Displayed jealousy. Heavy damage... How to recover?

[PEPE LE PIU]

Ok, here is the story

I am dating a striper. The whole story goes over 4 months of breaking up and getting together. This time she calls it LTR and swears that she loves me. I don't think that she is in a gold hounting expedition with me because the only money i spent on her is for the hotel rooms and sometimes she pays too.


Tonight we went out and when we were ready to leave somebody calls her. She pick up the phone and says "Hi, how are you? Can you call me back in 30 mins?". In 30 mins she would be home getting ready to go to work.

I asked her who was he and she told me that was one of her client's. They have their client's to which they m@strubate their mind's so they will come back tomorow (i believe that in 70%). Anyway i got upset (still learning damn1t) and had an argument over it. While we were arguing she said something like "This is my job and if you don't like it you are free to do whatever you want".

When i came back home i did some damage control and i believe that my DJ shield is damaget 60%. Now how can i get my shield back in one piece? How can i display again the doesn't really matter attitude? I mean that if i simply act cool next time this happens she will think that i have been well trained not to cause any trouble.

NEXT is an option but i would prefere to be the last one. It doesn't provide any skill, just learning experiences.

So, if anyone has any tip how to recover from this situation it would be very helpfoul to hear.

 

[Knicknack]

you're dating a stripper and you don't expect there to be baggage? give me a break. go find a decent girl and then come talk to me. there is a reason this girl has to take her clothes off for money. red flag.

just enjoy the sex and stop worrying about tying this wh0re down. just have an i dont give a fvck attitude.

 

[prosemont]

When I read you were dating a STRIPER, I thought you meant you were dating a FISH.

Ahem.

Okay ... now, I'm not going to ask you WTF you're thinking dating a stiper, er, stripper and not realizing that she's
1. shoving her puzzy in other guy's faces constantly,
2. rubbing her puzzy and teats all over them,
3. probably fvcking and sucking them off,
4. and talking dirty to them (the VERY least of your concerns).

And, I'm NOT asking that because you really want a way of thinking about this that you can make this WORK for you; provided, however, you are not one of those FVCKING CHUMPS who strippers reel in (ahem) to get them to "fall in love with them" so that they can support them and their coke habits until you're absolutely broke and she finds someone new.
Why do I have a feeling you're one of those CHUMPS?

How can you tell objectively if you are one of those chumps (apart from being a chump anyway for being with a stripper, that is)? You can easily tell: once she starts asking you for money or loans or for you to buy her things or for your credit card or to pay for her rent or ANYTHING, YOU ARE THAT CHUMP.

She is making huge coin -- she should be supporting YOU if she really wants to be with you, she should be supporting YOU.

So, query: are you a PIMP or a CHUMP?

*If you are a PIMP, here is your answer for how to emotionally deal with your jealousy:

Emotionally detach yourself from her by thinking of yourself as being in partnership with her in a business venture. Everything she does, she's doing for you the financial security of you both.

Good luck.

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. You can't pimp what you love. Prosemont is right. You need to detach.

2. strippers are one step away from street prostitution. I know this for a fact. The best way to build a stable of ho's is to hit up the strip junts...when you can convince them to quit shaken it for dollars and they can make benjamins in just minutes...it's like taking candy from a baby.


3. strippers are destroyed human beings. I'm not sure if they all walk in the door that way but I do know that the job nails the coffin shut.

 

[playasupreme]

Heads up my little friend: she's a hooker. Yep, I know, it's hard to fathom that she would actually LIE to you but that's the skinny hombre'. Soft hooker, streetwalker, gold-digger, stripper, dancer, actress, model, hoe, call girl, escourt, whatever man these all mean the same thing: a working girl who is always on the clock and has no morals. She's f***ing that guy she talked to on the phone, without a doubt. Women like these like to use word-games to hide the facts so they can always say they tried to tell you and not feel bad. Ask yourself this one question: "why all the secrecy and defensiveness?" Because she sells her body for money man, and you're her hooker chew toy. Just something to play with when she's not hunting big game. Your purpose in life right now is to make her feel like a normal girl who has a normal life instead of the c*ckhound ***** she really is. Don't ever date a women who sells her affection on any terms, whether she's a waitress who sits with her fat rich customers and flirts with them, "accidentally" letting them cop a feel in exchange for a nice tip, or sucks truckers off behind roadside diners for $20, she's still a clocking hooker. Don't fall for the smoke and mirrors routine, it's all the same: slut. Don't feel stupid, don't get mad, just break it off and find someone you're not going to eventually catch in your bed with your neighbor. When she can't talk on the phone in front of you that's a SURE sign something's going on. Sure there are strippers who don't suck guys off for cash, but they are few and far between and they usually don't last long in the biz'. Besides any woman who strips for money is ruthless enough to turn on you when you aren't paying attention, so open you damn eyes son!

