Disgusted!

[ThunderMaverick]

I hate them as well. I also feel like it takes away from the bonding that comes from sex... flesh on flesh just feels more real.... but so do HIV on blood cells!

Why would you want to "bond" with a girl who you're just dating and you know f*cks other people?

On the other hand I can understand why you're upset. You guys had a rule between each other and she broke it. Probably not a good idea to get closer to her - I mean if you were planning on doing that.

 

[Boilermaker]

Hey - just to relieve you a little bit here,

you said it was a relatively fast job, like 5 minutes.

...and if you only intercoursed once during this period, your chances of contracting a disease (even considering the unlikely case of her contracting anything earlier with this single lay before) is very very slim.

The HIV epidemic is sustained by very hardworking and brave people who try very very hard, many many times, sleeping with lots and lots of different people..

Statistically speaking, you are at a very low risk spectrum. ( You can google how contraction probabilities are calculated, and see the probability of contracting diseases by various ways of having sex, etc... )

But that said, insisting on raw sex as a general habit could have very serious consequences (the point being "persistence" here) and believe me, it's not worth it.

Do you want to die at 40 pointlessly because you couldn't tolerate rubber ?

 

[runner83]

Personally I never go bareback with a girl unless I am sure she is seeing no one else.

But au naturale, there is no better feeling in the world than pumping in and out of her, and blowing a big one inside her....as long as she is on the pill!

 

[bukowski_merit]

Hey!!! Look at my post, any of u remember? Confused....anyway, Im still a little hung up on this chick that went back to her ex, but im beginning to really get over it now. Since i've come to the conclusion of how stupid she is, new job for only 3 weeks, lives in basement with her 8 yr old son and her bf and his dad! And now I here she's prego!!!!!, what an idiot!!! Now, Bukowski Merit, you are banging chicks that r banging other dudes!!!!! WTF!! The last time I posted about this girl, I was hazed basicly for still posting about her!!! Look, it takes some of us more time then others and sometimes we never get over a major mistake or hurt. But im now slowly beginning to feel like my old self. And fyi, this is my old self...I never, never banged another girl if I knew she was doing someone else!!! Never, and if she told me she was, she was history! Call me old fashioned maybe, but if she wants me, then she's giving up the rest!!! What? still seeing someone else too, call me when ur done and then we'll talk about us maybe...until then GOODBY!!! Call me a relationship nut, but I always have enjoyed relationships, some of them ltrs yes. As I said in previous post, i've dated a ton of woman,most 8,9 and 10's in my opinion. But if they were dating someone else at the same time, they got there walking papers! And a few did walk, but thats my thing mannnn, thats just my standards. And I put this previous girl thru a lot of **** towards the end because I could just feel that she was lying to me. It just began not to feel right. Anyway, not being critic, we'er all different. But I don't wanta be told to stop posting about my current one chick pain, when the rest of u r banging woman that are getting there rocks off knowing that they'er hitting you and another guy at the same time. Now, tell me that doesn't put a chick on a pedistal, really!!!!!! ca mon!!! By the way, been in NC for a good while, and forever from now on! Thks, just an opinion thats all.

Wow! Talk about off-topic! .... No idea who you are, but from what i can understand - you have bad one-itis for a woman? Or are in a bad relationship that you won't get out of even though many have advised you too? Not even in the same ballpark as what is being discussed here!

Banging another woman who is banging other men is putting her on a pedestal? That would possibly be true if she were the ONLY woman i was banging. Go over to http://www.johnnysoporno.com/ and watch "seductive reasoning" videos.... I pretty much operate in a similar way to him; minus banging porn stars, and picking up women by showing them my c@ck pic!

Why would you want to "bond" with a girl who you're just dating and you know f*cks other people?

Good question!

I guess the answer is that i try to bond with every woman i sleep with. One night stand or long term fvck buddy! I enjoy women. I enjoy when they are addicted to me. I enjoy capturing them, and setting them free.

When you have sex with a woman - your body releases chemicals that bond you to each other. The more you have sex (and the more you orgasm) - your body releases more and more chemicals. So the process of sex is a bonding experience... Or at least is intended to be by nature (so that you can get the woman pregnant and will stick around to help raise it for at least a year.)

In my experience - when i've bonded with a woman in a REAL way. The sex becomes A LOT better! So i start looking for that connection then minute i set my eyes on a woman....

Guess it can sound a little absurd to most guys, since if the woman isn't their LTR - they don't want any kind of connection with them. But since i don't do LTR - i get it from many.

On the other hand I can understand why you're upset. You guys had a rule between each other and she broke it. Probably not a good idea to get closer to her - I mean if you were planning on doing that.

I don't plan on being with this woman any longer. So no, that's not my plan =)

Hey - just to relieve you a little bit here,

you said it was a relatively fast job, like 5 minutes.

