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I said my line,
she said hahah
i didn't really know what to say to hahaha, so I just spattered dumb things ig or smthn.
Sorry to hear that. Next time, try this. You wait 2-3 days. Ideally you call her, 2-3 minutes most but you can text and you simply say it was great meeting you the other day, how is ‘x date’ at ‘x time.?’ Hopefully she says yes obviously and then you can like lightly banter for two more quick minutes at best and say you have to walk in somewhere and gotta go and look forward to it. If she says no you say okay no worries, and just pause silently and let her fill the gap. She will fill the gap I promise you. She is gonna expect you to negotiate against yourself. Let her fill the air with either a different idea or you simply hang up.
 

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TEXTING IN FULL CAPS ALWAYS GETS ATTENTION AND RESPONSES!!!
 

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Sorry to hear that. Next time, try this. You wait 2-3 days. Ideally you call her, 2-3 minutes most but you can text and you simply say it was great meeting you the other day, how is ‘x date’ at ‘x time.?’ Hopefully she says yes obviously and then you can like lightly banter for two more quick minutes at best and say you have to walk in somewhere and gotta go and look forward to it. If she says no you say okay no worries, and just pause silently and let her fill the gap. She will fill the gap I promise you. She is gonna expect you to negotiate against yourself. Let her fill the air with either a different idea or you simply hang up.
But I didn't have her number.
 

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Sorry to hear that. Next time, try this. You wait 2-3 days. Ideally you call her, 2-3 minutes most but you can text and you simply say it was great meeting you the other day, how is ‘x date’ at ‘x time.?’ Hopefully she says yes obviously and then you can like lightly banter for two more quick minutes at best and say you have to walk in somewhere and gotta go and look forward to it. If she says no you say okay no worries, and just pause silently and let her fill the gap. She will fill the gap I promise you. She is gonna expect you to negotiate against yourself. Let her fill the air with either a different idea or you simply hang up.
The "make her fill in the gap" part seems to hit close to home, I was overly excited and really didn't let her say anything.
 

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The "make her fill in the gap" part seems to hit close to home, I was overly excited and really didn't let her say anything.
That’s just normal human behavior, notice how you yourself fell into it..,now that you know, it’s something you can learn from and leverage
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So next time learn from this and get her number.
Yeah, I'll only go for numbers from now on. But can I get her number after a few words? Or do I need to actually get to know her a little? \
Cus with this girl we only spoke for maybe 3 minutes, again she barely spoke.
 

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If you're lucky you have a 5% chance she might thank you for being her follower.

also dont take advice from these losers.. none of these guys get b.itches. if they did, theyd post proof. Just go back to Valentines Day, none of these guys had ANYHTING going on.. meanwhile, i posted 2 diff b.itches at 2 diff cribs my guyyyyyyy
 

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If you're lucky you have a 5% chance she might thank you for being her follower.

also dont take advice from these losers.. none of these guys get b.itches. if they did, theyd post proof. Just go back to Valentines Day, none of these guys had ANYHTING going on.. meanwhile, i posted 2 diff b.itches at 2 diff cribs my guyyyyyyy
Where else should I get my advice? (resources)
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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