DJBC - WEEK 4 - All groups

[rushing dude 123]

WEEK 4 END REPORT

lol i think getting rejected is my area of expertise lmao. I hoped to get has much succees has u guys got this week, but i didn't. This week was definetly not a waste though, one of my biggest weaknesses was not closing a set, but now even if it going absoloutely terrible i will close it. anyways we will c where this gets me next week.

10/10. guys come on i know u can get rejected lol, i wish i cud giv u some advice, but getting rejected is something that just comes natural to me lmao.

but anyways WEEK 5: PARTY WEEK WOOOOOOOO LOL

 

[JackRyanJuan]

I am unfortunately dropping out of boot camp, it pisses me off, I didn't get my rejections this week. I was basically lazy as hell and just relaxed throughout the week. I could go for my 10 rejections tonight, but I'm going to a place where I know a bunch of people, so I'm probably gonna actually try and get some numbers to set up for dates.

It's still an ego thing with me and the rejections. I've gotta learn not to take them personally.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Concluding Week 4

Hey great stuff guys. Phat Rabbit you really are the king of direct and Miguel that is hilarious you approached the same girl three times and I'm glad it still worked well.

I managed to get 8 numbers out of 13 approaches (tough crowd at the single bars that night.) Then I went for my rejections. If you guys would like I can post the # closes just ask. However know they are no where near as entertaining as the rejections.

I'll post everything as best as I can remember. I tried some GM style since normally I would never dare to play this style of approach but since this weeks goal is rejections I might learn something ! If I even get ONE number from GM style I will feel so proud. I had a wing around who helped now and again.

Note: I am not this much of a jerk usually ! But then again, I live to experiment.

If you guys don't know what GM is, here are some posts on it.
http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/03_Approaching/07_GM_Style/gm.shtml
http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/03_Approaching/07_GM_Style/gm_xp.shtml
http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/03_Approaching/07_GM_Style/gmlines.shtml

I did these all at different campus parties no where near my actual residence in hope I would never be recognized.

Rejection one:

I approach HB 8, 7, 7 and HB 6

I walked up "Allright I'm going to have sex with you (point to HB 8), you (HB7), and you (HB 7). Who's first?"

HB8 laughed but HB 6 looked at me furiously and pulled her friends away to dance or whatever.

Rejection 2:

I walk up to HB 8 (I will always approach the hotter girl if I have to decide which... Plus it is very hard to be rejected by UG's who is by herself drinking a beer. "Hey if you buy me a drink you might get lucky" with a sarcastic smirk. She looks at me with a confused look and then laughs and then hands me her beer. I thought to myself wow this is working, then she asks me if I was "Kara's friend" and I realize she is really wasted and I will really have to earn this rejection.
Me: Yes we're good friends
Her: Cool me too (What the hell?!)
Me: Hey maybe me, you, and Kara can... you know
Her: Kara is my sister !! (all slurred)
Me: Even better baby
Her: (multiple profanities)

My wings started laughing like crazy because it is very out of character for me and since he started laughing I did and I almost fell on the floor. After this we had to change venues.

Rejection 3:

HB6, solo

This one was interesting. I tried more C+F instead of GM. I opened by asking her if she was shy and when she asked why I said because she had not said a word to me all night. We fluffed, I told her a funny story. Kinoed pretty heavily. I was caressing her hands and she asked me what I was doing. I told her that her hands were so soft that she must use dove when she washes the dishes. She giggled to that and anytime she would stop my kino I was stop fluff talking and turn away from her and then start again in a couple minutes. She ended up sitting in my lap. My wing gave me the sign he wanted to do some approaches so I whispered in her ear I would love to pour sugar all over her body and...other stuff (Def Leppard !) She said she had to goto the washroom and she never came back.

Rejection 4:

Me and my wing -> HB 6, UG5, HB 8, AFC, AFC

Me: *Who lies more opener* (the canned one)
AFC1: Who the **** are you?
Wing: My friends call me Lex but you can call me *David*
Me: I'm Mandy (UG's) boyfriend *put arm around her*
UG: Its Chloe !! (She puts her arm around me LOL)
Me (to AFC1): Hey man you look tired are you okay?
AFC1: ...
AFC2: He just broke up with his ex again and he's a little edgy, here sit down
(he makes space for us at the edge but Wing goes sits right in the middle of the HB's making them squeeze him in)

HB8 complained about him taking the space and he looked at weird and told her if she does not like cute guys to just tell him. She says no that she likes cute guys and my wing is in talking to the two HB's. All I caught was him role-playing something with them saying he knows how HB8 is the bad one and HB6 is the good one and they should dress like an angel and devil and they could walk arm in arm and anytime he needed to make a decision he would consult them and they would fight over it like his conscience. They were laughing a lot.

As for me, UG is not letting go, AFC1 is staring me down and AFC2 is trying to make conversation with me. He asks my job, I tell him I'm an ass-model and UG laughs (I hate her laugh) for like five minutes. Wing leaves with the two girls (I later learn he f-closed HB8 !) I tell UG I have to use the washroom and then walk the other way to where my Wing has the two girls isolated.

