I don't 'blame men' for everything. Where, ever in the forum have I said that men's problems with women are entirely the fault of men alone?
What I do blame a lot of people for is not taking responsibility for their own lives and not being smart enough to look beyond their problems in black an white terms - perfect example you think I 'only blame men'. That's black and white thinking, which has NO place here. They chose instead to blame the actions of others, and other completely uncontrollable variables for their predicaments.
I choose to largely ignore the unsavoury attitudes and behaviours of women that are beyond the direct control of men, preferring to talk about solutions, things that can be done to possibly PREVENT them acting out and avoiding this type of situation entirely.
Moaning about the fckn past, or anything else that is beyond one's own sphere of direct control, is tantamount p!ssing in to the wind.
I'll make two points and leave you to it, because I see this as an extra-curricular academic conversation, and I really have little more to ad to what I've already said.
-(many) Modern men are acting more and more like women, crying about My Little Pony, whatever,... because Disney.... and whatever other conditioning.
-As results, (many) modern women are acting more and more like men (should), because (many) men simply aren't turning up (as they should). Thus, they go looking for the strength, when their husbands start going melty at the knees.
This is not the fault of men or particularly women, more that of the clandestine media and their puppet-masters. Also, some people, men and women, are just a$$holes. Like I say, that's life. We can sit on the grassy knoll and cry our little hearts out about 'evil women' (I've been there before, sh!t I've been locked up because of a woman before), or we can man up and accept the situation for what it is and play the game to the best of our abilities.
That's the fckn law of the jungle dudes. Survival of the fittest. Like it or lump it; it's always been here, it's here right now, and it's here to stay.