DJBC - WEEK 6 - All groups

[Al Moh.]

"Well, well, let's move on, I am positive that someone is going to finish this boot camp. My path now leads away from the BC, I'll tell you more when I have results. But for you guys, keep up the good work! I really enjoy your reports and I think this is inspiration for the whole community!"

PHAT Rabbit
Heart Break Kid
rushing dude 123

You didn't state that you were done with week 5 but I now you did the date and I assume you tried out stuff to raise the IL. I can't control your number count, you didn't tell us anything about it, but whatever, you did well so I'll move you.




Now, it's your responsibility to complete every week on time. You have to:
- Do the reading
- Complete the exercises
- Write a Report at the end of the week
You may:
- Listen to the music (recommended to get into the mood )
- Report any time during the week in this thread
- Ask questions in this thread
- Give tips in this thread or a thread of the other BC-Groups
If you learn anything new that you think is valuable to others, you are encouraged to post this inside the Tips-Section.

In your Report at the end of the week please state if you were successful completing the week or not. If yes, I am going to move your name to the next week. If no you can either stop or give yourself more time. However, I am not going to take care of you anymore in terms of moving you name further. You have to organise yourself then but can still use this thread.

Each week starts on thursday morning and ends on wednesday evening. Use your local time.

That's about it as general information goes.

The link to the BC one more time:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
or word Version:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc

There you will find each weeks reading material, music picks and exercises. I am just going to repeat the exercises in short form in this threads.



1) Call up a girl that you had a date with and arrange a second one.
2) Try out new strategies to increase IL
3) Keep your number pool at ten or more
4) Do a kiss close if you didn't do one last week


Good luck!


P.S.: Ty rushing dude 123, forgot about that: You'll have two weeks for week 6!

 

[rushing dude 123]

This week is 2 weeks has well, should have enough time to do both week 5 and 6. I am going to catch up with u guys. I some how got to become better than i have ever been to move on, ill find a way.

U guys r doing great on the other hand keep it up, i hope to c u both reach the end.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey RD ! I know you're going to catch up bro, it's more than enough time for you. Us three (congrats PR !) are going to finish this thing ! And thanks Al Moh. I'll make a mental note to include more detail on my using the material in the future.

As for the articles, I'm not very fond of this:

HER: "I like a guy who's muscular”.
YOU (skinny and all): "How does a guy with muscles make you feel"
Her: "He makes me feel protected".

It sounds so... Ross Jefferies too me. The neg-hit parts are interesting and I usually sprinkle them in with HB's, but on a second date after I have returned her interest? Hmmm. The C&F + neg-hits I tend to fade out as time goes on so they take me seriously but maybe I can use them to get a couple numbers.... sounds like a job for GM style.

The compliment parts I use a lot. When the HB acts how I want I compliment, when they don't I make the conversation more mudane and neg-hit. It works in kind of a Pavlovian way.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey bro, nice job on the HB 9. As for me, the girl from last week offered me two times but during both I'm in Montreal. That means I'm in the same boat as you at the moment. I'm not exactly sure how I'm going to do this but it sounds like it's going to be two dates in this week.

The bootcamp seems easy to fall off now. Anyhow what I'm thinking of doing is going out at around 4:00 and do some day-game to get my number pool back up. I'm sitting on seven at the moment. The reason why I'm doing it in the day is so if I'm good I can get an instant date, such as going from the park to get ice cream or whatnot. The added bonus being it is really hot outside.

After that I will get her number and ask her out in a couple days (can we do dates on the weekend this time?)

In my opinion that's the best way to get back on track in 8 days.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Update: My number pool is now at 11 which (8 of which I've spoken to recently on the phone.) There's is a big park/tennis court by my place so I got a few numbers there. It is pretty close to my place though so I don't know if I'll date too many of them.

Anyway the weather is great so I'm going to go get that instant date.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Update 2: I got my instant date yesterday !

I kept it really direct so I would not waste too much time on people who were busy or whatnot. Because of the weather there are tons of joggers outside. One of them seemed like she did not want to stop at the light and was jogging on the spot. I started walking on the spot and she gave me a really dirty look. I have always wanted to do that.

Anyway, after 3 or 4 approaches I saw HB 8 sitting on a bench and I sat down beside her. I ask HB 8 if she knows where I can get a drink and she tells me she usually just goes through this park jogging and does not really know the area (perfect !) Since I'm trying to get a date right away I introduce myself handshake and all and start fluffing. She tells me she's done jogging for today. I ask her why and nickname her Forest because of her running. She says she it is really hot so she is tired and the scenary is beautiful here. After that I went into auto-pilot. I remember her moaning about her forest nickname because she hates the movie but I told her she looks so cute when she pouts.

