DJ'ing is like The Matrix

[One on One]

I've been around a while and this site has helped me a lot, but the game doesn't seem as fun any more. It's like before it was news to learn how smooth guys get girls and to learn those moves for myself, but now it all seems so calculated. A girl asked me at a bar this weekend, "did you go to xxxxxx university?" It would be so much more fun if I took that as an innocuous comment, but instead I know that's a pickup line. I can't seem to be natural any more. I feel that any "line" I use, no matter how simple, and I will be exposed as a phony. I don't know...I kinda wish I didn't know the game, but yet it is so powerful. It's like I've taken the blue (or was it red) pill and now there is no going back. Anybody else feel that way? Overcome it somehow?

 

[JT47319]

The reality is that you KNOW that there is the Matrix. You know it exists and you know that you are living this life in the Matrix. BUT you have not taken the blue or red pill. DJ is just a realization of the basics of the Matrix. To understand the true reality of the Matrix you must first step through the door on your own now that you have been shown (DJ) the door.

 

[coldcoal]

Let's try non-fiction.

You're actually boring yourself.

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

It does not have to be so calculated. Free your mind.

 

[Titus]

The blue and red pill again, eh?

You never even took any pills, boy. You're still the hard working daydreaming Neo, not the flying one.

 

[tactic]

so we are all the One?

 

[Yotsuya-san]

To paraphrase William Shatner on SNL, "For crying out loud, it's just a movie!"

 

[DJ Alejandro]

with great power, comes great responsibility.

live with it.

 

[Made.To.Be.Great]

Sometimes I feel the same way... sometimes I just wanna let my emotions flow.... but I KNOW that before I came to this site I WASN'T happy and satisfied and now I'm having more girls and more fun, even tho it's not always easy!

 

[blackjack]

Hey there is nothing wrong if a girl came and asked u which university u went to. LOL. u should feel good actually that girls also come to this site and are getting there thoughts cleared with what all we post here.. Hey i have learnt a lot from u people here .
this makes only one thing clear to me that if i was in ur situation and a girl asked me some thing like that university stuff. i would had took her perspective.

( Girls perspective in general : he is good looking and he came to me with a question, compliment, etc. ok i could talk to him )

here u get to have this option u think she is good looking innvest some talks with her if she get to play the right stuff u still what u like.