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Dire Situation with a relationship of sorts. Need advice. Please bare with me.

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I could crack the mother****ing screen into I have nearly no patience left in the tank But I'm ****ing relentless so Let me explain this dire situation...

So you understand what kind of person I am from the start let me explain... My reputation is basically a crazy jock and a player... I'm 20 years old and recently ended a serious relationship in May that left me somewhat celibate... I have an impressive record when it comes to girls, manipulation ect. .. I'm in double digits with screwing and have hooked up with nearly 40, so don't tell me **** about that I'm pimpin if I want... But I really am looking for a serious relationship/love, especially since this last failed relationship... I'm relentless, it needs to work out now.

I have one true lover in this girl nina... shes been there, she has been steadfast for a little over 3 years... shes extremely smart but is like any other ho at 18... which is a mother****ing slut. Shes at william and mary university and I keep tabs on her, I don't care if she screws around under acceptable circumstances... but I'm having a very ****ing jealous stint right now because...

I TESTED HER!!!

I posed myself on AIM instant messenger as a mother****er I don't know... a basketball player from her previous high school... Instantly she gave me her number and decided she would "think on" becoming **** buddies speaking of "high expectations" in bed.

I myself am so used to her we have our own tone, not as enthusiastic as it once was especially when I posed as this nigga... it was ridiculous.. we agreed to an slightly relationship... not 100% commitment.

I believe shes the one. I was raised by my grandfather who is pimpish and very smart when it comes to relationships but I have too much pride to ask him for help on this... I'm going crazy with anxiety... I told that ***** after she decided to lag on texting and after the aforementioned conversation as the "posed" that I'd be a mother****ing monkey on her back till she really kicks it, we will be together and I'll get her what shes getting and that she'd better get used to it or ****ing kick it... I'll cut her head down to the mother****ing backfat *****!!!"

I'm usually confident in such actions but I need affirmation I havent been on this site in a long while but when I was it never failed to help me... I feel that with the failure of my last relationship (we had even moved in together) even this long term potential will fail as well... AND we've spoken of marraige and kids in the past not very long ago and many times. I feel she's the one. How Do I Get Further Stablization?
 
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Good to see you posting again, I remember you when I first started:D . Let me just let you in one thing, I know what its like being in and out a relationship, shyt happened to me(fcuk what anybody says, when emotions are involved even a DJ gets "open"). However your slipping hardcore player, If you thinking of wifing up some college trick, wtf is you thinking?

seriously dawg, what makes this chick special? some random dude hits her up and she already talking about Fcuk buddies? That's a "no, no".

On top of that you running around doing covert aim undercover mission like Vlad the implaer, is the chick really worth it? she is a young chick right now exploring her sexuality (or delving in her hoeness) you know the rules Pimp, don't slide back, you getting aggy(mad) over a chick you know is a Jumpoff(ho) and not wifey material, that's not pimping that's simping. Get your mind straight dawg, go back out there and recruit, other chicks out there to be had(It's fall which means its open season @ the colleges).

I know what's it like to want a relationship but don't do it with the first chick that shows you a bit of attention, your vulnerable right now, take time to cool out, and meet some other chicks instead of sweating chicks who ain't worth the flem of your spit


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ima str8 up pimp said:
I could crack the mother****ing screen into I have nearly no patience left in the tank But I'm ****ing relentless so Let me explain this dire situation...

So you understand what kind of person I am from the start let me explain... My reputation is basically a crazy jock and a player... I'm 20 years old and recently ended a serious relationship in May that left me somewhat celibate... I have an impressive record when it comes to girls, manipulation ect. .. I'm in double digits with screwing and have hooked up with nearly 40, so don't tell me **** about that I'm pimpin if I want... But I really am looking for a serious relationship/love, especially since this last failed relationship... I'm relentless, it needs to work out now.

I have one true lover in this girl nina... shes been there, she has been steadfast for a little over 3 years... shes extremely smart but is like any other ho at 18... which is a mother****ing slut. Shes at william and mary university and I keep tabs on her, I don't care if she screws around under acceptable circumstances... but I'm having a very ****ing jealous stint right now because...

I TESTED HER!!!

I posed myself on AIM instant messenger as a mother****er I don't know... a basketball player from her previous high school... Instantly she gave me her number and decided she would "think on" becoming **** buddies speaking of "high expectations" in bed.

I myself am so used to her we have our own tone, not as enthusiastic as it once was especially when I posed as this nigga... it was ridiculous.. we agreed to an slightly relationship... not 100% commitment.

I believe shes the one. I was raised by my grandfather who is pimpish and very smart when it comes to relationships but I have too much pride to ask him for help on this... I'm going crazy with anxiety... I told that ***** after she decided to lag on texting and after the aforementioned conversation as the "posed" that I'd be a mother****ing monkey on her back till she really kicks it, we will be together and I'll get her what shes getting and that she'd better get used to it or ****ing kick it... I'll cut her head down to the mother****ing backfat *****!!!"

