Disgraceful Media sanctioned AFC's

[PlayHer Man]

Every movie and TV show aimed at the younger generation encourages men to be AFC's.

No amount of groveling and ass kissing is ever enough in the minds of these guys. I never saw disgraceful crap like this when I was in High School (unless it was in a movie):

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/surprising-prom-invites-sweep-the-web-180959294.html

Take a good look at your future divorce victims.

Men as a group are becoming bigger faggots each generation. Its painful to watch. :trouble:

 

[Who Dares Win]

Cant really disagree with that, just compare any action movie from the 70s to any from the 80s, then to those from the 90s and then the modern one.

You'll see that the main character and less and less manly and more and more nice and concerned about some woman, just considet the difference the between the movie "the day of the jackal" and his remake in the 90s, keep in mind that for today starndard the remake is still not "nice enough" but yet see the difference.

Not only the ass kissing toward women which treat the main character like crap but also the same hero who not only go for his goal no matter what, but in many case stops and risk to screw up all his mission to be "morally acceptable".

There's a difference in the proper thinking process even before than the action.

The perfect benchmark is the James Bond saga which lasted decades and shows how time changed, we moved from Sean Connery and his manliness to Roger Moore and his ****y attitude, then Brosnan witty but starting to be nice till Craig which displays pretty often afcs behaviour, almost puked watching Casino Royale and his interaction with that cvnt of vesper.

 

[Night-hawk]

"What is my significance?" How this becomes answered and the feelings of reward gained is what will make a guy follow the ways of the blue pill mindset and its public influence and the media that reinforce its motivating affects on that mindset; or will lead him to deny those things that distort his sense of significance, and go his own way.

So much comes down to what a guy thinks and learns will make him feel significant and this is a factor that plays into why a guy will act like a white knight, afc, chivalrous, pleasing, princess entitling, nice guy, is because they see that as a way to gaining significance. Opposing what the media and their fellow peers deem appropriate or the right way will mean they may not gain that significance.

Media and its popularity becomes peer pressure for guys to think they need to live up to and out do other guys in displays of winning a girls favor and wining her over. And guys who do this may be confident but this confidence is being used to entitle women and teach girls a confident guy will make her feel like a princess which only reinforces all the female sensationalizing in the media. Guys are fooled by media into thinking that pedestalizing females will have the women pedestalizing them in return. However, these guys don't even realize that they are doing it, because to them an elaborate proposal means they are displaying courage and confidence and that they care, but they are mistaking what a girl likes to what she is sexually attracted to. Oh well.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Blame George Lucas for the demise.

Han shot first.

 

[BlackEricNorthman]

It's just kids getting creative when asking out dates. Call it afc behavior if you want but at the time when most teen boys are insecure about every little thing that happens to them, the kid in the video at least had the guts to go for the girl. Even if it's with some goofy song, it's still better than not even making an attempt at asking for a date at all (which is frequent among adolescent males his age).

If they get burned later (possibly virally online) and the girl walks off with some football player or guy with the nicer car, then the young rejected men will either learn and grow mentally or stay afc and miserable. Hopefully he'll learn what works and doesn't work from this experience and maybe even get weird with her at prom.

Hell I wrote a song and performed it for this girl before. We broke up later, but at the time I got the bedroom eyes. It's all a learning experience, plus chick's dig musicians.

 

[PlayHer Man]

It's just kids getting creative when asking out dates. Call it afc behavior if you want but at the time when most teen boys are insecure about every little thing that happens to them, the kid in the video at least had the guts to go for the girl. Even if it's with some goofy song, it's still better than not even making an attempt at asking for a date at all (which is frequent among adolescent males his age).

If they get burned later (possibly virally online) and the girl walks off with some football player or guy with the nicer car, then the young rejected men will either learn and grow mentally or stay afc and miserable. Hopefully he'll learn what works and doesn't work from this experience and maybe even get weird with her at prom.

Hell I wrote a song and performed it for this girl before. We broke up later, but at the time I got the bedroom eyes. It's all a learning experience, plus chick's dig musicians.

Well the reality is.. if 100% of men stopped "chasing" women.. all women would be forced to initiate if they wanted a chance in hell of a romantic relationship. ALSO.. the more ass-kissing the average man engages in to attract women.. the more entitled they become. They grow up believing they are Gods gift to the world because insecure faggots treat them that way.

YES.. its good these AFC at least had the balls to take action. The problem is.. the action they took is pedestalization.. which in my book.. is WORSE than no action at all. :yes:

 

[Burroughs]

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YES.. its good these AFC at least had the balls to take action. The problem is.. the action they took is pedestalization.. which in my book.. is WORSE than no action at all. :yes:

Yes indeed this is where we lose 99% of men

Even the *take action* so called alpha men

Women are not stupid they seek men who pedestalize them in all forms athletes, lawyers, tiger woods :crackup:

Smart women let the foolish man think he is *alpha* but steadily drain his bank account and nutsack so he is on the hook for child support for 20 years...meanwhile the man stupidly thinks he is *alpha* because he *got the girl* :rock:

This is what society has become for man

the man who does not willingly pursue slavery under a woman is no man at all in society's eyes

That men don't realize this is testimony to how faggotized and stupid men have become

 

[PlayHer Man]

Yes indeed this is where we lose 99% of men

Even the *take action* so called alpha men

Women are not stupid they seek men who pedestalize them in all forms athletes, lawyers, tiger woods :crackup:

Smart women let the foolish man think he is *alpha* but steadily drain his bank account and nutsack so he is on the hook for child support for 20 years...meanwhile the man stupidly thinks he is *alpha* because he *got the girl* :rock:

This is what society has become for man

the man who does not willingly pursue slavery under a woman is no man at all in society's eyes

That men don't realize this is testimony to how faggotized and stupid men have become

Exactly. Most men don't realize that any time they let a woman dictate their behavior.. they lose the "alpha" titled immediately. If a man has to "stop drinking" or "grow up" or "wear nicer clothes" or "redecorate his place" or "buy a mini-van" because a woman says so... that man is no alpha.

