MacAvoy
Banned
Ok first off, the title is misleading. I can honestly say I don't ever remember been flaked on. So my guide is not going to be so much about how to deal with flakes its going to be about not getting flaked on.
Its all rather simple. The problem is you guys are chasing girls with low IL. The problem is with your game. Your not creating enough attraction in the stages leading up to the flake.
Now I've gone on many first dates where I never got a second one, so I'm not saying I'm the master. I've had first dates that I thought have gone great but when I phone for a second date, I don't even get an answer or a call back to a VM.
So what do I do? I go look for a new target and charm the hell out of her. I'm either really good with women or I'm terrible. I don't know if it comes to chemistry or what.
My point is, if she's not that interested in you, why are you wasting your time chasing someone who doesn't like you? Do you really want a relationship with a women who doesn't like you enough to keep her plans with you, which will lead to her disrespecting you in the future because she doesn't like you that much?
Flaking is a direct result of LOW IL. Its because you didn't create attraction when you were interacting with her up to that point. So stop focussing on the flake and focus on what your doing wrong. Step up your game gentelmen.
If you do get flaked on, stop contacting her and get out there and find WOMEN who actually like you and want to be with you. What is so difficult about that?
Its all rather simple. The problem is you guys are chasing girls with low IL. The problem is with your game. Your not creating enough attraction in the stages leading up to the flake.
Now I've gone on many first dates where I never got a second one, so I'm not saying I'm the master. I've had first dates that I thought have gone great but when I phone for a second date, I don't even get an answer or a call back to a VM.
So what do I do? I go look for a new target and charm the hell out of her. I'm either really good with women or I'm terrible. I don't know if it comes to chemistry or what.
My point is, if she's not that interested in you, why are you wasting your time chasing someone who doesn't like you? Do you really want a relationship with a women who doesn't like you enough to keep her plans with you, which will lead to her disrespecting you in the future because she doesn't like you that much?
Flaking is a direct result of LOW IL. Its because you didn't create attraction when you were interacting with her up to that point. So stop focussing on the flake and focus on what your doing wrong. Step up your game gentelmen.
If you do get flaked on, stop contacting her and get out there and find WOMEN who actually like you and want to be with you. What is so difficult about that?