I'm usually confident in such actions but I need affirmation I havent been on this site in a long while but when I was it never failed to help me... I feel that with the failure of my last relationship (we had even moved in together) even this long term potential will fail as well... AND we've spoken of marraige and kids in the past not very long ago and many times. I feel she's the one. How Do I Get Further Stablization?
go to your grandfather...and stop being a jock cause i **** those cats up..
 

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Shes not the one bro get over it.

you just said your gotdamn self you tested her and she failed the test. what are you trying to rationalize here. use your brain son.
 
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You're both wrong...

1. I punished her accordingly. She knows I ain't a joke.. I spit a little truth out of the mouth God gave me and she understood, we have a past I know her voids and whats damaged her, she's told me her life.. I saved her.

2. I am increasing my game I have infinite levels of energy and power and I don't tire.. I need to learn how to man and control my power as a man and use it accordingly not only in my relationship with Nina but also in life which is why I've ordered the Book on Pimping By Pimpin Ken called Pimpology... I'm 100% sure it will help... I already am in college and have nice things, the potential... Now I will crush any doubt. Go ahead and laugh but chances are I already banged your girl, your babys momma or your mom... I've already hooked up with 40 or so girls and have ****ed different in double digits... Time to learn the ism.

3. The environment:

This is where everyone should listen good:
We're in the United States...Ho's in the states have sexual freedom, freedom to choose, not only that you must realize the fact that I'm a dark skinned Mexican from Mexico, the social mores are different here, it's acceptable, we agreed on less than 100% commitment and this is what happened.. My old man (Grandpa) Who is indeed pimpish and got me this far, wouldn't be able to help me even if I had less pride.. He is indeed pimpish in an environment with social mores such as country areas in Mexico.. Girls stay virgins 'till marriage.

I'm dating an adopted Ukrainian girl extremely smart but obviously hurt who obviously has problems even from the first day we met. I nearly bagged her within the first 20 minutes of meeting her 3 years ago. I changed my opinion of her and decided to fall in love with her... There will be troubles; shes far away in college, we'll remain steadfast. But take heed... I will stack my money and increase my game.. Learn Like I said improve.
 

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good for you son
 
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Solo...

I'd appreciate it if you'd read the rest of the aforementioned quoted post before you go calling my ****ing property a ho... I was asking for advice as a Man to a man... it's completely out of line for you to call my girl a ho.. Then you cut the statement I made into 1 part...There's more to that I know her voids and whats damaged her because I'm the only man to have heard her deepest fears and losses, complete past, and thoughts on life. I mean deepest. Question anything you want, friend, but do not question that.

This is a site based on hooking up albeit, perhaps this isn't the place for this sort of discussion, but whats done is done so may as well state the obvious which is:


The environment area I stated as crucial to read...

Look Pimpin'... In the end 85% of all *****es are ho's in the realest. Actually Nina and I agreed to have less than 100% commitment in our relationship, we go through a cycle in which we always end up fine... I was just extremely pissed to find the obvious out, we had had our tone for so long I was shocked.. so I came here to this site. But Now I'm aware of what must be done, to constantly improve myself and game, because thats part of the problem.

I can name you 5 girls off the top of my own head I've had sex with while they were in a relationship even married.

1. Jess- gave me head and even showed me the texts her bf was sending during the *******.. a 2 1/2 year relationship ruined...

2. Sheryl- Married, I met her at a previous job and I just asked for her number, 3 days later I'm screwing her while her mans at work on her couch and bed.

3. Shelby- sexy class president at my previous high school... Her bf told me to not talk to her, she told me "have patience, you move fast!".. I ****ed her the 2nd day of knowing her on my bed, my brothers bed then back to my bed.. (my bro has a tv in his room lol)

4. Kadie- ****ed her in her back yard while drunk, her man was in jail... self explanitory.

5. Danielle- I even met her boyfriend the following day with my hickies all over her neck!! She ****ed me within 2 hours of meeting her... like "well you're a beautiful boy, what should we do?"

It's common... Nina is far in VA... Were in the States. We have a history.. A Pimp like me is interested in improving imy game, expanding my mind/capabilities... I have so much energy and power wound up... It's time to man and control it accordingly both in my relationship With Nina and My own life, I will continue to stack my loot from head to boot and learn the ism of Pimping to further channel my power and energy, you may laugh. But look at my statistics just off the top of my head mentioned just earlier here..

Improve.
 
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Solomon said:
Damn fam you that far gone?
This tells me you caught feelings for the chick, look if you checked her that's cool, but @ the end of the day you can't turn a ho into a housewife, and if you did "save her" this thread wouldn't exist

Deuces
Now that I think of it, you couldn't have possibly read the entire post. Any level headed married man or level headed decent male in general, I think would sympathize and agree with the aforementioned statements. I'm sorry although hardly, since you still called My Lady a ho.
 

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I read it, and I ain't talking down, just telling you how I would tell one of my boys if he stood in front of me in the flesh, knamean?

