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Well heres the story:

I am a 16 year old teenage guy, 6'3", brown wavy hair, light blue eyes. Some people say I am skinny, but I weigh 195-205 lbs (varies almost daily). I have been around the site for what seems like ages now, reading the bible and articles and taking the DJ steps at a moderate pace. So heres what happened. It's New Years eve. Me and several other people are driving around in a 7-8 car cluster. We stop by a guys house who is going to buy us some stuff to drink to celebrate. Me and a couple other people hop out and run over to this chicks house who we will call Bibby. Anywho, Bibby is having a little party with all girls and we come and crash it. While I am there, I meet this chick, Jessica. Jessica is a Junior (like me) and appearently has been going to my school since freshman year. So I approach her and we hang out on the couch. This was obviously a connection with her and we were flirting a little on the couch. 5-10 minutes later, we get the new years stuff and head over to my buddy's house, griffin. She invites me to ride with her and after realizing I would be drinking and didn't want to drive, I accepted. We get there and throughtout the whole night we hang out with me hitting her with kino, C+F, etc. At about 11:30, her parents call her being all upset. We were chillin on the couch at the time and she appologizes and leaves (sober). I don't see her until the next night at another friends house. I get there before her and when she arrives, I ignore her a bit and she approaches me and sits next to me. We hang out and cuddle on the couch and have a good time. Later in the night, we finally get into an odd position after some strategic tickling and I kissed her. Bibby is there and screams at me for taking advantage of a drunk girl. Neither of us had more then a shot in the few hours we were there. So as we both left, we kissed again and I went home feeling proud.

Take a breather. Heres the important part:

I see her at school the following day between 1 class. She text's me in class a million times. I don't hang out with her at all until about Wednesday in which we go out to lunch. I tell her my father is going out of town so I am going to have a party. She doesn't show to much emotion from it but said she would like to go. Friday rolls around (we still haven't hung out or kissed) and everyone meets at a basketball game. Our high school team is beaten up and afterwards, a good 20-30 people end up at my house. I didn't really mind too much because I was expecting it and had prepared. So everyone comes over but I am in a crabby mood for some reason. Jessica comes over with Bibby (they are best friends it seems) and they chit chat. However, there is almost no alcohol flowing here. Everyone is a little edgy and Jessica and me try to relax on the couch. This is where I think problems may have started. I didn't make any moves on her and hung around her the whole night. I may have seemed a little clingy, but I am not sure. At around 1am, people start to leave as well as others start to crash for the night. Jessica leaves with Bibby and I get a goodnight kiss after a little bit of WWF wrestling with her. However, about a half hour later, Bibby returns and says she is staying to. Me, feeling generous, said it was alright, even though I don't really like her. Another one of my friends, we will call him J, brings over 3 girls from another school. They are going to stay the night along with 3 guys and Bibby. One of the girls is an easy hookup and I had really needed some ass at that point. The whole night however, Bibby kept ****blocking me. It got to the point where I asked her to leave but she wouldn't. It hindered my game to the point where I just went to sleep with no play. I wake up the next morning with her gone and a couple of guys sleeping with girls. We clean up a little bit and prepare for a possible after party tonite. Evening rolls around. There is a hockey game that everyone attends. I see Jessica there and I stand next to her. I pay alot of attention to the game and little to her. She seemed happy enough with me being there though. After we lose again (Our high school sucks at sports), people ask if they can come over. I said it was fine so a mere 15 people show up. Bibby and Jessica show up again. Again, I am feeling a little crabby but try hard to supress it. After sitting on the couch with her and everyone in the other room, I get up and see whats going on. Everyone seems to be having fun with no alcohol again. I return to Jessica and Bibby comes in the room. Jessica gets up and talks to her in the other room. Jessica comes back and says "We'll be back in a bit". This is the key point where the sh*t hits the fan. I say ok. This all starts at about 11pm. 1am rolls around with no calls or seeing them at all. I finally get to the point where I just tell everyone they have to leave. So everyone senses me being pissed and just leaves.

Break. Almost there.

I wake up the next morning in an upset mood. I hop on my computer and talk to her other friend, Allison. Allison says she talked to Jessica and Jessica told her that she slept in her car the previous night. I thought it was kind of odd, but not 10 minutes later did Jessica text me appologizing for the previous night. She said she "Stayed the entire night with Bibby because she had a bad night". I asked if she slept over there and she said "yes". At this point I see she just lied to me. For seemingly no good reason. So I asked her "Oh really. Why would u lie about something so stupid?". She responds "You don't even f*cking know me Jay." I was suprised how hostile she had become. She then kept asking "how I knew what i know". I never told her who told me, but she stop sending messages and that was the last time I talked to her or even made eye contact. Flash forward 1.5 weeks. This is where I stand today. I told her friends who I talk to that I am not mad anymore, but if she wants to work things out, she can call me up and we will set them straight. I said that about a week ago and I still have yet to talk to her. Now, if you read the entire thing, what do I do? Move on? I have already met some new chick from another school. Or do I wait and see?
 

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Sounds like you get around haha. I'd move on, you've got no time for games, neither should she, so just get on with it, you said you met another girl, focus on that. Another thing, just because there's no alcohal doesn't mean you should be grouchy to everyone. One of the bible verses is to not be clingy and get upset...because women get upset easily in response, time is the cure here. Time to NEXT ;)
 

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Is there anyway I can do damage control to salvage it? She's kinda b*tchy, but I just love those girls. I duno why. Just my thing I guess.

[Update: NEXT'd her]
 
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Mr. Debonaire

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ya man, this is a next

forget about her, you got bigger fish to bang..... er....

ya plus saying she can call you to work things out. wrong. weak. afc. your giving her all the power :rolleyes:

next her and get on with your life
 

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Definitely NEXT. You ain't gotta waste youse time on gals like her.
 
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