DJ'ness out of control....

TheLadiesMan

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Ok... I mean way out of control!

First...

Finally fed up with baby's momma, told her to kiss my ass. Baby's momma been ringing me up like crazy.

Went out with some friends to a club a couple of weeks ago, met a woman there, hooked up myself, and my friends with her friends.

Today, my best bud's ex-gf, gave me her number. MY BEST BUD'S GF!!! ...I told my bud about this, and he said he knew, and that she had told him. SHE TOLD HIM SHE WAS GOIGN TO GIVE ME HER NUMBER!!!! (I'm a bit drunk as I type this as I just got back from a pub with my best bud, who's ex was coming up to see ME and not him, and to avoid the drama I left before she got there, only to run into her in the parking lot on my way out. :) )

Not before some chic gave me her numer, and a kiss, before I left. :D

It's going to be a great year. :)

PS.. hehehe

Just wanted to say this site is the damn ****.
 

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So you have a child with a woman whom you're no longer with, and you had an argument with her.

And your best friend's ex gave you her number, presumably in a plot to destroy your friendship with said friend.

And this is the beginning of a great year?
 

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So much for "Bros before Hos".

Yep, lovely way to start the year.
 

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That's not "DJ'ness out of control". That's being a poor father/roll model, riding your friends coat tails, and getting a random phone number.

Being a PUA beyond your means is what's happening to me right now, where you've advanced to the level of juggling so many girls that you're having trouble keeping track of what's going on with all of them and don't have enough time in the day to keep it together:(
 

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Let the haters come out... :)

I highly suggest you guys do a search of my name here, and past your time educating yourself. This progression, has been over the course of a few months.

Let me put it this way....

DJ to AFC... BACK to DJ.

I'm not going to go into what a great father I am, and what a b*tch his momma is, because that's for you to read and find out for yourself. ;)
 

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Nope.. no arguments with the baby's momma, just done with her "control" attitude. *shrugs*

...and WRONG again, she likes me. There's no "plot", just that simple. They have been broken up for months now, MONTHS, but he is still totally trippin over her. She must of F'ed his brains out, because he's got it BAD! They dated for like 6 months. Look, he's my bud, that's why I told him that she gave me her number, and even after he told me she had told him too, HE STILL WANTS TO TRY TO GET BACK WITH HER!

Yes, 4 different women in 2 weeks, it's going to be a great year b*tches. ;)

italostud said:
So you have a child with a woman whom you're no longer with, and you had an argument with her.

And your best friend's ex gave you her number, presumably in a plot to destroy your friendship with said friend.

And this is the beginning of a great year?
 

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Please tell me more o great DJ of this site. Been there, done it, and doing it again. ;)

PRMoon said:
That's not "DJ'ness out of control". That's being a poor father/roll model, riding your friends coat tails, and getting a random phone number.

Being a PUA beyond your means is what's happening to me right now, where you've advanced to the level of juggling so many girls that you're having trouble keeping track of what's going on with all of them and don't have enough time in the day to keep it together:(
 

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Okay so I'm not going to comment on your parenting skills. I'm sure you and the mother have your issues for whatever reasons, but you were the one who got her pregnant so you made your bed.

You definately did ride your friends coat tails though. If some girl who's dating or has dated your friend gives you her number and tells you to call her, then you just rode coat tails. That's pretty much the definition. And despite popular belief, getting a phone number from a random chick does not a DJ make.

I'm not claiming to be the superior DJ but what you just described there is not an exceptional feat. In fact I'm feeling very un DJ these days cause i can't figure out what I want to do. Yesterday I sent an identicle text message to four girls because I'm trying to manage already current relationships with all of them. One of them text me back and apparently lost her phone and with it my number. I don't respond but she calls me while i'm eating lunch. I remind her who I am and what we were doing before she went back to thai land for holiday leave. She then remembers but I'm at lunch so I tell her I'll call her back. Another one text back and wonders when we were going to hang out, and I ask her when she wanted to meet up. She said tonight or tomorrow night. I have a late meeting tomorrow (today as it stands) so I told her tonight was good. I'd pick her up at 8.30.

