Do all decent looking women party?

[rhcp83]

It's crazy, I meet women that you wouldn't see as the type to go to bars/clubs on the weekend, then you see their facebook pics or they talk about their social life, and they're no better than the skanks everyone makes fun of on here.

So is partying to be expected from any semi-decent looking woman until she's old enough where she looks stupid doing so?

I don't care if it's just short-term/hook up, but I'm looking for LTR material.

 

[Rex Lazer]

Ha! That has been the dilemma of my entire summer up until now. A young lady friend of mine met a summer fling, who also happened to be an alcoholic who dabbled in various mind altering substances, and now shes destroying her senior year of college. Anyways, it seems that any moderately good looking women in their late teens to early twenties like to go out quite frequently. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but it does make you have to work that much harder, which also shouldn't be recognized as being that terrible as it will help you learn a lot to land the harder targets. I assume once you make them your girlfriend, if that is your intention, those activities will tend to cease. Maybe you'll just be invited to her little social gatherings? Anyways, consider attending the local house of worship during sunday services and wednesday night bible study sessions. Perhaps that's where you should be looking, but then again, they're just as "bad" as the rest . But don't worry you'll get lucky here soon enough. Just keep on sarging! Good Luck!

 

[Serg897]

"Do all decent looking women party?"

The answer is no. Try looking for decent looking women outside of parties.

 

[rhcp83]

"Do all decent looking women party?"

The answer is no. Try looking for decent looking women outside of parties.

I'm not meeting them at bars/clubs/parties. It just seems any decent looking woman under 30 goes to bars/clubs on the weekend and to me that's a dealbreaker (other than for sex/casual.)

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Girls go out to clubs and bars to have fun. That doesn't make them skanks.

 

[PapiChulo]

Yeas, even fat ugly ones do, and they do get approached by desperate guys in those venues, thus giving them an ego boost. Ha ha. There are some that go there occasionally, the ones that actually have hobbies, sports, or other commitments. That's the reason I don't try to hook up in those places on purpose.

 

[oxford comma]

lol why is it a dealbreaker if girls go to bars and clubs? where are they supposed to go on friday nights?

 

[oxford comma]

better question, where do YOU go on friday nights?

 

[Masculinity]

Girls go out to clubs and bars to have fun. That doesn't make them skanks.

That's right ^

It all depends on how often they party. It is normal to go dancing with friends once in a while--around once a month. However, it also depends on the kind

of girl. Is she a party girl who loves teasing and getting male attention or did she go to the club because her friends dragged her?. You cannot keep a

woman from going out. What you CAN do is select one who goes partying at a similar pace as you party.

Also, it sounds like you want a quality girl; they don't hangout at bars and clubs. What kind of woman do you want? If you want a science fan, go to a

museum. If you want a surfer girl go to the beach. If you want a woman with good values, go to church. You must know what kind of woman you want first

before you can go get her. Once you decide, think about where those women are hanging out.

 

[BigJimbo]

Anglo (American/British) nightlife just gives me a bad vibe. Never have cared to be a part of it. Many guys feel the same as I do. There is a certain sleazy quality to it that I hate. Plus, so many over the hill broads being worshipped! As we say in Ukraine, "Pu--y Ain't Gold!"

 

[rhcp83]

I'm an introvert...don't get my fills out of getting drunk or hanging out in crowded noisy bars/clubs. My ideal date on a weekend would be sitting at home and watching a good movie and having monkey like sex all night with my gf.

I'm not a recluse. I like going out places...I just don't see the point in noisy bars/clubs (having been to a number of them in the past, not "speculating.")

I'm also 28. So I'm looking for a woman that even if she was a part of that in the past, outgrew it.

But it seems every women I meet "Oh I love to go out to the club and dance on the weekends!" or "Girls night out at the bar!" even women who don't look the part.

 

[Nutz]

It's crazy, I meet women that you wouldn't see as the type to go to bars/clubs on the weekend, then you see their facebook pics or they talk about their social life, and they're no better than the skanks everyone makes fun of on here.

