DJ Bootcamp Week 3 (Summer 2005)

[Magico]

week3 days3&4

Yesterday I didn't do much, just stayed home and had some rest.

Today it was slightly better, I talked to a HB7 while both of us were waiting for friends in a crowded square. It was very easy to talk to her, she was very responsive. At the end when my friend showed up, I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink with me and my buddy but she didn't wanna let her friend down. The whole convo lasted about 7 or 8 mins.

Redshift and Kamikaze, last friday I wanted to go to the club but none of my friends couldn't go so I was considering going out alone then gave up at the end and stayed home and worked out. I supose redshift has a point on this, I guess you just have to be in a right mindset when you go out by yourself.

Convo count: 1

 

[Tukzulu]

If any of you are familiar with Shark of Shark CD fame, he advises as one of his missions to go out to a club by yourself. I haven't done it yet, but I might because I generally get distracted when I go out with my friends and end up talking to them and never approaching. If the girls asks, you can always say you're there with your buddy and point vaguely somewhere. She'll never know or she'll just assume one of the guys you're pointing at is your friend.

 

[Mjfan12]

I CANT shake people's hands,

or even do any kino.

Why??


Because I got this genetic condition from my mother where my palms sweat excessively when Im nervous. and obviously thats the problem Im trying to get over right now.

So when I approach a girl or something and get scared, I just cant shake hands because that'll give a real bad first impression.

When Im chilled, I dont have an issue.

What to do?

(only permanent cure for this problem is surgery, but thats $$$ I dont have right now)

 

[Caldus]

Try and wipe your shaking hand on your pants very briefly before shaking their hand I guess.

 

[Caldus]

Only got in one convo in the last two days. Not even sure if I'm going to count it as a convo because it just went really bad.

Last night I got some kind of food poisoning or something because I was ill and had quite a few trips to the toilet. I ended up being late for my ****ing interview today because of my illness last night. I really need to start putting my alarm clock across the room so I don't get up late for **** anymore. Not like I needed the job. It's just a bookstore job and it would keep my parents happy if they knew I was at least trying to get a job. I already have a job secured somwhere else but I don't start there until later and my parents think I don't have the job secured for some reason. God I wish they would get off my case. I have a job secured. I got straight A's in school. I do chores when asked. It's like I can never make them happy so why try? So yeah pretty bad day so far. Not even sure if I'm in the mood for convos today despite how behind I am. I got lots of catching up to do when my attitude gets a little better.

 

[redshift]

Blog updated
Total convos till now: about 9
HERE

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I was totally busy today..didnt run into ANY sort of woman..jeez this summer sem sure does suck out whatever woman are usually in! I did go to the local Borders and DID come across a set of 3 HBs( 8;6.5 and a 5)...but i have to admit that i wasnt motivated to go and open them + i chickened out a lil bit. My mind just didnt feel like it!

No gymn today so no convos there. (Usually i get atleast 2 going almost everytime i go there).

On a brighter side, this chick i met about 2 weeks ago (The one from Luxembourg) called me up and left me a voice mail..inviting me to a movie on this thursday along with the other girl she was with. I had totally forgotten about the Lux. chick..so nice surprise. I did call her and left her a message that i "might" be able to make it. (I honestly have some stuff going on that day so..lets see...). She is HOT though..i should say an 8.5/9...but her english is hard to understand..but who cares..eh?

So later guys...hopefully i will do some sarging tommorow...

 

[Kamikaze_R6]

Day 4,

I signed up for a volleyball intramural hoping that a lot people (males and females) would show up. Unfortunately, hardly anyone was there...

In short, not a very good day.

Day 5,

Because I have an 8 to 5 job, I must say that meeting people on campus has been pretty poor as fewer students go to school in the evening and lot of stuff closes early.

Anyway, I went to the library and I saw this HB7.5 in a chair but I couldn't tell if she had some sort of DVD player or small lap top. I iniatiated the conversations by asking what was the device she was using and so forth. She wasn't very talkative but she was smilling.

