Divorcees?

[ozzfest]

advice needed...are recently divorced women more apt to look for a LTR relationship or do you think they would like to be able to play the field initially after getting divorced?

I am thinking that after being married for years and finally breaking free they would like to be able to enjoy their freedom and have some ONS or short term relationships (mostly for the physical reasons). In other words date more than one guy, play around...etc.

Just need some advice on this to try and figure out the mindset of a woman i know. thanks

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Give us the specifics on the woman. It's too general a question.

 

[myfriendblu]

More or less probably looking to play the field the first year of her divorce. Is long as there isn't any kids involved, I say get in there and get some action!

If she has kids, move on

 

[ozzfest]

background: married about 7-8 yrs..small child 3-4 yrs old...recently divorced...hot - about an 8....has plenty of opportunites...does she take them or settle for 1 guy (LTR)...you tell me

 

[myfriendblu]

With a kid in the picture, she is probably looking for a decent guy/father figure type eventually, but I say she is looking to play the feild for a little bit, at least the first year.

Since she has a kid, I would stay outta this situation. Its probably only gonna lead to drama

 

[iqqi]

here ya go:

throws tip at ozzy

 

[Helter Skelter]

Originally posted by ozzfest
background: married about 7-8 yrs..small child 3-4 yrs old...recently divorced...hot - about an 8....has plenty of opportunites...does she take them or settle for 1 guy (LTR)...you tell me

Yea,

I just put these numbers into my crystal ball based on the information you supplied.

7/8 married
3/4 child

She's is looking for a LTR but will want to take it slow at first with casual dating.

Expect the relationship consumated during week 4.

 

[tomyv]

hmm

I've dated 3 divorcees, but they didn't have kids. They all seemed to want to play the field.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

ONS only. They are to fragile right now, they need atleast half the time they were married to fully recover.

They want to use you as much as you want to use them!

M.A.C.

 

[dionysius_d]

Originally posted by Matt ala Casanova
ONS only. They are to fragile right now, they need atleast half the time they were married to fully recover.

They want to use you as much as you want to use them!

they are fragile.. so ONS them .. lol.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Originally posted by dionysius_d
they are fragile.. so ONS them .. lol.

Heh...trust me, fragile in the heart but need a hearty man sandwich!

M.A.C.

 

[1utfan1]

Originally posted by myfriendblu

If she has kids, move on

you crack me up blue!

 

[ozzfest]

thanks for the article iqqi...fyi, she has told me if she were dating a guy she wouldn't want him to get close to her child untill the relationship was solid..wouldn't wanna make the guy feel like he had to inherit a family right away..thats too much pressure on the guy...so it sounds like she just wants to date...then she invites me to lunch with her child...does that mean i am not bf material...am i just a friend?

 

[iqqi]

i think right now she knows that she likes you, you probaly COULD be bf material, but she hasn't completely sorted out her emotions yet, which she won't be able to do for awhile now. if she really likes you, this could actually be stressfull for her. she may want one thing, but be emotionally disfuctional in those terms.

so i'd say, the real question is what do YOU want?

you have to answer that first.

 

[ozzfest]

thanks for the insight iqqi...i appreciate it!