KarmaSutra said:
The most important aspect of dirty talk is to coalesce it with passion. You have to say from your gut not your c0ck.
I disagree. It is better to come from the heart not the gut. You forgot passion doesn't come from the gut. That is where instinct and intuition comes from. 2nd and 1st chakra.
To the kid who posted this:
You want to open your heart a bit to feel a connection to this woman first. That doesn't mean get all sappy. You have to feel the connection and let your heart speak for you.
It isn't about calling a woman a slut or that cory crap in adult porns. Only low self esteem women enjoy that type of junk.
You need to look her in the eyes as your making love to her and then just talk to her. Let the words flow out of you.
If you have done your homework then you know what her passion buttons are. You know what words she likes. You also know her sexual fantasies so feed them back to her.
For the low self esteem types even they enjoy good love making with a bit of dirt mixed in. I would just go easy on the slut or ***** comments.
Asking her questions every now and then will allow you to build up your rap (vocals).
"is that good baby, you like that..."
Then giving her orders during this process will heighten her ability to relax and let you lead. "squeeze my ****...slow it down a bit baby...that's it..tighter...you feel so good...that's my little girl..."
"this is mine now...every stroke we touch each other deeper...no don't look away look at me...feel me deep inside of you...feel that..."
Let your heart speak after that without getting sappy and becoming a afc symp!
So it comes from the heart and the voice working together to produce the best results.