So is partying to be expected from any semi-decent looking woman until she's old enough where she looks stupid doing so?

I don't care if it's just short-term/hook up, but I'm looking for LTR material.

You should read this:

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/11/10/good-girls-do/

 

[women haze]

I have learned to stop looking at women as good, or bad...they are simply just women who have been through experiences or lack thereof that shape their mentality good, or bad you be the judge.

basically it's whatever now....

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Do all decent looking women party?

God I hope so

 

[rhcp83]

I'm looking for a quality woman, someone I can have an actual connection with. I don't get drunk/go to bars/clubs/party. I don't care if a woman orders a drink or two when we go out to eat, or is a casual drinker...but if a woman is "at da club" on a weekend, it's safe to say we aren't going to mix.

There are plenty of things a woman can do with her time if she wants to be social other than go to a place to dress like a skank so she can reject guys and feed off their attention or "get drunk."

See a live band or something etc. .

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

I'm looking for a quality woman, someone I can have an actual connection with. I don't get drunk/go to bars/clubs/party. I don't care if a woman orders a drink or two when we go out to eat, or is a casual drinker...but if a woman is "at da club" on a weekend, it's safe to say we aren't going to mix.

There are plenty of things a woman can do with her time if she wants to be social other than go to a place to dress like a skank so she can reject guys and feed off their attention or "get drunk."

See a live band or something etc. .

Well, it seems like it's settled then. Don't date this type of woman.

I've met cool girls at clubs. Bad ones too. But the same can be said for girls I've met in classrooms, work, and everywhere else

 

[In2theGame]

It's crazy, I meet women that you wouldn't see as the type to go to bars/clubs on the weekend, then you see their facebook pics or they talk about their social life, and they're no better than the skanks everyone makes fun of on here.

So is partying to be expected from any semi-decent looking woman until she's old enough where she looks stupid doing so?

I don't care if it's just short-term/hook up, but I'm looking for LTR material.

They all do bro. Either now or later. Even the ones who dont really get out to places like that, the friends are a factor. Most group of girl friends have that slut in the group or the REALLY out going one. she gets convinced to go and check out all the guys and think about all the sausages she can have.

Just to add, if you do get involved seriously with a giirl, they sometimes have a pre set explanation defense if you dont feel right about it. You are too controlling and "just girls night out". If you accept it and let her do her thing, she may feel she can take advantage of it. Ive been there atleast from my point of view. My ex Fiance i let her go hang out with her friends without a problem. her slut friend started wanting to go out and she ended up hookin up with someone and now married to the party guy. Silly me.

 

[Nutz]

I'm looking for a quality woman, someone I can have an actual connection with. I don't get drunk/go to bars/clubs/party. I don't care if a woman orders a drink or two when we go out to eat, or is a casual drinker...but if a woman is "at da club" on a weekend, it's safe to say we aren't going to mix.

There are plenty of things a woman can do with her time if she wants to be social other than go to a place to dress like a skank so she can reject guys and feed off their attention or "get drunk."

See a live band or something etc. .

:sigh:

Again, you guys need to read this:

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2011/11/10/good-girls-do/

There's no such thing as "good girls" or "bad girls". Women are just women, and they all have their own ways of playing the game.

 

[garruk]

i always thought it was an age thing. if youre 28, im pretty sure there arent that many 28 years olds out partying on the weekends.

i just turned 25 myself, and ill admit im a big partier. but already im seeing less and less girls my age out at the hot spots.


are you into the 21-24 age group girls. almost eveyrone in that age range parties. thats a given. its just a matter of how often.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I really don't get why people keep attempting to categorize "all girls" on this board. Some hot girls like to party, some hot girls don't. Just like some handsome guys are DJs and some handsome guys are AFC.

If you find a hot girl in a club drunk and dancing.. Yeah she likes to party
If you find a hot girl in church.. She probably doesn't like to party

You just have to get to know people instead of relying on preconceived notions and stereotypes.