Look, guys, I'm not saying looks don't count, BUT charisma is everything. By charisma I mean a person's sheer, unflinching belief in themself and what they spend their life doing...
Now, a lot of celebrities don't even have that much charisma when you meet them. They really think that their temporary - and artificial - status makes them superior individuals in itself, which it doesn't.
In 10 or 15 years' time, there won't be much to separate me from Cameron Diaz, but by then she won't be hot any more. So all this obsession about looks is a silly abstract little thing.
Now, if somebody has been successful in business, THAT is impressive, and shows drive and charisma. Other charismatic people I've met - police officers, soldiers, politicians etc...
People who have a SOCIAL ambition to change things for the better (though clearly not all of them are that nice, but you see what I mean!).
There's nothing more dull than people who are obsessed about looks. How boring and uninteresting. Before you know it, they'll be gone anyway, so focus on making a lasting change instead, have a long term plan, and you can end up in a happy relationship...because you have your own life together.