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Distuingishing between AFCs and REAL LIFE PIMPS

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
I don't believe I have ever posted in one of Skip's threads... reason being, and I'm gonna finally say it:

He's a complete douche.

Any advice given is nothing but rehashed things that most of us already know, laid out in bullet form like some sort of instruction manual.

There's no basis on real world experiences, for the most part.

He reminds me of Black Italian and that other guy who was on here a while back... I can't remember the name right now, but he had sever ADD and it showed in his posts... it just gets annoying to read this garbage day in and day out and scares me to know that some new guys who really can turn themselves around are taking this advice as gospel and shooting themselves in the foot.

LOL complete douche? sorry not gonna insult u back, but listen to this:

I HAVE NOT LIED ONCE ON THIS FORUM, if u are an AFC and need help, my main areas of experience are MYSPACE, F-CLOSING, and OVERCOMING APPROACH ANXIETY, if u dont like my advice, then go talk to a girl or another AFC who will tell u the following "advice":

1)never play mind games with a girl, just be yourself
2)looks dont matter, thats shallow
3)dont juggle girls, thats soooo not cool
4)"get her something nice, shed be sooo happy if u did that"

wanna take that advice? or mine?

seriously u losers stand out very very obviously because instead of sharing tricks and techniques, u instead argue over my experience and validity on AN ANONYMOUS FORUM

disclaimer: i am NOT good at LTR, so never take my advice for that :)
 

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gods gift to women said:
SKIP:

I know your only 21 but please get a life. Every time come I to this site I see your name all over it. IS THIS ALL YOU DO?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

insulting someone on the internet that ur never gonna meet is STUPID
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
LOL complete douche? sorry not gonna insult u back, but listen to this:

I HAVE NOT LIED ONCE ON THIS FORUM, if u are an AFC and need help, my main areas of experience are MYSPACE, F-CLOSING, and OVERCOMING APPROACH ANXIETY, if u dont like my advice, then go talk to a girl or another AFC who will tell u the following "advice":

1)never play mind games with a girl, just be yourself
2)looks dont matter, thats shallow
3)dont juggle girls, thats soooo not cool
4)"get her something nice, shed be sooo happy if u did that"

wanna take that advice? or mine?

seriously u losers stand out very very obviously because instead of sharing tricks and techniques, u instead argue over my experience and validity on AN ANONYMOUS FORUM

disclaimer: i am NOT good at LTR, so never take my advice for that :)

I really don't take anyone's advice on here but my own... and as far as sharing "tricks or techniques"; that is where we are different.

You use tricks to fool a girl into thinking you're something you're not... That's probably the reason why you're no good in LTRs. You're all smoke and mirrors and once the initial excitment dissipates, the girl starts to see that you're not all that you were cracked up to be.

I'm just myself and never use a trick or a technique to "fool" a gril. that's not what becoming a so called "Don Juan" is about.

I've worked hard at becoming more charismatic, and confident man and i never put on an act. The way I am is the way I am.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
insulting someone on the internet that ur never gonna meet is STUPID
tell me that I am not the only person who realizes the irony just dripping from this quote! (better explain it to skip...See skip what you did was insult him by infering that he was stupid while saying that it was stupid to do that.. or in other words you did the same stupid thing that you were chastising him for doing!) Its just classic I tell ya! I'll let you figure out what that must make you. In a way you are actually quite entertaining. It is very easy to yank your chain
 

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how bout instead of worrying about me lying/being fake/bragging, u afcs focus on the content of the thread
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
I really don't take anyone's advice on here but my own... and as far as sharing "tricks or techniques"; that is where we are different.

You use tricks to fool a girl into thinking you're something you're not... That's probably the reason why you're no good in LTRs. You're all smoke and mirrors and once the initial excitment dissipates, the girl starts to see that you're not all that you were cracked up to be.

I'm just myself and never use a trick or a technique to "fool" a gril. that's not what becoming a so called "Don Juan" is about.

