just wondering

I am not attractive thus I am not very visually appealing.

I am invisible to people if I stay out of their way. I am quiet as well so I don't draw attention from anyone

 

[Effington]

I might be off on a tangent here, but location seems to be a big indicator. For example, in my condo complex we all smile and say hi to each other, even though we don't know each other. At work I always do as well, even though I barely know anyone at the company besides my immediate coworkers. (Side note; I've met a LOT of cool people there just by smiling first and saying 'hi', and then they start up a conversation, people like making new friends at work) In the dorms at school everyone would be cordial and talk, even if you didn't know each other.

On the streets in a big city, I've found that -maybe- 10% of people will look you in the eye. It's sooo weird. Maybe they think they're in too much of a hurry to be bothered to look at you? I don't know. I went to school in a cornfield town, and the townies were all really nice, really friendly people.

While I don't know the whole psychology of the mind, I have a feeling that people who won't look you square in the eye have some sort of complex or esteem issues. Just like someone else said, people get nervous around really hot people. If you maintain eye contact (and make sure to smile, that's even more important!!) then if they don't reciprocate any sort of face gesture, that's just on them.

Random side note, I've found I have to be able to tell a lot about the executives at the company I work just by their body language, for example, just walking by them in the hall and saying hi. It's not hard to tell why certain ones there are very successful.

 

[procanto]

I think no matter where i am at the moment with that special someone, as long as it is unexpected tht is romantic..imagine coming out of work and finding your mate their waiting , says he just wanted to see you and youre all for it and then while walking all of a sudden he starts telling you how he feels and then on front of anyone around he gets on his knees and he proposes..that is totally rad..

 

[slaog]

The uglier (or not as attractive) women will avoid eye contact from my experiance. Maybe it's those with less confidence.

YES

For me,
amount of eye contact I get from girls in random everyday situations...
is directly proportional to how I'm feeling (my vibe, mood, intent, flow, energy w/e u wanna call it... Weird isn't it??

I mean.. I still have pretty much same face and body, right?
regardless of that, and doesnt even matter how im dressed - every fvcken time the above turns out the same way.

If I feel like James Bond in a particular time period, that's when I get eye-fvcked.

I agree..

I have seen it for myself lately that but changing your body language you get different reactions from people... men and women. Have open friendly body language and people are more likely likey to say hello etc..

Hold you head up, look straight ahead, relax you face and you'll appear friendlier.

am not attractive thus I am not very visually appealing.

I am invisible to people if I stay out of their way. I am quiet as well so I don't draw attention from anyone

You can make yourself more attractive by changing how you see yourself.

If you walk with your head down and avoid people then obviously people will want to avoid you but if you change and become more friendlier then people will want to be around you.

Simple isn't it!

 

[Poonani Maker]

I can honestly say beyond a shadow of a doubt that I get looks Constantly throughout my day. I don't care how old or how young. I had a yoga instructor yesterday take me into her kitchen after she answered the door and she was eye-fvcking the sh1t outta me. She followed me out after giving me some bottled water, and then I saw her later on that day walking around downtown and she stared directly at me smiling so much so that I had to look away because it became uncomfortable. I didn't want to look like a serial killer by continuing to lock eyes.

Some women I think want to fvck me in the moment then and there. I wish it were that easy, and have you ever just dropped and done it with a complete stranger?

 

[speakeasy]

YES

For me,
amount of eye contact I get from girls in random everyday situations...
is directly proportional to how I'm feeling (my vibe, mood, intent, flow, energy w/e u wanna call it... Weird isn't it??

I mean.. I still have pretty much same face and body, right?
regardless of that, and doesnt even matter how im dressed - every fvcken time the above turns out the same way.

If I feel like James Bond in a particular time period, that's when I get eye-fvcked.