I respect you trying to improve your game(KBJ's take notes, this a real pimp admist AFC's), but if you and the chick made it clear that it's not a 100% committed relationship you can't get mad. Let me repeat You can't get mad

As a Pimp (and/Player/Mack/DJ/PUA whatever you call your self), your goal is always to have a "Squad' of chicks, an abdunace of chicks, so when you have a Nina type(who goes of to college) you ain't even worried about it cause another chick is already taking her spot. The thing a lot of dudes get twisted in the game, is they think its all about humping all these hunnies but in the words of Jay-z "that ain't about nothing..." ,(Mack's and Pimp's think beyond coochie while most Players and Pua's don't) I rather have a solid team of chicks then bang a gazillion chicks. Trust me Pimp no homo I know you a good looking dude so chicks ain't hard to come by, but a brother like me works for every piece of ass that comes his way. I ain't a pretty boy but I've pulled some you'd like to try :crackup:

peace

p.s. I ain't never heard of anyone being cool with their chicks smashing another dude, either you gonna play the game or get played. You already caught feelings, but you to blind to noticed, a real Pimp would keep it moving, and get some adundance or charge Nina to the game....simple as that
 

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YOU HAVE ONE-ITIS.

Not only that, you have one-itis for an 18 year old. Women in their late teens / early 20s are the most unstable, flakey women you can date.

You're 20 years old. You don't need marriage and kids, not for another ten years AT LEAST.

Get over the 18 year old; go out and have fun. At your age, you don't need a woman slogging down your life.
 

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dude all your posts are this:

omg i cant believe this girl did this
shut up guys you dont know me, ive boned this kind of girl this kind of girl and ruined this relationship

listen to desdinova you have one-itis. other than that, nobody cares about who you supposedly have hooked up with
 

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Solomon said:
Pimp

On top of that you running around doing covert aim undercover mission like Vlad the implaer
Nearly lost my drink to this :crackup:
 
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pua1989 said:
dude all your posts are this:

omg i cant believe this girl did this
shut up guys you dont know me, ive boned this kind of girl this kind of girl and ruined this relationship

listen to desdinova you have one-itis. other than that, nobody cares about who you supposedly have hooked up with

First off you... you don't know what I've done, I got a news flash fool, I'm doing positive things, everywhere I go in any institution especially my previous High School I walk in and girls lose their mother****in' breath I'm known for what you see I posted about these girls. Don't try and question what I do these *****es choose me.. You know? I'm trying to do positive things and get something out of it... Look Put it this way... I'll pull up your skirt and expose your cl!toris..


Desdinova said:
YOU HAVE ONE-ITIS.

Not only that, you have one-itis for an 18 year old. Women in their late teens / early 20s are the most unstable, flakey women you can date.

You're 20 years old. You don't need marriage and kids, not for another ten years AT LEAST.

Get over the 18 year old; go out and have fun. At your age, you don't need a woman slogging down your life.
I know you mean well Pal, This site and whatever you advertise being pimpish and a real man, multiple women, not getting hurt... but you honestly don't know how Nina and I operate. Thank you anyway friend. By the way, we need to have a man to man discussion on what it takes to become a Mod in this page... I'm a dark skinned Mexican.. Relating to those of my sort, you could certainly use a minority sort of Mod... Holler at me.

EFFORT said:
Nearly lost my drink to this :crackup:
You're a well liked fella. Definitely funny. :rolleyes:

Basically. (Make sure you read IT ALL) I don't want to waste time responding to stupid responses already answered but I will if I have to, this should have been a personal matter, but I freaked out and whats done is done.)

Look, I posed like "Vlad The Impaler" and learned an obvious truth about her. lol I knew, I already knew the outcome I just wanted to see the truth first hand, . I told her, she told me as well we could hook up with other people, we're far away from each other, we're young, we need to be realistic. We love each other as far as for each others well being. But fact remains fact.. The dude I "impersonated" actually is a star player on her previous high school's basketball team, some 6'5 guy on a team Nationally Ranked... He might not have the gab I do but when it comes to clout, I will be a man and say the reason "he" was able to get her so easily is because he's probably got more going for him at this point and he's in VA like her nearby, (Not to mention it was actually me, I'm pretty ****ing good at quick **** like that, I could do that with various *****es here in Plano) . I'm not blind, I see things clear, it's time for improvement in my game, and especially patience I certainly have the power and energy for it... I am learning the ism of Pimpin as soon as I have the chance to get my hands on that book. (Pimpology by Pimpin Ken).. ***** wouldnt even know what to do with herself dealing with a real no caddy real head full a hair body and mind Mack. I'm gonna start pulling *****es around here again. Being celibate is gay point blank.
 

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I think you and Iqqi should get together. You both think very highly of your looks. Your ego's combined together could cause a planetary explosion of immense proportions!!!!
 
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I think you and Iqqi should get together. You both think very highly of your looks. Your ego's combined together could cause a planetary explosion of immense proportions!!!!

Sure! Let's have a threesome.
 

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Iggi said:
Sure! Let's have a threesome.
You, pimp, and your new man??? Pimp do you roll that way? I've heard iqqi's man has "feelings" and stuff so just a word of warning, he may fall for your hotness.
 
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