PDubb75 said:
What's best is for it to become second nature to approach these girls. It won't be as much "work" when you get more comfortable with it. You should always be ready to approach when you see someone you would like to get with. There is no limit to the number of girls you can talk to, and you should NEVER not approach simply because you did a lot of approaching earlier in the day.
I'd like to get to that point where I can cold approach easily. I do a lot of approaches,but I typically have to internalize things before I decide to approach. And that takes a good ten seconds or so where I'm like "Hmm, is she young/old enough, etc...?" Which is a minor sticking point for me. And any hesitation during Day Game is a killer. Also, gaming in front of people at stores is tough for me. Like when a hot woman is in line checking out, I usually don't approach her due to the external circumstances. I'm not afraid of approaching the woman per say, because if she was in the cereal aisle, it would be on. haha But little negative things go through my head when I consider gaming women in front of many people. Why does this happen to me? Why is gaming in front of people and number closing there such a negative thing in my head?
I tried to push my limits the past two days. I did 10 cold approaches today and 10 yesterday, though I have issues approaching 2 or 3-sets when they look like they're in deep dialogue. I have to get over that sticking point.
By the way, I had trouble getting numbers off my cold approaches. I only got one. Over half the women I talked to had boyfriends.
Serdude: Thanks for the input. I just have to force myself to go out and approach more. What kind of affirmations do you read?