I'm not sure I believe in all this new-age stuff about the "energy" and "aura" you put off. I can tell you that it really doesn't make any difference what mood I'm in. I don't see any difference in how girl's react to me as I'm walking by. Now if I look pissed, obviously people will avoid eye contact, probably out of fear. But if I just have a neutral look on my face, regadless of how negative or positive I feel, it wont make any difference. The only way I think it will matter if if you are acting OUTWARDLY happy, but even then it has to be done right. I've seen people walking around laughing and smiling to themselves and they look like loonies. It depends on how you play the "good vibe" thing off.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

yea, i'd say so. I'm a brotha and quite a bit of black girls check me out. All other races do too except asian(Phillipina girls do tho). it might be because i have a handsome face, and sometimes its what i wear. When i usually wear a black topcoat, get LOTS of e/c from girls during the winter time.

 

[speakeasy]

I might be off on a tangent here, but location seems to be a big indicator. For example, in my condo complex we all smile and say hi to each other, even though we don't know each other. At work I always do as well, even though I barely know anyone at the company besides my immediate coworkers. (Side note; I've met a LOT of cool people there just by smiling first and saying 'hi', and then they start up a conversation, people like making new friends at work) In the dorms at school everyone would be cordial and talk, even if you didn't know each other.

On the streets in a big city, I've found that -maybe- 10% of people will look you in the eye. It's sooo weird. Maybe they think they're in too much of a hurry to be bothered to look at you? I don't know. I went to school in a cornfield town, and the townies were all really nice, really friendly people.

While I don't know the whole psychology of the mind, I have a feeling that people who won't look you square in the eye have some sort of complex or esteem issues. Just like someone else said, people get nervous around really hot people. If you maintain eye contact (and make sure to smile, that's even more important!!) then if they don't reciprocate any sort of face gesture, that's just on them.

You've discovered a great irony of social psychology. The higher the density of people, the less likely they are to reach out to one another. When I'm walking through a very crowded place like an airport, large concert venue or a shopping center around the holidays, those are the times I feel most anonymous and distant from others. Yet, if you were hiking out in wilderness and you came across one other person the whole day and you crossed paths, you two would probably stop and talk to each other.

It's weird that it's like that huh? The more people, the more effort you have to put into standing out from the crowd, and that also means more effort into attracting the looks of women. So you must either be VERY good looking, or you must be peacocking like crazy.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

And the funny thing is, it really doesn't matter if u get eye contact from girls or not walking by. Hell, some of them didn't hold eye contact or give a second glance, but were VERY receptive. Some are just very shy about it.

 

[Smack]

During the day time, not really. Here in Britain, people don't generally make eye-contact with strangers unless they are coming into some other form of contact. I've had the odd stare, though, usually when I'm in the shopping centre. I, of course, try and make eye contact, but strangers won't usually take you on.

At night when everyone is out on the pull it's a different story, though!

 

[daygameguy]

They check out people around them.. but I don't get any smiles unless I open my mouth.

 

[LoneSilver]

I get double takes alot but what I watch for more importantly is if your inside a public place like a grocery store or Mall if they come in your area..this was the way I met one of the young ladies I am seeing now I noticed her hanging around my area it seemed like I couldn't loose her if I went here there she was if I went over there same thing...

Coming into your area even if they didn't make eye contact you should investigate further and approach make small talk first to test interest level and to determine if her personality is your type and could be someone you could hang with...

LoneSilver

 

[Poonani Maker]

So you must either be VERY good looking, or you must be peacocking like crazy.

So speaking of peacocking, would wearing a company (airline) shirt that kinda sticks out be a bold form of sticking out in the club/bar? I usually don't wear anything outrageous or dress down, but have been thinking about wearing this shirt with the company logo right in the middle of the chest.

I think peacocking means donning clothes that should get you beat up or ridiculed but doesn't showing that you're still here having fun, laughing and in good spirits. It shows your toughness that your clothes do not make you as a person although if she likes the company I'm sportin then that's bonus points too.