Eventually she said she was really thirsty and we should go find some really cold water (plus I do not think she was wearing sun-screen !) However I said I have a better idea. =)

After we had ice-cream in a nice air conditioned venue (Are ice-cream shops called restaurants in English? The french is just "une glacerie') I got her number and told her I am out of town after Wednesday but I would like to get to know her better. She said she could do Sunday and I said Monday would be better so we made a date for Monday.

What does this mean?
1) Number pool is nice and deep.
2) I might pass this week despite losing my other date !!

Now barring a deus ex machina I should only have to worry about kiss closing. With my girl last week this would have been so easy but this girl I hardly kinoed. She seems like a very conservative girl and she said while laughing that she better not expect her to put out on the first date. I reminded her it was date number two and she laughed and said how bad I was. I'm going to have to think really hard about where I'm taking her and whatnot because I do not think I can get a second date again for Thursday.

This date I am going have to pull out my best stuff because I am not about toss this bootcamp.

 

[brian123]

HBK...Nice job. I think i am going to print off/do the DJ BC once my semester ends in a few weeks. You guys are all inspiration.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Nice job guys, i will catch up it might not b this week, but i will finish the bootcamp same time. I went on a date with some chick in park, nearly flaked on me, but i guess i improved from last time. I got two plates at moment, so i need some serious catching up. A theory that i was having on my direct game is showing good results has well, but ill get more results and then ill post back. Got lots of loose ends to tie up.

I also like to say u guys have improved so much though from the start and can definetly see a difference from last week and this week.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey guys I just got back to Toronto and I am indeed finished. I did not notice the last requirement was "Do a kiss close if you didn't do one last week" which I did. Man this week was not easy since I had lost my date. However I learned a valuable lesson with my new date on women, sarging and being available. The approach really is the hardest part.

It turned out HB was not as conservative as I thought. She married her high school sweetheart and had divorced that year (she's 21) after he slept with her friend. She had not had another relationship since and was considering dating a coworker (who she said reminded her of george constanza) because she really had no other choice. It's funny that HB 8's/9's/10's get approached much less than 7's and 6's (who usually get approached by drunk guys.)

Anyway she was so eager to date she actually made the plans. She invited me over at night for star gazing which was pretty fascinating. When you look through the telescope the moon continues to move so you cannot keep it still. She showed me how to tell the time with the night sky (Saying I suck at it would be an understatement.) Anyway after we had some late dinner that she made (at like 11:00.) It was really nice with dim lights and the moon leaking in. She made me laugh a couple times too -- she was using an aperitif throughout the meal and when I questioned her about it she said it tasted good.

I felt so little pressure the whole time, and did not bother with anything such as keeping the conversation going, acting indifferent, etc. I even cut out most of the funny. I could tell she just wanted a masculine man so of course I had no problems "assuming the sale." I gamed her from this standpoint and things just fell into place. I did not bother with any of the neg-hit stuff though because I could see how nervous she was about messing this up. I thought it was cute and I did compliment her on her cooking which made her relax more.

Anyway after dessert (she made ice-cream !) I did get the kiss... and stayed the night.

I learned a lot from the date. Sometimes guys will try way to hard to be unique, funny, or have a perfect game plan when really a good portion of the time all you need is to be a masculine man and be available. Seeing her nervous about messing our date up really opened my eyes to another side of women. When they say it's a numbers game that means exactly that -- there are times when you'll get rejected outright but also times like this. By reading all the stuff on this forum you might assume women are a puzzle and you have to have to do everything correct to sleep with them. But the truth is people with no game get laid everyday.

Anyway although she comes across as being a little naive to me (which is probably because she married after high school) she's smart, attractive and rather optimistic for a divorced women. I think she's a keeper even though her self-esteem is a little fragile which is not the case for the majority of women I date. I would still put her higher than week 5 girl. The next day was kind of amusing. She kept dropping hints she wanted to go out again and then when I asked she tried playing it cool. Haha, chick game.

Anyway, that's my report !

 

[Al Moh.]

Kepp going, you'll have three weeks for week 7 so you could just get new numbers and do date 1 to 3

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Update: Getting my number pool back up tonight. I'm hanging around 6 or 7.

How is everyone doing? And does week seven start Thursday?