...and if you only intercoursed once during this period, your chances of contracting a disease (even considering the unlikely case of her contracting anything earlier with this single lay before) is very very slim.

The HIV epidemic is sustained by very hardworking and brave people who try very very hard, many many times, sleeping with lots and lots of different people..

Statistically speaking, you are at a very low risk spectrum. ( You can google how contraction probabilities are calculated, and see the probability of contracting diseases by various ways of having sex, etc... )

But that said, insisting on raw sex as a general habit could have very serious consequences (the point being "persistence" here) and believe me, it's not worth it.

Do you want to die at 40 pointlessly because you couldn't tolerate rubber ?

Well, d@mn. Didn't realize length of sex effected the possibility of contraction. Thanks for the information!

I don't want to die at all to be honest!

 

[Nutz]

The only thing she did that was wrong was telling you after, not before. She knew she should have said something but specifically waited until after to tell you. Her bad.

Where you messed up is relying on her to be honest. Dude, come on now. It's a chick that's clearly a slut and you really expect her to live up to any expectations? Bitch please.

 

[Kailex]

So you are trusting your "sexual life" with creatures that already lack accountability?

Not only that, but with women you KNOW that are lacking accountability on purpose and you want them to hold up their ends of the bargain?

I know why you are doing it, B-Merit, but you have to understand, it's kind of a jaded view to have. You expect them to keep their "word" while sleeping around with other guys? How would you even know if they were lying in the first place?

 

[Colossus]

Very true on everything.

Does DE mean Delaware? I'm in Newark; about to go to Kildares in a few (and be the oldest guy in there not sporting a guitar around his neck lol).

No sh!t??? I live in New Castle, right down the road. Haha I used to go to Kildares but it got a bit obnoxious for me. I like homegrown and stewart's, and wilmington in the summer.

Lol, small world!

 

[slaog]

The OP should try to find a decent girl. One good girl is better than a million of those flithy wh0res he sleeps with.

 

[Zarky]

The OP should try to find a decent girl. One good girl is better than a million of those flithy wh0res he sleeps with.

I think you should be posting on the e-harmony forums

 

[Boilermaker]

The OP should try to find a decent girl. One good girl is better than a million of those flithy wh0res he sleeps with.

after 1600 posts this is the wisdom you achieved?
:moon:

 

[bukowski_merit]

No sh!t??? I live in New Castle, right down the road. Haha I used to go to Kildares but it got a bit obnoxious for me. I like homegrown and stewart's, and wilmington in the summer.

Cool cool!

Kildares IS obnoxious! lol, that's why i love it! Homegrown, i go to occasionally for happy hour, but have never been to at nighttime. Might try it sometime.

The OP should try to find a decent girl. One good girl is better than a million of those flithy wh0res he sleeps with.

We've had this discussion at least 20 times Slaog. I'm not going to find something that doesn't exist. I would love to go out with one of these magical toothfaries you always speak of, and come back with a report on how much of a s!ut i turned her into; how i had her flapping her wings and spilling her teeth... But then you would just say she was never quality in the first place, blah blah blah....

I mean, you're a person who said you know for a FACT that no one in your family has ever cheated... I'm sorry, but i can't compete with that level of naiveness. You got me by a mile with your imagination!


Do i fvck women who sleep around? Yes. Do i sleep around? Yes.

I'm at peace with the Madonna/Wh@re complex; but it doesn't appear that you are....

The pure woman does not exist... And i imagine if she did - she would be boring...


NOTE: I'm not saying that there aren't women that are less likely to be easily corrupted (and these are the women men should target for LTRs); but no woman is completely s!utless! Not even you.

 

[lifeislearning]

Her: I have to warn you. I can't have sex with you.

I IGNORE this message, as i always do when a woman says such a thing. In the modern day of texting - women LOVE to say stuff like this to make it appear to themselves and you like they are trying to be "good".

This wasn't the first clue, but the most defining one for meriting condom use. I love hearing a woman tell me what she won't do with me, and watching it happen soon after. And as much as I'd like to think I'm the only guy she would break her "rules" for, there has got to be one (if not many) guys just as convincing as I am in the same city.

NOTE: I'm not saying that there aren't women that are less likely to be easily corrupted (and these are the women men should target for LTRs); but no woman is completely s!utless!

Those are the only ones I would even consider not using a condom with, but I still wrap up unless she is clean and exclusive. Then again the world is full of three date holdouts...

 

[TheAsianLoverReturns]

Crown condoms. The only latex condom that feels close to raw.

Now I know some idiot is going to say condoms aren't 100%. Nothing in life is 100% except...

death.

A condom is like a seat belt. It will greatly increase your chances of survival.

AIDS
Syphillus
Gonorehea
Claymidia.
Genital warts.
Herpes.

3 out of the 6 I just mentioned HAVE NO CURE!

DONT BE STUPID!