After the library, I went to the mall but it was getting dead since it's a weekday.

I decided to make a trip to target. I went to the electronic section and saw an HB8 probably 29-31 but in really good shape. I started the conversation by asking her what movie she was looking for and she was pretty receptive and friendly during the conversations, but she did not seem too much into me.

My final conversation was with the cashier. She looked a bit tired and down so I cheered her up a little.

For some reason I have a hard time getting conversations with people in the mall but I really enjoy the eye contact with the hot chicks and especially when they smile

 

[Magico]

week3 days5&6

I was at my sister's college to do some paperwork for her. So I opened this HB7.5 who was very nice and friendly and had the best smile ever so she deserves to be rated an 8. She helped me fill out the form. I couldn't believe, she laughed at everything I said. I just played a lost duckling and she loved it. Man, this week is fun!

I am leaving to the seaside tomorrow, and will stay for 2 weeks. I am extending week3 for another week and I will try to collect 15 or more convos. It should be a lot easier down there, I will be chilled from work and there will hopefully be infinite number of babes no less than 8. The 2nd week of my vacation is probably gonna be a crash and burn type of thing since there's no point in asking for a number in small beachtown. I hope all of you fellow DJs will be well in week5 by the time I come back and that we will share lots of FRs.

Convo count: 2:woo:

 

[Kamikaze_R6]

Day 6,

I was working out at the gym when I noticed this HB8 using the machine right next to me. I opened up the conversation with "how do you like that machine" (3 second rule in full force) she was receptive during our little chat, and I got a few smiles out of her.

The funny thing is that I went to the gym with the attitude that cold approaches had been hard at the gym and yet today I surprised myself.

By the way, I must emphasize that talking to someone working at a place is nice but it doesn't bring me out of my comfort zone like approaching some random people.

 

[Ricky]

I notice alot of excuses on here. Ironically I wanted to post one as well. I damage the hell out of my foot a few weeks ago and am just now starting to notice it.

This is keeping me out of the gym, although I could do upper body, and basically kind of slowing me down a bit.

As for the convos, it's easy to get new people at work to talk to since I work in a big hospital.

So someone posted about going to a bar alone. Make sure you do it. I do it all the time. Yeah a girl asked me, are you here alone once. I said yeah, I just moved up here. She was cool and asked me a few more questions. She was there with a boyfriend, otherwise I may have stood a chance.

This weekend will be quiet. I want my foot to rest up, but I'll still find a few opportunities.

I will read week 4 later to.

BTW guys I will loop these weeks. For the next month I really need to focus on something else other than dating, but I do have an internet girl that I may go out with.

 

[BrotherAP]

I'm resetting my conversation count to zero, since I either knew everybody through a mutual friend or happened to be drunk when I started the conversation. This mission has become difficult for me - my sarges often unearth no such creature as an attractive woman. I need to get to Santa Fe and practicaba con la raza.

 

[Kamikaze_R6]

Day 7,

I had two conversations with two guys at Barnes & Nobles and we talked about motorcycles since we are all riders. Anyway, the conversations lasted longer than what I wanted (1hr +) so I didn't get much chance to be a dj today.

In conclusion, I reached a grand total of 8 conversations so I am two conversations short for this week goal.

I dunno if I should go to week 4 or if I should get two more conversations before moving on?

 

[HypeR]

I'm @ 9 Hb convo's right now, im gonna do the last one tonight.

Feeling pretty good so far, the bootcamp is really working for me

Im going on holidays for 2 weeks, but i will continue the bootcamp there. Cya all in 2 weeks! Hope you guys stick with it!

good luck! :cheer:

 

[Ricky]

Have a good vacation. Damn I didn't know the 10 convos had to be with HB only. But hey why not.