Alpha males do NOT submit to women in relationships. They reward women for good behavior. No good behavior means no affection, gifts, or respect. A woman's place is ALWAYS below a man. Women who refuse to take lower status in relationships with men should only be used for sex, then discarded like trash. :yes:

Any man who allows himself to be ruled by women is not a man at all. But the idiot media will tell you the opposite.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Alpha males do NOT submit to women in relationships. They reward women for good behavior. No good behavior means no affection, gifts, or respect. A woman's place is ALWAYS below a man. Women who refuse to take lower status in relationships with men should only be used for sex, then discarded like trash.

While generally true, I believe the way you've worded it is a big misleading, and can easily lead to "pretend" alpha behavior, which can easily be misconstrued as misogynistic.

Most "alpha" behavior is subconscious and automatic, and stems from extreme, real world based, self confidence in one's general abilities to create wealth and sexual relationships.

So when you say that men "reward" women, I believe a better way to describe it would be, "men pay attention to women when women are behaving in a way men find naturally attractive, and lose interest when women stop behaving"

Note that this "becoming interested" and "losing interest" is automatic and subconscious, not a conscious system of rewards and punishments.

Kind of like a wealthy man in a restaurant tasting the wine. If it's not up to speed, he merely sends it back. He doesn't "punish" the wine if it's bad, or "reward" the wine if it's good.

He doesn't play "no contact" games with the wine in hopes it will "turn good" he doesn't complain about the "state of wine" to his buddies.

He merely sends it back and asks for a better bottle. If he finds out a certain restaurant doesn't have wine to his liking, he simply chooses another restaurant.

He doesn't lobby congress to pass laws forcing restaurants to have a minimum standard of wines.

In an ideal world (where we are far from) a woman would learn, ON HER OWN, which behaviors generate positive attention, and which behaviors generate dismissal.

But as you say, once the tide turns and the Alpha's of today are the Beta's of yesteryear, the game is forever changed.

Just like few people will regularly wake up at 4 AM unless there are negative incentives for not doing so, woman will cease to self-correct when there are no longer negative incentives for not doing so.

 

[Aristippus]

First, it's singing a song to invite a girl to the prom. Then, it's asking her to marry you in the football stadium. Finally, realizing she was pressured into marrying a man she only had slight feelings for, she files for divorce and takes half of everything he owns.

 

[Boilermaker]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenade

Serenades have been there for 300 years. Picking one specific example and making grand generalizations again Play Her Man?

 

[zekko]

But she married the guy because she didnt want to hurt his feelings. Fast forward fifteen years and she cheats on him.

15 years is a pretty good run these days.

 

[PlayHer Man]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenade

Serenades have been there for 300 years. Picking one specific example and making grand generalizations again Play Her Man?

As usual Boilermaker.. you're just mad because its too late for you. You're married and a slave to your woman. It pains you to see single men having success, sexual variety and wisdom you didn't have before signing your life away in AFC delusional bliss.

Now you're trying to find validation to justify the moronic faggot choices you made in life by attacking men who are less foolish. :crackup::crackup:

 

[Boilermaker]

Is getting married a Moronic faggot choice?

I am not married, darling.



And pay attention, some people who are trying so hard to suck up to may be married. Don't offend your masters, now.

 

[twentee]

you don't HAVE to let her know about much of anything that you've invested in, if you have a lick of sense. Nevada corporations NEVER reveal who owns them.

 

[LiveFreeX]

I asked the ugliest girl in the school to prom and she said NO.

Now I'm married to a little 24 year old bombshell.

BTW, I'm the most Alpha of all of you, I just got a new Xbox 360 for $100 bucks and I'm going to play it all day long after I fvck my wife.

Seriously though, why do guys have to be creative to get girls, its just another form of the pedestal. The way I got my little girl was to say "I don't want to be friends, you are my girlfriend or nothing kapeche?". I can't sing or be romantic or any of that sh1t but when it counts I got it. I had 4 drunk ****head Chinese guys the other day stumbling around, one walked into me, then stopped another walked into and fell over on my wife, I told them to stop, they said sorry and then I said I didn't want to hear their 'apologies', if they do it again I'd fvckin kill them complete with a finger across the neck, they apologized profusely and all left in an elevator.. she was really horny later on but I didn't do it to impress her... I tell my wife she is my fvckin property, and nobody is gonna fvck with my property or they'll pay with their life....anyway end rant... these new guys today.... they're all glitter and no substance.

Friggin homos, watch too much Glee. What happened to highschool??? I remember geeks vs jocks and all that Breakfast club stuff... seems more like homos vs semi-homos now. I was a nerd in highschool if you were wondering, kinda like Napolean Dynamite.

 

[my1ken]

Now men can look in the mirror in see that ''he's'' the one at fault and stop blaming women and feminism for ''his'' problems. :yes:

 

[my1ken]

It's the way of the world deal.

 

[my1ken]

[/QUOTE]Seriously though, why do guys have to be creative to get girls, its just another form of the pedestal. [/QUOTE]

This i will agree with for the MOST part.


And your woman/ women in general are not owned buy anyone,and assuming that you did marry a 24 year old (and a American one at that) i see another man heading straight for divorce court a few years from now.

 

[GhengisKhan]

The perfect benchmark is the James Bond saga

Wow, I'm glad I'm not the only person who's noted this... did you notice early inn the first PB Bond movie he actually has the line "...I have no problem with a woman a woman in control" or something to that effect? A long fall from SC's *****-smacking!