Another girl text me back as I'm leaving lunch with one of the massage girls I've been trying to open something up with for a few days. She says she's been thinking about me and I should call her tomorrow (again that's today) and we should talk about going to some club on the weekend. I'm not doing that, but I told her I'd give her a call. The last girl I texted said "oh really, I was napping when I got your text" She's in Louisiana right now but thought it was nice I was still thinking of her when she was out of town.

So I've got deffinate arrangements with one, and need to call another check. Two days ago I was on a date with ANOTHER girl but didn't take her home cause I was not feeling very well. Some how I got it in my head she might attempt to call me later so I text her and say I'd like to sleep alone again tonight but I'd like to see her tomorrow after 10pm (After my meeting). I told her I could stay the night because I don't have to work until 4 on friday. That got her plenty excited and she was down with that plan so she wont' be doing any suprise calling while I have compnay.

I close up at work a little after 8:30 so the girl i'm suppose to meet calls me wondering where i am. I tell her I'm on my way. 15 mins later I'm in my car on my way to her place and when i get there and pick her up i realize I forgot to call one of the girls I was suppose to, so now I have two calls to make in the morning. I take this girl back to my place where we have exactly two drinks before having sex for about an hour. She rest for a bit but has work tomorrow and wants to go home which i agreed to happily. I took her home go to the store to buy some pita and humas and go home.

That is the last half of ONE DAY in the life of a PUA. I spawned so much game and have my hand in so many pies that it's damn near over extention of my means. I'm good at this stuff but it's getting hard to keep track of what's going on when I do so much. I have to write down my scheduling in a friggin day planner to keep track of it all, making it more like work then fun. Again it's not exactly DJing but that's PUAism at it's best.
 

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Good move on getting out of your child's mother's life (I felt she was destroying you).

VERY bad move on getting involved with a friend (best friend)'s ex-gf. No worthy.
 

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PRMoon said:
That is the last half of ONE DAY in the life of a PUA. I spawned so much game and have my hand in so many pies that it's damn near over extention of my means. I'm good at this stuff but it's getting hard to keep track of what's going on when I do so much. I have to write down my scheduling in a friggin day planner to keep track of it all, making it more like work then fun. Again it's not exactly DJing but that's PUAism at it's best.
Is that all supposed to be fun?

I never did the PUA thing to the extent that i was juggling women like that ever in my life. I certainly recall having more than one date set up with different women at one time, but not a full scale plate spin like you described.

I think even if i were single, I'd use all these new DJ skills I've learned since being here to only go after only a few select, HQ women (at a time); meaning 2, 3 max instead of a full-scale plate spin, if for no other reason because your scenario, ............PR Moon, doesn't exactly sound like fun. "Work" was the word that came to mind reading that!

I"m reminded of some threads ive seen in the DJ main forum where guys have asked "are you guys really out there playing all the women". I think perhaps some are that are into that level of chaos, whereas others are just using the DJ skills to snipe out one or two really top notch girls at a time until their ready to move on.

I'm the kind of guy that has other hobbies too, and "women" are only going to get x amount of my time whether i'm married or single.

Azanon
 

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azanon said:
Is that all supposed to be fun?
Mmmm these jalapeno chips are tasty

Hell no it's not suppose to be fun. It's like working out or running a marathon. It's not so much that I enjoy the act itself, but it's the end results of this that make it worth it for me. I get to compare the thoughts and ideas of several girls at the same time which I find interesting. On a personal level, it lets me equalize women in general meaning although I've said I'm not going to take crap from girls in the past, these days I can't afford to. If a girl wants to flake on me, or tries to treat me with disrespect, there's a good chance she gets bumped to the bottom of the list and It may be at least a month before I contact her again. Also spinning 2 plates is cake in comparison to 4 or more.

It's just getting something else out of the game that I want. Though many wouldn't concider doing something like this, I realize I don't have that much time for this world, nor will I be young as I am now in order to pull off such a feat. I'm seizing the moment for something I want. A difficult choice but one I've made.
 