 

[DJ_Dork]

Strippers/Pornstars../etc All messed up in the head and unworthy of being in a LTR. They're good for one thing 1. Entertainment 2. Sex. That's all they're worth.

 

[NewMan]

You got emotionally attached to a striper (ahem, Stripper).

Knock, Knock, McFly is anyone home?

You should have never gone this far with someone who's taking of her clothes for other guys!!!!

Your not acting Jealous, your acting like any guy would, whose girl is taking off her clothes for other men.

What now?

Detach from her - and do it quickly.

End now, before she sucks you dry.

Keep fvcking her for as long as you can - for free. But no emotional bullsh#t.

This will end in disaster if you persue.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Have sex with her and NOTHING MORE!! Don't take her out, don't get jealous and don't give a rat's @SS!!!

Even if she's completely faithful and good to you, you'll NEVER believe it!!! Its already showing now and you guys have been on again/off again like a tv set.



PIMP

 

[popcorn]

Strippers are very nice people USUALY not always. Im suprised a don juan would date one though as they are one of the few sectors in female society who actually prefare nicer men. Sorry i just wanted to defend strippers from the bad comments most people associate them with.

 

[PEPE LE PIU]

Wow, just relax a little all you guys. I am not emotionaly attached or something. I am just too lazy right now to go and find something better. The whole jealousy thing was not nothing more than an experiment. I just thought that it would be nice to throw some AFC'nes, but i used too much and it blow to my face.

I am aware of everything you all said and i am very cautious. The only worry that i have right now is that i scr3wed up my game . But yeah, you are right. Why should i care? I just learned something new and i wont overdo it again with the AFC material in my receipe.


As for prosemont's query i am not exactly one of either. I definitely am not a PIMP, but i am not a total CHUMP either. I am just too lazy right now and settled with whatever was available.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

A stripper told you that she loves you? You are getting emotional (jealous) over a stripper? THE MATRIX HAS YOU!!!!! GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE!!!!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
A stripper told you that she loves you? You are getting emotional (jealous) over a stripper? THE MATRIX HAS YOU!!!!! GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE!!!!

LOL....The more I read your posts, the more you make me laugh bro....



PIMP

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by playasupreme
Heads up my little friend: she's a hooker. Yep, I know, it's hard to fathom that she would actually LIE to you but that's the skinny hombre'. Soft hooker, streetwalker, gold-digger, stripper, dancer, actress, model, hoe, call girl, escourt, whatever man these all mean the same thing: a working girl who is always on the clock and has no morals. She's f***ing that guy she talked to on the phone, without a doubt. Women like these like to use word-games to hide the facts so they can always say they tried to tell you and not feel bad. Ask yourself this one question: "why all the secrecy and defensiveness?" Because she sells her body for money man, and you're her hooker chew toy. Just something to play with when she's not hunting big game. Your purpose in life right now is to make her feel like a normal girl who has a normal life instead of the c*ckhound ***** she really is. Don't ever date a women who sells her affection on any terms, whether she's a waitress who sits with her fat rich customers and flirts with them, "accidentally" letting them cop a feel in exchange for a nice tip, or sucks truckers off behind roadside diners for $20, she's still a clocking hooker. Don't fall for the smoke and mirrors routine, it's all the same: slut. Don't feel stupid, don't get mad, just break it off and find someone you're not going to eventually catch in your bed with your neighbor. When she can't talk on the phone in front of you that's a SURE sign something's going on. Sure there are strippers who don't suck guys off for cash, but they are few and far between and they usually don't last long in the biz'. Besides any woman who strips for money is ruthless enough to turn on you when you aren't paying attention, so open you damn eyes son!

Truer words have never been spoken. Yes, I've even cut waittresses out of my diet. Never bothered with Strippers, and never will, I value my penis and I don't want it falling off into the toilet whilst having a piss one day.