I've worked hard at becoming more charismatic, and confident man and i never put on an act. The way I am is the way I am.
Skip doesn't advocate being a DJ- he's no expert in anything, either. Besides, you don't need to be an "expert" to interact with women. I'm not professing to know a whole lot, but I would wager there are many men who come to this site who are lost, looking for some good advice...they aren't looking to become a "pimp" they just want to lose their fear of approaching, figure out what they're doing wrong and find the direction to happiness, not to despair. Neil Strauss is a PUA. Do you think he's any happier knowing "the game"?

Resorting to games to get women is akin to being a crooked salesman looking for a sucker- if you approach enough eventually you'll find your sucker! Who wants to approach dozens of women just to get a lay if you could get better results by making yourself more desireable? I don't know about you guys but I don't have much time to approach lots and lots of girls so I work on correcting mistakes, fixing flaws and reading up in the DJ Tips section of this site for inspiration and motivation to change myself.

Eventually you just have to accept yourself at the very core of your being. Embrace your positive qualities and learn to accentuate them. Once you do that and talk to girls you start to understand there's really no reason not to talk to them- they aren't going to bite! If anything women are very non-confrontational and will do a lot to avoid it. Develop your inner game and notice how it shines through. Ever since I started changing my perpective I even had a coworker notice saying that ever since I bought my motorcycle it made me sexier...yeah the bike makes my happier but that isn't it, honey ;)

Skip, I can't read any posts of yours unless they are quoted since you're on my ignore list, sorry about that. I catch people quoting you and there, though. Being a pimp is a cultural thing- even if it shares ideals that are similar to being a DJ they are NOT the same. I advise anyone out there who came here confused and lost like I did to read up on the bible, understand the dynamics in how men and women interact and talk to girls casually. Think of every girl that you open to be a social experiment and don't favor any sort of outcome- either way you're going to walk away with an experience...use it to learn from. A lot of material on this site will benefit and motivate but you must make an effort to take baby steps otherwise all is lost.

You are not a loser if you don't agree or if you argue with skip; personally I think he's a douchenugget. There are plenty of members here that will give you less ambiguous information that will not only tell you what to do but explain in detail why you should do it so it makes sense. Much of that information is in the bible. Shezz, Pook, Puertoricanlover, Squirrels, Life Force and many others here have a good handle on things. Alas it's up to the individual to build their case and make judgement calls on good vs. bad posts. I pray that many of our members here are finding the information that helps change their lives for the better, because in the end that's all that matters. :up:
 

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lol, im kinda surprised this thread is still open, why are people gettin so upset over this thread tho? Ignore a post if you don't like it but... what's the point of all this... lol do something worthwile ppl, besides flaming ppl on the internet. plz. do it for me :(
 

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Yeah, skip's threads are just old advice rewritten, but I don't flame him for it, some new people on the site might need to see it. I do disagree with some of skip's stuff, but I just tell my own opinion and let people decide for themselves which advice they like. I don't take anybody's sides because I think if you have your own opinion, then just post it. No need for all the flaming.

Let's just put it this way, everyone has their own way of approaching/getting girls. So the idea is to learn different techniques, make up your own, and figure out what works best for you.
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
AFC - makes pointless threads and constantly makes sarcasitc stupid jokes (which are funny, but still, this is an ANONYMOUS FORUM),

so there u go, know this, and ull kno whos who on this whole entire forum
What about the 3rd type, the guy who makes sarcastic stupid jokes but also has f*cked a lot of sluts? Well, I surely am not, but there's got to be somebody like that.
 

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Resorting to games to get women is akin to being a crooked salesman looking for a sucker- if you approach enough eventually you'll find your sucker! Who wants to approach dozens of women just to get a lay if you could get better results by making yourself more desireable?
That's all you need to know. Get a life skip.
 

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u get better results BY PLAYING THE NUMBERS GAME

try to get with 100 HB10s in 1 week and ull end up ****ing at least a couple of them!!!! IT DOESNT TAKE MUCH TO TRY - A 30 SECOND APPROACH COUNTS AS TRYING, SO ITS NOT LIKE UR WASTING UR WHOLE WEEK JUST TRYING TO GET WITH GIRLS

are u telling me that u wouldnt **** an HB10?

im startin to think some of u arent just AFCs, but r seriously homosexual
 

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Quiksilver said:
That's all you need to know. Get a life skip.

i have a life.

it consists of working a 9-5 job, working out, playing baskteball, chillin with friends, and ****ing 58 girls the last 3 years

what does UR life consist of?
 