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PRMoon said:
I'm not claiming to be the superior DJ but what you just described there is not an exceptional feat. In fact I'm feeling very un DJ these days cause i can't figure out what I want to do.
Here's a tip... get yo a$$ off the 'puter and get out more. Check your post count, and mine. How the F do you have time to socialize with anyone, let alone a woman, when your sitting on the PC typing a wall of text boredom?

Here's another tip.. GET A LIFE BIG BOY! 8)

Bottomline is.... I'm having a damn good time right now all across the board. :) Job is great, money is great, I've got an awesome kid, who's well taking care of by me. Toss in the fact that I've got all kinds of women trying to get in my pants, and dudes are getting pissed off about it, and things are tits. :D

Call it what the F you want, or however you see it.... I'm getting pvssy. *shrugs* ...and someone is sitting around typing a book, and eating chips. ;)
 

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Latinoman said:
Good move on getting out of your child's mother's life (I felt she was destroying you).

VERY bad move on getting involved with a friend (best friend)'s ex-gf. No worthy.
Nooooo... she wants to get with ME, I'm not trying to get with her! I'll kick myself in the butt later for skipping on her, because she's f'n HOT!!!! ...but that's ok, I'll wait a bit longer for him to get over her. She plays him like a clown, and I tell him this, and he totally ignores me. All he see's is T & A... I've told her to quit clowning him, and she thinks it's funny, as I kinda do too. It's just amazing how far he will follow the trail of sh*t from her, just to see where it came from. NOT TO GET A PIECE OF THAT A$$!... to just see where it came from. :/

He's my bud, and no matter how much I try to tell him, he refuses to listen. So I can't help but chuckle everytime he takes her out to lunch and buys.

She told me today that I owe her a few beers for skipping out on her last night, and leaving her with him at the pub. I told her to kiss my black a$$, and she owed me beers for having to be sucked into this mess. :)

We're going to fvck... just a matter of time. :D ...sooner or later, he'll get over her. I can wait.. tis not like I don't have other offers. ;)

Speaking of post counts and what not.... that green square under my name? ..if you hover the mouse arrow over it, it says a message.... mine says "TheLadiesMan is off the scale!" That means I'm HOT!, b*tches! ...this site knows all. :D
 

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TheLadiesMan said:
Here's a tip... get yo a$$ off the 'puter and get out more. Check your post count, and mine. How the F do you have time to socialize with anyone, let alone a woman, when your sitting on the PC typing a wall of text boredom? ...and someone is sitting around typing a book, and eating chips. ;)
PRMoon said:
That is the last half of ONE DAY in the life of a PUA. I spawned so much game and have my hand in so many pies that it's damn near over extention of my means. I'm good at this stuff but it's getting hard to keep track of what's going on when I do so much. I have to write down my scheduling in a friggin day planner to keep track of it all, making it more like work then fun. Again it's not exactly DJing but that's PUAism at it's best.
Yeah I just had two days of sex with two different girls. Day three with the third is tonight. Thanks for taking the time to read. Also this is the ONLY forum I visit online. But you're a smart guy, I'm sure you figured that out on your own:rolleyes:

Ah well live in your "DJ out of controlness" whatever that means. I post so much because I'm good at writing. You obviously don't read my post because your reading comprehension is low. Still I'm sure your happy riding your buddies coat tails:up: I know i envy you for boldly going where your best friend has gone before:rolleyes:
 

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PRMoon said:
Yeah I just had two days of sex with two different girls.
Your mom and your sister do not count.... but they will for me. :D

*yawn* ...dude, you are truly boring the sh*t out of me. Stop trying to front, you're not getting sh*t from no chic. Man up...
 

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TheLadiesMan said:
Your mom and your sister do not count.... but they will for me. :D

*yawn* ...dude, you are truly boring the sh*t out of me. Stop trying to front, you're not getting sh*t from no chic. Man up...
Believe what you want. You live in columbus ohio. I live in vegas. Which one of us to you think has an easier time finding slutty girls?

Thank you, the end.
 

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PRMoon said:
Believe what you want. You live in columbus ohio. I live in vegas. Which one of us to you think has an easier time finding slutty girls?

Thank you, the end.

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