DJ Bootcamp thoughts and experiences

[LastManstanding]

Hello guys,

Alot has changed over the past month. It seems that the worst negative feelings have subsided. I am able to sleep great and have stayed relatively healthy with diet and workouts. After years of depression related to the loss of various things (overdoses related deaths, tragedy related deaths, chronic family addiction) I have eliminated all of the negative influence in my life. This was under alot of deliberation and advice from remaining close friends and one medical professional (psychologist). I can say that I am truly in control of my emotions now and will continue to improve.

I am an STEM major at a major party school. I have my finances under control and I am in great shape. I want to know if doing the DJ bootcamp everyday would be a good thing for me at this point in my life. I want to go out on dates with quality and not-quality women, bang them and have a good time. I only use Snapchat for social media. Has the exercises from the bootcamp helped any of you. I don't have time to be constantly reading new material so I wanna start writing my own once a day and reap CONCRETE benefits from such.

This is not coming from someone with no experience. I have been with many women, quality and not-quality, so I am pretty good with girls on the fly. I want to fix my past mistakes and take control of my dating life.

Is this a bad mindset or a bad idea in general. If general consensus says I should do it then damn it that is what I am going to do. I will start a REAL journal. Let me know what you all think.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I'm not overly familiar with the Boot Camp stuff, but the little I know, I'd say some of the stuff is beneficial for complete novices only. Say, repetition is of course the mother of skill, but for those that have already been successful with different women, maybe it's a bit basic and robotic.

What I remember about your previous post, you had a gf anyway, so clearly not a beginner, and were not able to accommodate her because of your weird family. Maybe best therefore to have more personal goals to start, but obviously going out to have fun at the same time.

I try never to be too prescriptive; rather pick and choose things I think are relevant to the individual situation.

 

[LastManstanding]

Two options come to mind:

1. Do the Boot Camp

Do the boot camp, but don't start from the beginning. Pick up somewhere around week 4 or 5. You know, an area you feel like you can hit the ground running, take up the challenges, hit the benchmarks...whatever. Gives you a chance to knock off some rust and expose anything that that you might feel good to go on now, but find needs some tweaking once you're actually out there doing it.

Considering past experience, you should be able to bypass most of the reading, but if you do find anything that does need some tweaking, you can just skim through the suggested reading for that particular topic as a refresher. Make the necessary adjustments and keep moving ahead. If after a little while you don't feel like you're being challenged enough and/or you're not getting what you want out of the whole thing, then another option is...

2. Fail in Something Without Actually Failing

What I mean is, play the game by the book, but pick just one thing you know people say you should never do and try to succeed doing exactly that. For example, lets say most guys agree you should never call a woman right away or the very next day because it makes you look too needy or available. Go out there, land some numbers and call those b*tches too soon on purpose; see if you can still land on your feet & close.

After you get your fill of that one thing, go back to playing it by the book and pick something else.

You don't always need to fail to learn something and improve. Sometimes the most unlikely successes can be the most insightful and eye opening.

I started throwing in weight lifting in my fitness routine since yesterday. G
I really like that week 4 exercise. I have actually been rejected not too long ago. It's not like they cuss you out when you ask them for their number and I enjoy it. Thank you for the tip Amante.

My main game is getting a girl out on one date. Every girl I have had success with will chase me wholeheartedly after the first one, this lasts anywhere from a few weeks to a few years, so I think the goal is to get first dates.