1) Pjam,
I can understand your situation... however, I would like to offer a slightly different spin to things...
You are in a position where there are few apparent options available... the downside is the obvious... not too many girls.
BUT there is an upside... ever heard the phrase "big fish in a small pond"? In small social circles as the one you are in, reputation (good or bad) spreads fast... so if you were to become a DJ, then the fact that there are few women there would actually work to your favor. These women would find it such a rare treat to actually be in the presence of a DJ that they will fight over you (I'm assuming that the male/female ratio in your age group is about equal). Regardless though, I personally hold to the philosophy that every negative has a positive counterpart... you just sometimes have to actively look for it though.
2) Freewill,
Part of the program is posting and sharing results with the rest of the group... so that we could learn from each other. Maybe you can log on to the net once a week to get the weekly lessons and post your results... what do you think?
3) KometaAmarelo,
Sure, multiple RAFCs can join... however, I think it would be to both your benefit to post separately from each other.
4) Neophyte,
Thanks... coming from the compiler of the DJ Bible, this means a lot. I don't know yet the results of this program, but it will be interesting to find out. I look forward to your feedback on the course outline.
5) StuartScott,
Well, maybe it's about time I got over my little hang-up
6) Powertrip,
I can understand your apprehension... I have made mistakes when it came to the whole situation with Mary... but I think you will have to agree with me that I have always been honest in my posts... I told the good as well as the bad.
I honestly don't know if this will be the answer that many of us on this board have been looking for... but the way I see it is that no one has done it yet, so at least this way we will be getting one step closer to our goals, or we will at least have discovered what won't work... and get one step closer to discovering what WILL work. Either way, the fact that we will actually go into the FIELD and PRACTICE and EXPERIMENT, will be a wonderful experience for all those who participate. As to the reason why I usually discussed Mary in my posts, is because that is where I needed the help.
At any rate, I will be posting the outline for the program tomorrow morning, and you, as well as others on this board, can provide your feedback on it.
Also, I noticed in another post that you went to high school with band members from Incubus... does that mean you live in San Fernando Valley / Ventura County (that's where I live). If that's the case, maybe we can meet up some time.
Master of the Universe
------------------
"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"