He told HB6 a lot of good stuff about me and we break off and isolate. She says she is sorry about AFC1 who is her ex. I smirk and tell her he is just jealous mine in bigger. I look her deep in the eyes and drop a "Kiss me you ****ing klingon" and we do. I see Wing and HB8 leaving and he gives me the sign they're bouncing so now I can get my rejection. I ask her after the kiss if she wants to do it in the bathroom. She looks nervous so I kiss her again and put my tongue into her mouth and pretty much ram her tongue then I say I have a lot more than that. She pulls away slightly and says she can't because she's roommates with AFC2 and he will drive her home but we all know the real reason. She asks if I have facebook. Mission accomplished !

Rejection 5:

I see HB 9 and HB 8.5 dancing too the music. Some guy is grinding HB 8.5 and HB9 is by herself. (Note: If ever at clubs or parties one of the friends is grinding with a guy and the other is by herself kind of looking around I find I have a 90% chance of getting the dance, even with HBs 8.5+)

I approach HB9 from the back and get closer to her. She looks back for a second, I give her a ****y look and she backs into me. After 30 seconds or so I hold her hips, ass, and grind nicely. She is really tall, about 5'11-- about 3 inches shorter than me, blonde highlighted hair, funny thing but I swear I felt something like love handles but otherwise she looks slim and nicely toned. The guy grinding with her friend looks at me and grins nodding his head and I smile back. Anyway after that I start moving awkwardly and not with the beat and just pretty much touching her ass. She took my hands off and kept dancing. Rejected lol. But oh so sweet.

Rejection 6:

I approach HB 7 and say if she's lucky I'll lick her. She tells me to f-off.

Rejection 7:

HB 8 and Guy

Me: *Who lies more opener*
Guy: Me if I said I wasn't going to do her later
HB 8 punches his arm
Guy eggs on HB to high-five him and finally she does then he high-five’s me

Anyway I didn't AMOG because later I got his email and number after he said he was down with the PUA scene and Wingman stuff. They were f-buddies and apparently she was pivoting; helping him get chicks (she is bi.) He was hilarious and I think him, Lex, and I would be absolutely fatal to large groups. Especially if we call a few female friends up and roll out like he suggested.

Rejection 8:

HB7

Me: You look so good from behind
Her: Nice hair *******

I looked in the mirror and realized it is sticking out everywhere from the make out session with HB6. :crackup:

Rejection 9:

Approached HB8 girl with a Spanish accent. I make Spanish jokes then tell her I'm kidding and hug her. Then I talk about stupid stuff like saying "I bet you speak Spanish really well LOL." Then I told her to vote for Ron Paul and she just rolled her eyes and left. (I'm more Obama anyway :/)

Rejection 10:

Me to HB 8.5: Hey did you just grab my ass?
Her mouth drops open and she calls me a jerk and leaves.
You are supposed to say it in a more innocent-acting-slightly-accusing kind of way but I just say it flat out. It was almost morning and I wanted to go home.

However this week was the most of I had in a long time and GM will make some later appearances. Before today, I didn't really have a fear of approaching but after doing this; by the end I had no approach anxiety at all. I would say my armour is now almost unbreakable so even though I would never normally do GM is has improved my normal game.

And that is my report !

 

[rushing dude 123]

dam i am laughing my head off this late, thanks hbk lol. Yeh dude show the number closes 2, i wanna c if any of this stuff worked or were these just for the rejections?

 

[Heart Break Kid]

My pleasure Rushing Dude. Sadly, all the number closes were with my normal approach but I can still post them if you want. I think if I did not sabatoge myself GM could work well. I can do a few if you would like. (I would have to do them Friday though.)

If you use MSN regularly I might be able to add you on my sisters since I'm rather lazy to create an account for one contact =P. Let me know if you would like that. And if she's on you can hit on her as much as you want as she does not speak english ! (Sorry Miguel )

Anyway let me know, it would be faster.

 

[Miguel]

I had a feeling it was you HBK! And damn it, it's not fair... now I can't even get even. Unless you wanna translate for me?


ANYWAYS, I liked that GM stuff; really some good ideas… thought I’m wondering if it would clash with my approach style? (I think anyways, I’m learning pure day game, so would this work in day-to-day situations?) Thanks for sharing it man.

Hey, Btw, I got a really awesome number close on this HB9 at this gas station I got stuck at. It was a really well done set overall and I can completely under the radar until she was literally forcing her number into my pocket!

So here’s the quick run down, I’m driving home from this theater production I was at today, and all of a sudden the guy who’s behind me begins honking his horn and motions for me to pull over. I do as the guy instructs and he tells me I got a flat tire. So lucky for me, there’s this local Shell Station like 50 meters away, I thank the guy and pull into it. And as I’m waiting for the tire pump, my car freaking runs out of gas. So I realize that I pretty much am boned at this point because I only have my debit, It’s flat broke, and my wallets in my other jeans.

Man, it couldn’t get worse. So theirs this fugly employee outside pumping gas, nice girl, but definitely nothing game worthy. I chat to her and find out that she’s the manager and she’ll let me use the phone inside. So I can call my parents who live like 20 minutes away to lend me money.

