Do all hot girls rule?

[Helter Skelter]

In keeping with DJ principles that we are the prize, one observation comes to mind.

Every guy I know who is married to a really hot looking girl, the girl is the one who is the boss in the relationship.

Guys who are married to average looking/ or unattrative women, I would say it's a mixed bag.

I've yet to come across a couple where the girl is a 9 or10
and didn't wear the pants in the relationship.

Are Don Juan's no longer the prize once in a LTR with a hot chick?

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Sounds like a false generalisation to me.

It has been discussed several times here, that the current male soceity is being feminised, hence the proliferation of AFCs in marriages - I'd say that this is more likely the reason for your observations.

 

[Bungo Pony]

DJs should be laying down the law right at the beginning when they're dating a woman. The woman will continually test her limits with the man. After time, a lot of men begin to cave in. They start doing things to keep the woman "happy". They don't want to put up with her 5hitfits and pouting when she doesn't get her own way. The easiest way out is giving into her.

The easiest way isn't the best way. If the man continues to let the woman have her own way, the power of the relationship will shift, and she'll be the one who controls everything. A DJ needs to stick to his guns and tell the woman "No" when it is necessary. As long as a DJ is able to stand up to the woman and stand his ground, he will remain the prize in a relationship.

 

[Helter Skelter]

I can't speak for Europe, but it's definitely prevalent in the USA.

DJ's in the dating scene are landing most of the best chicks but once a LTR develops the hot women rule in every situation I've seen. Has anyone had a different experience?

 

[Chaos-Knight]

I think DJ's still are the prize in a LTR.

if she is afraid to lose you then the jeans are on us...
if your afraid to lose her and she threatens break-up
whenever she wants something HER way,
then she wears the jeans...

If a HB gets her way and uses break-up as a tool
to get what she wants,then whats the point in being
with her?

I myself don't agree with marrage cause the whole
Ownership thing...she owns you you own here ect...

just a few random thoughts...

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Yeah, it's down to AFCs in relationships w/ HBs saying to themselves "I must supplicate or lose this beautiful pvssy". Short and simple methinks.

Bungo is dead-on with his advice there (and I need to implement it in my own relationship - thanks for the reminder Bungo!),

Oscar.

 

[BobbDobbs]

I thought the definition of marriage was, in fact, surrender of the male to the female.

 

[quasimoto]

I would agree, but there are exceptions. How many of these couples would you say are genuinely happy? I don't think that the women in those relationships are happy. If someone better looking, or more challenging, or wealthier, or whatever else comes along were do you think that the husband is going to be? My guess is out the door, or in the dark while she is banging that other guy. A lot of the hot women who get married in their twenties turn into single mom's in their thirties after they figure out that the guy they are with, whether he's a pushover or a jerk, cannot make them happy. That is why I think it is extremely important to become the kind of guy that we are trying to become here. We can get the hot twenty something girl that is worthwhile, and because of the kind of people we are trying to be, i.e. having an interesting life, keep them interested well into their 30's, 40's, 50's etc.
The guy in those type of relationships is rarely happy. He may be so thrilled to have a hot girl that his happiness becomes secondary to her wants. He is bull****ting himself. I think its better to have a girl that isn't extremely hot and have a mutual relationship than to have a girl that is hot and have a one sided relationship. The happiest relationships are the ones where both people have close to an equal amount of give and take. I know that at first we do a lot of things to raise her IL, and the like, but for the long haul eventually there has to be an equality, and a genuine friendship based on trust and respect, of course she still needs to be able to give you a hard on, but sex is only one part of a serious relationship. this post went a lot longer than I thought, sorry if I rambled. hope this answers your question

 

[Player_Supreme]

Tommy lee Jones and Pamela Anderson...Tommy lee controlled the shyt outta that biatch

Madonna and Shawn Penn...look who ruled there.

Bobby Brown and Whitney...look who rules there.

Maybe in your life the chicks rule but not from where I sit Helmutz.

Oh skeezer...you really need to get out more holmes. 39 years old and sitting at home alone is not the DJ way!

 

[Player_Supreme]

Oh skizzo: My buddy thinks some hot babe messed you up...is that true? I mean even a white boy like him can change and become a player...he is 36 and has a ho he plays with and more on the way...

"I never Knew it could be this good" he just said. lol@ya...

and no we aren't sitting here playing with ourselves. he just finished training in my studio and is recuping...so don't bother with that fake gay crap comeback....lol.

 

[Helter Skelter]

I think one thing can't be denied.

When a truly beautiful woman walks in the room she commands the kind of attention normally reserved for celebrities. The best DJ's will never get that kind of attention.

A beautiful woman can probably get 50 offers for everyone the best DJ gets. A truly beautiful woman is rare and she knows it.
Those are hard facts to compete with.

Which is why their's a site like this, so we can try to obtain something most guys only dream about.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Player,

If you knew what you were doing you be bangin a hot babe instead of talking to me.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Yeah I have to agree with you on this point..and that is cause most guys are punks with no nutts...jueavos...

most fools with see a fine woman and start staring and chasing after them...and getting punked out.

 

[HeyPretty]

Bobby Brown and Whitney...look who rules there.

It's easy to control someone through violence. It's a real man or woman who will talk with their partner about issues, and go to bat together.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Yes, usually the best looking person will dominate, male or female in a relationship. Or the richest person will dominate. Thats why Psychologist advise you to go for someone relatively equally good looking to yourself.

 

[Chaos-Knight]

what about the DJ that can conquer the dance floor...
doesn't he get ALOT of attention?
And if the hottest chick is stuck-up then
thats HER loss... Why is she even in a club anyway?

And if you are the best guy in there doesn't that mean
that the best girls will be watching you?

 

[HeyPretty]

Chaos Knight, I think the def. of "Best guy" is totally in the eye of the beholder.

Different people are attracted to different things.

 

[Helter Skelter]

So all you DJ's who plan on marrying someone much better looking then yourself be prepared NOT to be the ALPHA male. Or honey, might seek greener pastures.

Celebrity's are not a good comparison to everyday people.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Helter Skelter
I've yet to come across a couple where the girl is a 9 or10
and didn't wear the pants in the relationship.

You've been watching too much "Blind Date" and "Elimidate" where every guy is your typical AFC.

In the real world, don juans lay the law down.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Guy's never get the attention that women get.

That's why they have Miss America and all those beauty contests for women.

Nobody's watching the Mr. America beauty contest.