Master of the Universe
Senior Don Juan
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- Jan 17, 2002
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Fellow DJs, as I stare at my computer finishing up my taxes before the midnight deadline (hmm.... Maybe an extension is in order... oh well), I had what I consider to be a divine inspiration.
Let me start from the beginning... Four months ago when I first came to this board, I was as AFC as an AFC can be (let's see, last date I was on before I came to this site, not only did I get the girl a teddy bear, but also red roses... On a first date! The next morning I had an e-mail from her telling me she wants to be friends).
But after digesting all the posts, and the holy DJ Bible... I finally understood all my past mistakes, and how to become a DJ.
The only problem of course (and one that I've been noticing a lot of newbies, and not-so-newbies, making), is that it's one thing to know what to do, and another thing all together to actually DO it.
So I made a curriculum for myself. Basically, I created an eight week program based on the DJ Bible and a couple of other resources, that would take me from nothing at all, to becoming the DJ that I've always wanted to become.
Now, one thing about me, is that when I decide to do something, I go all the way. So I intentionally made my curriculum difficult, yet realistic. In essence, it was designed to get me to get way outside of my comfort zone.
After implementing my program for 4 weeks, I managed to acquire appx. 50 phone numbers, had two girls I was dating on a regular basis whom were giving me flowers, sending me gifts, and basically head-over-heels for me, and going out on dates on a more-or-less regular basis.
But even more importantly than that, was the fact that I was proud of the man in the mirror. I was becoming whom I wanted to be. Plus, it didn't take long before my reputation as a lady's man got around. Pretty soon, female friends and acquaintances were introducing me to their female friends, and everything was building upon itself. My confidence increased, I had more fun and excitement, and life was good.
The only thing though, was that after the four week mark, I stopped following my program. I told myself that I was too busy with work (I work 70-80 hours/week). The truth though was that I had gotten too satisfied with the results, and became lazy.
Now, here's the idea I had...
If other members on this board are interested, I would be willing to put my program on the board, so that the rookies and the reforming AFC can implement it, and also become the DJs that they have the potential to become.
And I'm not going to lie... One of my motivations for creating this online DJ class is that it will force me to participate all the way to the eight point mark.
Here are the basic items that will be covered...
1) Developing AND conveying confidence
2) Becoming comfortable with talking to just about anyone... In just about any situation
2) Approaching girls
3) Acquiring phone numbers / closing for dates
4) What to do on initial dates (1-3 dates)
5) Increasing a girl's interest level
6) Becoming an Alpha Male... The guy everyone wants to hang around
7) Getting the girl into bed (maybe... haven't decided on this yet)
During this eight week program, the premise will be that participants will be able to actually see results in their lives, since the curriculum is based only 20% on reading or written material, and 80% on actually going into the field and doing "homework."
So here's the deal...
If I get ten members on this board tentatively agree to participate in this eight week program, then in the next couple of days I will post a syllabus of what each week will cover. Then on each Saturday or Sunday, I will post the project(s) for the week.
During that week, it is the responsibility of all those who agreed to partake of this program (after tentatively agreeing to this post, and giving their ironclad promise to participate once they have seen the detailed syllabus), to post their results on the board, as well as to offer feedback to the other participants going through the program.
The culmination of this crash-course would be to go out into a social situation (several choices will be offered), create social proof even if you were to go by yourself, and become the guy that all the girls want to be around... And giving you the choice to select the girl(s) you want.
So what is the investment for participating in this program... It is twofold...
1) You must ACTUALLY FOLLOW THROUGH! I will tell you upfront that this WILL take you well out of your comfort zone, and will probably require an investment of 5-20 hours per week for you to accomplish the goals set for each week.
2) You must post a minimum of once a week detailing the results (good or bad) that you experienced while completing the weekly project. Your post should be detailed enough that we can all make suggestions to help you in the future (if results were not favorable), or if positive, it should be detailed enough so that the rest of the students understand exactly what you did so that they too can achieve similar results in similar situations.
Now, will this be guaranteed to work? Absolutely NOT! In fact, nothing well.
With that being said, I personally can't think of a better method for someone to actually be able to implement the DJ principals on this site, and to achieve the DJ goals they desire.
Plus, since all those participating will be working on similar aspects of their DJ training, we will be able to support each other, and look at the whole thing as a fun learning experience. In fact, I'm willing to bet we'll be as excited to tell each other how badly we bombed as telling each other how successful we were (well, almost as excited anyway).
So here's my challenge... I'm looking for ten guys who want to become the DJs they always knew they could become... If they only had a road map to follow. And this challenge isn't only to new guys, but also to DJs that have been around here for a long while. This crash-course is going to cover many aspects of becoming a DJ, so even if you are a Master or GrandMaster DJ, at least you will be able to brush up on many of your skills while helping those on the program who are just getting started.
Okay, here's the deal. If you are tentatively interested in joining this program, then post a message to this thread letting me know your intentions. If there is sufficient interest, then I will post the syllabus in the next couple of days, and based on that you can make your final determination as to your interest in participating.
