Miguel
Don Juan
(Thanks again everyone, your encouragement is keeping me going.)
hey guys, give me a break, if you keep treating me like a celebrity for getting an ALMOST kiss close your gunna put to much pressure on my game! Lol jk keep it up, I want something to keep me going!
So in the last little bit since I posted. I’ve been going out, starting conversations with strangers, and generally having a good time. Overall my success has been rapidly increasing and my confidence is through the roof… I think I’m getting close to killing my inner AFC. It’s shocking how quick he goes, a few successes and he’s hurting, a couple numbers…he’s stabbed, and after realizing that PEOPLE’S OPINIONS REALLY DON’T MATTER!
He hears his death knell being rung out.
I’m seriously shocked at how quick your confidence in this comes and how easy it is to improve. It’s SO SIMPLE… I want to kick myself for waiting for so long. So Why am I so ecstatic? Let me explain, I opened these two sets with weird results… And I didn’t give a damn at ALL!
Let me explain, so last night, I go to my university class room and spot this one HB6.5 I had chatted to last week. I walk up to her and open with a “hey, hows it going.” Cause I just want to work on conversation, she was good enough for my tastes. What happened was she was on her cell phone at the time, and not matter how hard I tried, I could not get the girl to pay me much attention… she just put up the B!tch shield and went into stasis. So I’m like… owch! And try to find an opening… At the same time my mind keeps telling me to simply call her on her body language and tell her to stop being stupid. I didn’t, so I simply excused myself and left…
And guess what? I DIDN’T GIVE A D@MN! Infact I felt SORRY FOR HER! I felt like she had just let one of the best opportunities in her life slip her by because she didn’t want to engage me! I mean it! I ACTUALLY FELT LIKE I THAT! I was shocked… but the more I thought about it, the more I began to make sense. Here I was this guy who was interesting, smart, and hell, SEXY Guy coming up and approaching her, and I honestly felt like I was doing her the favour of my presence, not the other way around! It was the most bizarre feeling in the world… I still felt like I had a million dollars in my back pocket.
So anyways, today, got dressed and headed out to university. I did a couple sets without any really remarkable results. (I got shot down a few times, and got a few IOI’s nothing all that interesting to report.) However, my last set of the day was really remarkable. I spotted this one HB9.5 on a computer in the library. She could of easily cleaned up into a 10 or an 11 with no problems and I decided “ah what the heck.” She was by FAR the most attractive girl I have ever opened too. So I notice a friend of mine is sitting about 2 seats away. I walked up to him and started to chat, I used it as the opportunity to look for anything I could open with as she was positioned with her back behind me. I noticed that she was sitting on the end of the row, and was doing some sort of PowerPoint presentation set up… It was on fashion. So I decided that I knew enough from trying to correct my own style that I could make some light conversation on this if my opener failed. So I walked past, acted like I spotted something that caught my attention and noticed that the title was “fashion derogation”. I figured I could you use it so I opened. A Big friendly smile was on my face, and I approached without hesitation. I opened “hey, fashion degragtion… what the heck is that? It sounds like some sort of rip away clothes”. She responded with a laugh and then turned to chat to me. I noticed that because she was on the end, I didn’t want to hover so I squatted down to her level and came down and squatted next to her. She seemed rather comfortable with me and I began to engage. It started well, but I messed up… forgot to neg and was to “Nice Guy” overall. (Never again!) But I still managed to keep things going till my knees started to hurt. I decided this wasn’t going anywhere and I so I decided to exit. I did so, and politely excused myself… however I took like 2 steps, and without thinking turned and asked if she had an email. She didn’t immediately respond, however after a second or two she asked me if I had facebook. I told her slightly annoyed that I wasn’t interested in that and began to walk away… as began to turn and leave… she asked me if I WOULD LIKE HER PHONE NUMBER! I refused, lol, I REFUSED A HB9.5! I was thinking that she had failed in my eyes. For the first time I had screened a girl. It was hilarious. She was stunned beyond words.
Well I walked away, she apparently turned to my friend whom I had been chatting to and asked me if they we were actually friends… he said yea, and she was along the lines of apparently “That guys your friend?” and was eager to know more about me.
Anyways, questions, comments. The usual.
@ PhatRabbit: Hey man, about that girl calling you creepy… I’ve heard it happens a lot when you number close. I know I’m only a beginner and junk, but next time don’t try to avoid the question… embrace it with humour. For example in drama, the first Improvisation thing they teach you is “Never Deny”, I also believe that it can be applied to real life. For example when a girl asks if you’re a stalker or a creep when you number close tell them “of course, I’m gunna call you 10 times a day, flood your text box, and keep pestering you until you have to change your email.” Say it with a smile and it usually they will be disarmed with you passing that test. Heck, consider saying it as a joke when they first give you the email so the question NEVER even comes up. But remember to never deny it… or else they’ll think you’re lying. Make sure also to never say nothing cause they might think your stunned into silence and they’ll probably think that they figured out you deep dark secret. (Though, their wrong… their imagination is always you’re worst enemy in this case.)
hey guys, give me a break, if you keep treating me like a celebrity for getting an ALMOST kiss close your gunna put to much pressure on my game! Lol jk keep it up, I want something to keep me going!
