Hey everybody! First off, I've been surfing, studying, and learning on these message boards for about 7-8 months now. I prefer not to classify myself as an AFC, DJ, or any other term. This is because I don't think anybody is true DJ simply due to the fact that, in my mind, one of the true qualities to a real DJ is pushing yourself and having the drive to constantly work at becoming a better, more well-rounded man and not being content with the "DJ'ness" that you assume to already posess. However, at the same time, I wouldn't consider myself to be an AFC any more, and it has been some while since I have been one (and I was one at a time, like the most of us, and it is pathetic/embarresing for me to reflect on some of my old ways).
Anyways, a little bit about myself: I recently turned 16, and I'm a very attractive-looking guy with a solid build and a fairly good, somewhat laid-back (yet still out-going) and respectable personality. I have better-than-average intelligence and an okay sense of humor that is based mostly upon real-life situations and sarcasm. My life and my ambitions have to do with sports, as my hard work/dedication over the last 5 or so years has led me into becoming one of the best roller hockey players (for my age) in the country, and I am a fairly decent ice hockey player as well. Ever since I discovered this site (which I did after being devastated following a break-up with my girlfriend of a month and a half that I obsessed over yet never even kissed, being the extremely foolish AFC that I was), I have done everything I possibly could to turn my previous negative outlook on the majority of things in life into one which I would describe as being generally positive and happy. I've also done and try to continue to do everything for my own self-improvement that I can, as I used to be very lazy, less out-going (yet still friendly), and could dress and think well but often didn't simply because I felt no reason to at the time. I have become more determined, sociable/talkative, and more stylish and built than I used to be. I've also turned my personality into the more dominating, alpha-male type as compared to the quiet, un-interested guy. I guess I used to be known as the somewhat reserved yet fairly likeable kid that was athletic and attractive, but now I'm known as an attractive, athletic, sociable and outgoing leader. But the biggest obstacle for me is the fact that I'm homeschooled.
Yes, I still have a decent amount of friends (all of which I have met through hockey and probably only maintain because of hockey), the majority of whom I am very close to. However, my interaction with girls limited to only the following: meeting them through my friends' friends and such, hockey rink situations, and pick-up attempts.
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Anyways, a little bit about myself: I recently turned 16, and I'm a very attractive-looking guy with a solid build and a fairly good, somewhat laid-back (yet still out-going) and respectable personality. I have better-than-average intelligence and an okay sense of humor that is based mostly upon real-life situations and sarcasm. My life and my ambitions have to do with sports, as my hard work/dedication over the last 5 or so years has led me into becoming one of the best roller hockey players (for my age) in the country, and I am a fairly decent ice hockey player as well. Ever since I discovered this site (which I did after being devastated following a break-up with my girlfriend of a month and a half that I obsessed over yet never even kissed, being the extremely foolish AFC that I was), I have done everything I possibly could to turn my previous negative outlook on the majority of things in life into one which I would describe as being generally positive and happy. I've also done and try to continue to do everything for my own self-improvement that I can, as I used to be very lazy, less out-going (yet still friendly), and could dress and think well but often didn't simply because I felt no reason to at the time. I have become more determined, sociable/talkative, and more stylish and built than I used to be. I've also turned my personality into the more dominating, alpha-male type as compared to the quiet, un-interested guy. I guess I used to be known as the somewhat reserved yet fairly likeable kid that was athletic and attractive, but now I'm known as an attractive, athletic, sociable and outgoing leader. But the biggest obstacle for me is the fact that I'm homeschooled.
Yes, I still have a decent amount of friends (all of which I have met through hockey and probably only maintain because of hockey), the majority of whom I am very close to. However, my interaction with girls limited to only the following: meeting them through my friends' friends and such, hockey rink situations, and pick-up attempts.
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