Master of the Universe
P.S. Some might think that they can just follow the program without agreeing to participate or posting their results... I can almost guarantee that these guys will not follow through to the end of this program. So if you want to achieve results, you must be willing to make the commitment.
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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
Let me start from the beginning... Four months ago when I first came to this board, I was as AFC as an AFC can be (let's see, last date I was on before I came to this site, not only did I get the girl a teddy bear, but also red roses... On a first date! The next morning I had an e-mail from her telling me she wants to be friends).
But after digesting all the posts, and the holy DJ Bible... I finally understood all my past mistakes, and how to become a DJ.
The only problem of course (and one that I've been noticing a lot of newbies, and not-so-newbies, making), is that it's one thing to know what to do, and another thing all together to actually DO it.
So I made a curriculum for myself. Basically, I created an eight week program based on the DJ Bible and a couple of other resources, that would take me from nothing at all, to becoming the DJ that I've always wanted to become.
Now, one thing about me, is that when I decide to do something, I go all the way. So I intentionally made my curriculum difficult, yet realistic. In essence, it was designed to get me to get way outside of my comfort zone.
After implementing my program for 4 weeks, I managed to acquire appx. 50 phone numbers, had two girls I was dating on a regular basis whom were giving me flowers, sending me gifts, and basically head-over-heels for me, and going out on dates on a more-or-less regular basis.
But even more importantly than that, was the fact that I was proud of the man in the mirror. I was becoming whom I wanted to be. Plus, it didn't take long before my reputation as a lady's man got around. Pretty soon, female friends and acquaintances were introducing me to their female friends, and everything was building upon itself. My confidence increased, I had more fun and excitement, and life was good.
The only thing though, was that after the four week mark, I stopped following my program. I told myself that I was too busy with work (I work 70-80 hours/week). The truth though was that I had gotten too satisfied with the results, and became lazy.
Now, here's the idea I had...
If other members on this board are interested, I would be willing to put my program on the board, so that the rookies and the reforming AFC can implement it, and also become the DJs that they have the potential to become.
And I'm not going to lie... One of my motivations for creating this online DJ class is that it will force me to participate all the way to the eight point mark.
Here are the basic items that will be covered...
1) Developing AND conveying confidence
2) Becoming comfortable with talking to just about anyone... In just about any situation
2) Approaching girls
3) Acquiring phone numbers / closing for dates
4) What to do on initial dates (1-3 dates)
5) Increasing a girl's interest level
6) Becoming an Alpha Male... The guy everyone wants to hang around
7) Getting the girl into bed (maybe... haven't decided on this yet)
During this eight week program, the premise will be that participants will be able to actually see results in their lives, since the curriculum is based only 20% on reading or written material, and 80% on actually going into the field and doing "homework."
So here's the deal...
If I get ten members on this board tentatively agree to participate in this eight week program, then in the next couple of days I will post a syllabus of what each week will cover. Then on each Saturday or Sunday, I will post the project(s) for the week.
During that week, it is the responsibility of all those who agreed to partake of this program (after tentatively agreeing to this post, and giving their ironclad promise to participate once they have seen the detailed syllabus), to post their results on the board, as well as to offer feedback to the other participants going through the program.
The culmination of this crash-course would be to go out into a social situation (several choices will be offered), create social proof even if you were to go by yourself, and become the guy that all the girls want to be around... And giving you the choice to select the girl(s) you want.
So what is the investment for participating in this program... It is twofold...
1) You must ACTUALLY FOLLOW THROUGH! I will tell you upfront that this WILL take you well out of your comfort zone, and will probably require an investment of 5-20 hours per week for you to accomplish the goals set for each week.
2) You must post a minimum of once a week detailing the results (good or bad) that you experienced while completing the weekly project. Your post should be detailed enough that we can all make suggestions to help you in the future (if results were not favorable), or if positive, it should be detailed enough so that the rest of the students understand exactly what you did so that they too can achieve similar results in similar situations.
Now, will this be guaranteed to work? Absolutely NOT! In fact, nothing well.
With that being said, I personally can't think of a better method for someone to actually be able to implement the DJ principals on this site, and to achieve the DJ goals they desire.
Plus, since all those participating will be working on similar aspects of their DJ training, we will be able to support each other, and look at the whole thing as a fun learning experience. In fact, I'm willing to bet we'll be as excited to tell each other how badly we bombed as telling each other how successful we were (well, almost as excited anyway).
So here's my challenge... I'm looking for ten guys who want to become the DJs they always knew they could become... If they only had a road map to follow. And this challenge isn't only to new guys, but also to DJs that have been around here for a long while. This crash-course is going to cover many aspects of becoming a DJ, so even if you are a Master or GrandMaster DJ, at least you will be able to brush up on many of your skills while helping those on the program who are just getting started.
Okay, here's the deal. If you are tentatively interested in joining this program, then post a message to this thread letting me know your intentions. If there is sufficient interest, then I will post the syllabus in the next couple of days, and based on that you can make your final determination as to your interest in participating.
Master of the Universe
P.S. Some might think that they can just follow the program without agreeing to participate or posting their results... I can almost guarantee that these guys will not follow through to the end of this program. So if you want to achieve results, you must be willing to make the commitment.
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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"
