Dinner dates are for losers...

[AureliusMaximus]

gonna just put the idea I get here and not work on the whole posts

dinner dates are for losers, in essence yes its is, but why it is this idea like this?

in all about intent, dinner is a really bad way to gauge the woman interest and tned to be more expensive then normal, even worse most guys do this as a way to buy interest, if the guys had sex with teh girl and things are somewhere going, dinner dates tend to not be that much for losers, even so if you could do something better.

take note this dinner date is the kind you go out in a place and spend the evenning there, not her inviting you to go to her place to eat, if you are the kind of likes to cook then its something you like and fall on bringing the woman to your world.

all in all when people mention dinner dates is you being a chump and paying her dinner in a expensive place, don't disdain the wisdom of it just because someone say its a dumb blackpill issue (with is not).

We're talking of just making normal dinner at home mate, nothing fancy where you go and spend more money, since you're going eat anyways. You just invite her along and tell her to bring some cold ones (or whatever).

 

[Robert28]

I’m not sure that cheap Mexican food is such a good idea If you intend to do some hanky panky later in the night

luckily I always order the same thing. Chicken quesadilla. I don’t eat any spicy stuff. That’s one benefit of sticking to my diet, I can eat anywhere but be smart about it.

 

[zinc4]

I would never do dinner on a 1st or likely even a second date. Past that point, if I am on a 3rd date (or subsequent) with a chick, I obviously like her well enough that I would consider taking her out for dinner followed by drinks. Not sure how that equates to being a "loser." Given the number of times I have banged a chick after taking her to dinner I guess I will gladly be considered a "loser" if this is the litmus test we are using here now.

Nothing wrong with going out to dinner with a girl you sincerely like. Just dont do first date dinner dates or with any girl you havent slept with yer. I will usually only take my gf out to dinner dates and thats if i feel bored just hanging out with her in the house all day.

 

[Juanto]

But what if/about getting the girl to come to your place and you actually enjoy cooking and hey a man gotta eat anyway, right?

This is different, because if it is at your place, it can (and it should) easily lead to sex after dinner.

 

[Juanto]

f I'm taking a girl out for dinner, chances are she's already proved beforehand to be good company and has shown sexual desire in me. The dinner date is just a formality at that point

exactly, I feel the same. AFTER having sex with her lets say more than 2/3 times, I feel no problem going out for dinner with a girl.