So I enter the gas station, and behind the counter there’s this HB9… and that’s in her work clothes. So I spot her, get in line, and begin to wait for things to move along. I eventually reach the front of the line… and recognize I have a choice I can make; to get this girls phone number or not. That’s it, no opening line in my head, not what to talk about moment, nothing… just to get her number or not. It was the weirdest but most rewarding inner game thing I’ve gotten ever in this boot camp –maybe even during my time here.

So I turn to her, and ask her in a very confident voice…
Me: Hey how you doing?
Her: Good.
Me: Hey, want to do the two most epic things in the world to save my life?
Her: (she’s intrigued.) Sure?
Me: Let me use the phone, I’ve run out of gas for my car!
Her: (Laughing.) That’s one thing.
Me: but it still would be epic.
Her: (Giving me the look.) All right what’s the number?

I tell her at this point, she dials it in, gets it wrong once. (Missed the neg there.) And then hands me back the phone. She begins crossing into the whole “employee/costumer” Mentality… so I decide to game things up a bit. I get the answering machine to my parents place and use it as an opportunity to make fun of her. It went like this…

Me: Hey mom and dad, it’s Miguel here. Pick up the phone if you can hear me…. (Nothing. So I can use this to my advantage.) All right, so I’ve run outta gas and I’m stuck here at the shell station with this really lame chick that keeps checking out my ass. (She gives me the shocked humor face look. I made sure that the ***** shield was pre-destroyed by doing this and breaking rapport. So I waited a second and nothing… I had an Idea.) Here you can reach me at… (I turned to the HB and asked her for the station number. I knew she wouldn’t know, she tells me her cell instead. So my rents can get in touch.) *********** So please get in touch soon. Bye.

Hilarity ensues.

Now she’s pretty mind blown but I need to seal the deal and create a reason for me to stick around. I can see that despite the fact that she’s into me, she’s still uncomfortable with the idea of some weird guy she just met hangout with her to get into her pants. (girl think 101)

So we fluff for about a minute semi coolly, I followed PR advice and kept myself slow and in control. (Its harder then you think.) Soon I can tell that the bomb is coming… she tells me it’s boring ‘here’ and I should check out the garden supply shop across the road. I saw this one a mile away luckily and I counter with ‘I have to wait for that phone call’. She accepts it in stride, and we fluff.

However costumes keep coming in for a while and I can’t chat with her, so I wander off and get some magazines and read while she’s with them. It made the set like fifty times harder alone cause it kept breaking comfort. But cause I got nothing else better to do, I decide “eh” and keep gaming. Now each time the flood of customers leave, the chick keeps starting talking to me and I take it as a major IOI. I laugh and tease her, and we converse some more. The fat ugly from before comes back in and asks what’s up, I introduce myself to them and continue, after a while I eject somewhat cause the fat one annoys me and go back to my magazine. The girl interjects again and says that she thinks she knows me. Turns out she goes to my uni and we’ve had classes. (go figure.) I tell her I don’t exactly remember her cause I meet a lot of girls each week. (DHV/Neg) She asks me to her smoke break and I tag along. (once again nothing better to do.) things are cool light convo, sexual undertone.

I eventually get spotted some cash by the fat ugly, as she’s the manager she can do that. (I’ll repay tomorrow.) And they have to take down my info… as she does, the HB9 begins to transcribe I joke with… ‘man you move fast, I’ve just met you.” And she laughs. I then decide to leave. As I’m going I head inside once more and ask the girl for her number. She writes it down and signs it in big block numbers… so I remember her name. She literally shoves it into my pocket after this.


End of week report:
Numbers: 5 i'm gunna persue now.
Rejections: 6

 

[rushing dude 123]

Yeh HBk thats fine, wud like to see them. BTW did i tell u i could speack perfect french?.....jk lol, i can only get to hello, whats ur name lol

We got two weeks for this one, so this can just b a experiment week, so try out whatever u like and whatever u think will help ur game man.

 

[Young Anikan]

The force is no longer in me lolz.Idk what happened to me this week.Too much time spent in the studio and me coming home and just going to sleep I guess.I only got 4 rejections and 1 number.Well good luck to the rest of you guys,so much for the Green team.

 

[rushing dude 123]

alright so basically for this week, we just call up the girls numbers we got and go out on our dates, whilst getting another amount of numbers so our total goes up to 10 and increasing the level of intereset the girls have in us.

Phat Rabbit: Needs 3 more numbers
HBK: Needs 2 more numbers
Rushing Dude: Needs 5 more numbers

Has for the week 5 thread, idk if anyone else is going to do it, but if no one else has done it before i get back tonight i guess i will make it.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Oh and Miguel I wouldn't reccomend GM style for day game. However adopting a couple of the attitudes/mentality could help a lot with nerves. The whole idea of saying silly, overtly sexy things then saying your sorry is rather funny and it lets her know you don't care what people think. I also had nothing close to a LJBF because all the girls knew what I was after.

It also taught me how effective kino can be. Also don't self-sabotage unless you are going for rejections.