So in the last little bit since I posted. I’ve been going out, starting conversations with strangers, and generally having a good time. Overall my success has been rapidly increasing and my confidence is through the roof… I think I’m getting close to killing my inner AFC. It’s shocking how quick he goes, a few successes and he’s hurting, a couple numbers…he’s stabbed, and after realizing that PEOPLE’S OPINIONS REALLY DON’T MATTER!
He hears his death knell being rung out.
I’m seriously shocked at how quick your confidence in this comes and how easy it is to improve. It’s SO SIMPLE… I want to kick myself for waiting for so long. So Why am I so ecstatic? Let me explain, I opened these two sets with weird results… And I didn’t give a damn at ALL!
Let me explain, so last night, I go to my university class room and spot this one HB6.5 I had chatted to last week. I walk up to her and open with a “hey, hows it going.” Cause I just want to work on conversation, she was good enough for my tastes. What happened was she was on her cell phone at the time, and not matter how hard I tried, I could not get the girl to pay me much attention… she just put up the B!tch shield and went into stasis. So I’m like… owch! And try to find an opening… At the same time my mind keeps telling me to simply call her on her body language and tell her to stop being stupid. I didn’t, so I simply excused myself and left…
And guess what? I DIDN’T GIVE A D@MN! Infact I felt SORRY FOR HER! I felt like she had just let one of the best opportunities in her life slip her by because she didn’t want to engage me! I mean it! I ACTUALLY FELT LIKE I THAT! I was shocked… but the more I thought about it, the more I began to make sense. Here I was this guy who was interesting, smart, and hell, SEXY Guy coming up and approaching her, and I honestly felt like I was doing her the favour of my presence, not the other way around! It was the most bizarre feeling in the world… I still felt like I had a million dollars in my back pocket.
So anyways, today, got dressed and headed out to university. I did a couple sets without any really remarkable results. (I got shot down a few times, and got a few IOI’s nothing all that interesting to report.) However, my last set of the day was really remarkable. I spotted this one HB9.5 on a computer in the library. She could of easily cleaned up into a 10 or an 11 with no problems and I decided “ah what the heck.” She was by FAR the most attractive girl I have ever opened too. So I notice a friend of mine is sitting about 2 seats away. I walked up to him and started to chat, I used it as the opportunity to look for anything I could open with as she was positioned with her back behind me. I noticed that she was sitting on the end of the row, and was doing some sort of PowerPoint presentation set up… It was on fashion. So I decided that I knew enough from trying to correct my own style that I could make some light conversation on this if my opener failed. So I walked past, acted like I spotted something that caught my attention and noticed that the title was “fashion derogation”. I figured I could you use it so I opened. A Big friendly smile was on my face, and I approached without hesitation. I opened “hey, fashion degragtion… what the heck is that? It sounds like some sort of rip away clothes”. She responded with a laugh and then turned to chat to me. I noticed that because she was on the end, I didn’t want to hover so I squatted down to her level and came down and squatted next to her. She seemed rather comfortable with me and I began to engage. It started well, but I messed up… forgot to neg and was to “Nice Guy” overall. (Never again!) But I still managed to keep things going till my knees started to hurt. I decided this wasn’t going anywhere and I so I decided to exit. I did so, and politely excused myself… however I took like 2 steps, and without thinking turned and asked if she had an email. She didn’t immediately respond, however after a second or two she asked me if I had facebook. I told her slightly annoyed that I wasn’t interested in that and began to walk away… as began to turn and leave… she asked me if I WOULD LIKE HER PHONE NUMBER! I refused, lol, I REFUSED A HB9.5! I was thinking that she had failed in my eyes. For the first time I had screened a girl. It was hilarious. She was stunned beyond words.
Well I walked away, she apparently turned to my friend whom I had been chatting to and asked me if they we were actually friends… he said yea, and she was along the lines of apparently “That guys your friend?” and was eager to know more about me.
Anyways, questions, comments. The usual.
@ PhatRabbit: Hey man, about that girl calling you creepy… I’ve heard it happens a lot when you number close. I know I’m only a beginner and junk, but next time don’t try to avoid the question… embrace it with humour. For example in drama, the first Improvisation thing they teach you is “Never Deny”, I also believe that it can be applied to real life. For example when a girl asks if you’re a stalker or a creep when you number close tell them “of course, I’m gunna call you 10 times a day, flood your text box, and keep pestering you until you have to change your email.” Say it with a smile and it usually they will be disarmed with you passing that test. Heck, consider saying it as a joke when they first give you the email so the question NEVER even comes up. But remember to never deny it… or else they’ll think you’re lying. Make sure also to never say nothing cause they might think your stunned into silence and they’ll probably think that they figured out you deep dark secret. (Though, their wrong… their imagination is always you’re worst enemy in this case.)