 

[Al Moh.]

week 7 started last thursday, the thread is already open!

 

[Heart Break Kid]

week 7 started last thursday, the thread is already open!

:nervous:

And I barely passed this week ! Ca alors !

 

[rushing dude 123]

Hm and i am going to start this week monday, seeing i started week 5 again.... last last monday, Guess i just need to read the articles and such now. BUT ANYWAYS WOOOOOOOOOO SOMETHING NEW TO DO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey, make sure to post your progress RD !

 

[rushing dude 123]

Sure man i will keep an effort on it this time, good or bad news ill post my progress.

RD Update:
I got some plates, but quite a few r not spinning to good and i am not going to rely on them. The tasks r basically keep 10 live numbers and at least 1 second date (hope to get more than 1). I can leave the 10 live numbers to the end, because i know if it comes down to it i can aquire 10 numbers in a day. So i am going to work on few fresh plates and escalating it to a second date. I also was reading through waldens bootcamp journal 2 and kinda dissapointed in myself seeing i am no where near to what he is at at this stage.

I am mostly at home, so i got to stop that and i am going to go out tommorow and do bit of training, apply for new job and if any chicks come my way ill make sure to do my thing. Also thinking i might try some instant dates, that way can call them about 2 days later and arrange another.

 

[rushing dude 123]

RD Update:

I got another two numbers today, but i realised i have a serious problem, which i got to sort out in my game, seeing my follow up to my opener is lacking. I remember opening a 2 set in the bar, the opener and bit after was amazing and they were laughing, then that was it....i had nothing else to say. I was just like hmmm.

I basically can not learn much more out in field, i actually need to do some research on here, which is usually the opposite for quite a lot of guys here, but they r both a necesseity. Also i must combine both direct game and indirect game, if i go in direct then i change it indirect to get result and if i go in indirect to show that i am interested into her i got to change direct. I have to build a connection with the girl i am approaching and once that is done its pretty solid and makes the hooking up a lot easier.

So what i got to do is b sociable whilst doing my own thing, which wud b training, studying or just improving my life. Also whilst at home research routines and jus do bit more studying. Because trust me the going out in the field is not a problem for me.

 

[rushing dude 123]

RD Update:

Read some articles, journals and websites to improve my game helped bit but still need more work.

Anyways i set up two dates with the girls numbers i got in last post, one said she had flu and text and called me saying can we rearrange on the day, seeing she wants to rearrange ill giv her benifit of doubt and then other girl called me, so i just said wanna meet now. She said yes, so basically i switched them around and suppose to see the other one on sunday. The date went crap to pretty good ill leave details in my journal. also took another girl out on third date, i like this girl and shes going to prob to ask for serious relationship soon....****. Then last but not least the girl i went on a second date on, went lot better than first, more attraction and when we said goodbye, it was ending up like a kiss on cheek so i just kissed her on lips and she liked it from the look of the smile on her face. What i learned is sometimes u got to takes matters in own hands in some situations even if it is forced out bit, because if its going no where, u will never know till u make a move.

So basically got two tasks of week 6 done, all i have to do now is get another 6 numbers, which shudn't b to much of a problem. Then WEEK 7 BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Nice bro, I'll add you to the list.

 

[rushing dude 123]

RD Update:

Hey basically i went out on friday with some old buddies and they cudn't believe what i was doing, all the times i tried to close i got i am married and bfs, but still it was good. I then focused on my friends they were not any good with approaches so i actually started help them and teach them some stuff i know and they did some approaches. They actually were proud of themselves and i have one of them come out with me the next day which ill talk in sec. One of the guys on friday also became a dj has well, so he is a potential wingman. Great night out.

Saturday went out with a wingman and guy from friday and i got another 9 numbers and 2 emails addresses along with 100 approaches in one day. So i complete week 6 and my 100 approaches in 1 day goal on saturday, which is freaking awesome.

So summing this post up............WEEKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK 7 BABYYYYYYYYYY LMAO.

btw hbk finished the working girl, it took long while seeing i wasn't serious up to now, but heres my results. Indirect approaches 2 numbers and email (All bar staff) Direct approaches 1 number and email. I will do this again for more results, but yeh basically its uniqueness and judging where they work will have different things unique to them. I have told u my theory before anyways lol. So sum up direct approach yeh is best, but if ur approach is indirect but still amazingly unique (like ballet socks girl, who started this thing off) i think u will get a close from it eg. miguels close of petrol station chick.