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Everything you post has that bittersweet stench of insecurity man.

You're pretty keen on proving yourself to people, and seriously who counts how many chicks they've slept with in the past 3 freakin years!! what, do you have a little checklist goin or something?

by the way, you completely missed the message so deviously hidden within my post.

im startin to think some of u arent just AFCs, but r seriously homosexual
Most of us aren't as desperate as you are.

try to get with 100 HB10s in 1 week and ull end up ****ing at least a couple of them!!!!
If you have to game 100 HBs to get 2 lays, then you're worse off than i thought...
 

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ur an AFC whos afraid of rejection and wont even try to game girls, stop posting - go READ, this site is for u to LEARN, not to hate the players dummy.

fyi, i was bored at work for 20 minutes one day, and i decided to count off the # of girls i ****ed yea, and i been keepin track ever since FOR FUN....no need to have a stick in yo azz about things like that
 

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AFC - guy who makes threads trying to convince his internet buddies he is a "real life pimp".

REAL LIFE PIMP - guy who sells women for sex, abuses women, has sex with minors, bullies anyone weaker than him and sells drugs to create a state of dependence.

DJ - guy who does his own thing, tries to make the best of himself and live his life to the full and doesn't have anything to prove to anyone.
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
I don't believe I have ever posted in one of Skip's threads... reason being, and I'm gonna finally say it:

He's a complete douche.

Any advice given is nothing but rehashed things that most of us already know, laid out in bullet form like some sort of instruction manual.

There's no basis on real world experiences, for the most part.

He reminds me of Black Italian and that other guy who was on here a while back... I can't remember the name right now, but he had sever ADD and it showed in his posts... it just gets annoying to read this garbage day in and day out and scares me to know that some new guys who really can turn themselves around are taking this advice as gospel and shooting themselves in the foot.
Well I agree completely! And this is from one of the members I respect the most on here.
 

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WOW shut ur trap...a DON JUAN is a term solely reserved for a guy whos good with the ladies....its got nothin to do with life or wat u do, DON JAUN is a term created just to describe a man whos a lady killer....wtf have u been smoking??
 

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The Truth said:
Well I agree completely! And this is from one of the members I respect the most on here.

EVERYTHING i say is based on real life experience
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
i have a life.

it consists of working a 9-5 job, working out, playing baskteball, chillin with friends, and ****ing 58 girls the last 3 years

what does UR life consist of?
Frozen pizza and satelite TV
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
im startin to think some of u arent just AFCs, but r seriously homosexual
That's fcuking hilarious coming from you, hypocrite. You use "homosexual" to insult people when you yourself are bi-sexual or at least bi-curious. And yeah, you can try to bullsh!t everyone else about it. Since you either deleted your account or changed the user name so it no longer comes up in a simple Google search of "skip2mylou781" anymore, they can check any of it. But I know. I saw amonstall of the other basketball and girls shaking their ass videos, I saw the what? 5, 6, maybe more videos you had saved to your favorites of guys dancing around in their underwear, or showing off their asses, even one guy with his ballsack hanging out, no doubt what so ever that they were sexual in nature... You didn't know that YouTube accounts are public, did you? And the fact that now you've got it hidden is even further proof that you're embarassed about your sexuality. Now, I don't have anything negative to say about you being bi, it's your life, live it how you want, doesn't affect me at all. But the fact that you come on here afterwards and call people gay as an insult despite your very own homosexual tendancies show an INCREDIBLE lack of self-esteem and confidence. If you had accepted it, you wouldn't try so hard to hide it with macho homophobe comments like that.

You know, there are people out there in the real world, or even just a different forum maybe, that can help you accept your bi-sexuality, instead of trying to gain the acceptance of people on this forum as a way of compensating for negative feelings you have toward yourself.
 
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