Alright children, lets settle down.
The fact is that not everyone was cut out for the "DJ" life.
That's right, its not a matter of just learning stuff. For some of us, we have the natural tendency to be around people. We are extroverted sensation seekers. We just don't know what we're doing so we get discouraged and aren't being ourselves when we are quiet, shy, etc. (thats why we feel like we're doing something wrong, because we ARENT being ourselves), so when we learn DJ skills they fit into our personality profiles perfectly and help us get our lives the way they should be.
That's why we feel right at home being DJs or applying DJ skills. Because we ARE already outgoing we just don't know how to use that to our advantage, but now we do, so we do it.
Other people here are introverted people who usually keep to themselves. They are the ones who have to put an act on to pull of DJ tricks. That's why they don't feel natural about it.
If you feel like you are pulling a trick on someone and not being yourself, this is probably the main cause. If you were happy spending most of your life at the computer or TV or at the movies with a couple of close friends and had no inclination to just go around a mall and talk to girls or go clubbing or dancing (whose sole purpose is to hook up, if you ask me), then you maybe just weren't meant to be a DJ.
So no wonder that if you walk into a club and start pulling a routine you learned on this website you didn't feel natural about it and you felt like you were doing a magic trick or something where you had to fool everyone else into believing you are someone you're not.
So yes, for some people this stuff comes naturally once we read about it and most importantly it FITS into our lifestyle. For others, this stuff doesn't come naturally and thus it has to be faked in order to work, and this makes it feel like we're doing something tricky/wrong/difficult.
This DJ stuff, in conclusion, isn't for EVERYONE. You have to be an outgoing person to begin with who seeks adventure, if you aren't this stuff will never feel natural to you because its just not who you are.
Saying that everyone can be a DJ and do this is kind of like saying anyone can work in Sales. Yes, you can get a job in sales pretty easily these days, especially retail, but if you have no tendency or talent towards sales than no matter how much training you have you're not going to be very good at it and you aren't going to have a good time.
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