Im not really sure how I stand right now. maybe you guys can evaluate my situation here.
I met this girl through a friend and ive hung out with her a few times. first time we were at a club. I went for the funny guy approach, cracked jokes and kept making sexual puns involving the subject. She seemed receptive, she would always play along with the sexual puns. (i made few references of having sex in the bathroom, she replied lets go, when i said just kidding she would reply with "such a tease") later on I went to a couch to sit down to see if she would follow, she did. We spoke for a bit, conversation was good, definately had some touch contact.) Then I left to join the group again. After the club we went to my friends house to chat. I was trying to focus on her and found myself mostly singled out of the group with her chatting about random ****. That night I wasnt at all interested in her. So i made fun of her and I made some digusting comments. Either way I think she was receptive. But then after i left I relized that I might actually like the girl. night ends, no number, no hug, no kiss...
second time we hung out, this time with a bigger group. Except this time I couldnt get alone with her. She seemed more interested in chatting with other people in our group (maybe she was attracted to one of my friends, she seemed to give more attention to him.) So i let it be, and I talked to some other people. night goes on with only a few quick interchages between us. this night she didnt seem at all receptive to me. I tried the same tactic, left the group to go sit down somewhere esle, she followed, but then quickly left to join the group. (note I did not mention to anyone that i was leaving the group, I was subtle and left. She obviously took notice and followed - either she feels bad and wants to keep me company or something esle, I dont know.) I ended up being dissapointed at the end of the night because she def. was not as receptive as the other night. example, I tried to get some one on one talk action going by complimenting her skirt but she says "thanks, what are you, my stylist?" laughs and returns to talk with the rest of the group. Night ends, again no number no nothing....
so fellow DJs, where do I stand right now? Do I have any chance? The thing about this girl is that she is extremely nice and playful. So she really could be just playing along with me. She is naturally flirtatous. How do I get closer, how should I approach her to get a number or email contact? How do I know if she is interested in me, again I think it might just be her personality that makes her seem interested in me, when she really might not be.
thanks, sorry for the long post.
I met this girl through a friend and ive hung out with her a few times. first time we were at a club. I went for the funny guy approach, cracked jokes and kept making sexual puns involving the subject. She seemed receptive, she would always play along with the sexual puns. (i made few references of having sex in the bathroom, she replied lets go, when i said just kidding she would reply with "such a tease") later on I went to a couch to sit down to see if she would follow, she did. We spoke for a bit, conversation was good, definately had some touch contact.) Then I left to join the group again. After the club we went to my friends house to chat. I was trying to focus on her and found myself mostly singled out of the group with her chatting about random ****. That night I wasnt at all interested in her. So i made fun of her and I made some digusting comments. Either way I think she was receptive. But then after i left I relized that I might actually like the girl. night ends, no number, no hug, no kiss...
second time we hung out, this time with a bigger group. Except this time I couldnt get alone with her. She seemed more interested in chatting with other people in our group (maybe she was attracted to one of my friends, she seemed to give more attention to him.) So i let it be, and I talked to some other people. night goes on with only a few quick interchages between us. this night she didnt seem at all receptive to me. I tried the same tactic, left the group to go sit down somewhere esle, she followed, but then quickly left to join the group. (note I did not mention to anyone that i was leaving the group, I was subtle and left. She obviously took notice and followed - either she feels bad and wants to keep me company or something esle, I dont know.) I ended up being dissapointed at the end of the night because she def. was not as receptive as the other night. example, I tried to get some one on one talk action going by complimenting her skirt but she says "thanks, what are you, my stylist?" laughs and returns to talk with the rest of the group. Night ends, again no number no nothing....
so fellow DJs, where do I stand right now? Do I have any chance? The thing about this girl is that she is extremely nice and playful. So she really could be just playing along with me. She is naturally flirtatous. How do I get closer, how should I approach her to get a number or email contact? How do I know if she is interested in me, again I think it might just be her personality that makes her seem interested in me, when she really might not be.
thanks, sorry for the long post.
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