I went to a party last night, but it was one of those inbred work parties (i say inbred because there are few new people there)

It was fun, and i definitely got to play the role of the more alpha guy as several of the guys were getting drunk and embarrassing themselves around people by cussing. There are a few more funny stories to tell, but nothing of note for the DJ board other than the fact that I talk to a couple of the cute girls I work with (i have no interest in dating a coworker so it is just fun).

Anyways the one girl punched me when I made a joke or two. Good sign the teasing is good. She has a boyfriend, but it is fun to practice on her.

 

[redshift]

I am not about to type in any of my excuses. Lets just say that i was too lazy to go up to a girl and start a convo.

Convo count: 9

My bolg is updated HERE

Copy paste: (This might not be fully relevant but what the hell! )

did two things yesterday: 1. Went out with the chick to a club
2. Dropped her off and went to the frat party!

We had a great time at the night club. I picked her up from her place along with her freind. Her friend was a HB6 ..only because she was slightly on the chubby side, but would have been atleast a 7.5 due to her gorgeous hair and face.

The lux chick as usual was "hot", she is 5'10, dirty blonde, brown eyes, fit body. I neg hit both of them right away, coz they delayed me by 20 mins!
And the good thing about taking them to the club was they let me and the chicks in without any cover.

She was like me..more of a techno sorta person..so we did dance when some tech #s came up. BTW she is a ballet dancer in her school back home. I was really cool with both the girls..making em laugh etc..etc..the secret was there was absolutley no pressure on me somehow..i was right at home.

The lux chick kept on saying that " you are so relaxed..are always this way?..i think you meet a lot of people thats why...." This was i felt the biggest compliment i recieved in a LOOOONG time. I was just doing my thing, not trying to impress anyone. And trust me guys, when you are on the dance floor with a chick, just having a good time the other chicks around you WILL notice! I was being checked out by most of the chicks there..most of them dancing alone/ among themselves..i saw a ton of guys just standing there doing n-o-t-h-i-n-g!! (Just like me before). I had some good Kino going on..but i couldnt kiss her coz everytime i was about to, there was someone coming up..once a waiter..once her phone..once her friend. She was also slightly concious about being kissed infront of her friend. But i noticed that she was holding onto my hands even after i let them go.

So at the closing time, i dropped them off and walked them home. They were impressed with that saying no one did that before (+they were european.so..).
As much as i would have liked staying there and maybe do some stuff with the chick, i did promise my buddies that i would be at the frat party, so i left after huggin her and kissing on the cheek. (No lips..her friend was watching..she was concious about it).

I then drove to the frat party..it was just about to break up and almost all the girls were already hookedup..Those left were a lil too trashy for my style. That place was a makeout orgy..i couldnt find a single corner and couch without someone making out!! Too bad i missed out on the fun! But the lux chick was real classy and was worth it.

I mostly will probably be taking her out alone on a date or something. I def could say she was interested in me, coz she kept asking about how long since i was out of a relation ship..if i was a casual dater..serious dater etc. etc. I didnt give any direct answers to any..just some BS, funny remarks.

I will prolly go out tonight to this one club, my friend said he knew..we might get some free drinks..so till then have fun guys!!

 

[Magico]

week3

something was wrong with the server today and I guess my post got deleted by accident. here it is again:

The vacation was a disaster boot camp wise, so I hardly pulled remaining 7 HB convos.

HB8 not very responsive but we did talk for about 5 mins.
Set of HBs 7-8 on a street, talked to 2 of them, very cool.
HB7 in the sea, decent convo.
HB7.5 who works in an amusement park, responsive
HB6.5 in the beach club
HB6.5 at a friend's place
HB10 at the supermarket

Some of the girls were hard to open in the begining, and at the ened most were surprised I went only for the covno, and not number close.
Another point: it is a lot harder sarging without a wingman when ur on a vacation since girls usually go to the vacation with friends so I never saw a single girl around.
Today starts week4 for me, hope it goes better than week3.