Dilemma: would you stop a guy if you saw him abusing a woman?

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Maybe around here the question should be:
If you saw a man beating on a woman would you join in and help him?
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Desdinova said:
Independent, strong women don't need a man to stick up for them. Society told me so.
What about Emma Watson's He for She campaign?

The latest call for white knights, shining a bright light in the sky like a Batman symbol and all the white knights look out the window like it's their call.
 

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SgtSplacker said:
I would overhear my neighbor fighting with his girl and it was like this. The things she told him were just total disrespectful bait. Dudes now in jail for 4 or more years for flipping out and attacking her with a piece of glass.

Moral of the story: Keep woman at arms length. That dime your nervous to talk to might be someones bane. Let them in slowly and reject as soon as things start to sour. you above all else...
Same happend to me. I would listen to her push him and push him and push him, "your a liar, bla bla bla" he would ignore her eventually he would say " stop" " leave me alone" "you better stop " (this was her warning) then crack, one smack and she start.crying loudly. In the past I would have felt bad for her, but I was just mad that its 11pm and I had to work at 6 am. Also on the street I saw.to couples kind of arguing, no hitting, she p1ssed dude off, she looked.at me like she was in need of help, but thats just her baiting me to white knight. Women are very manipulative and deceptive, just because they get hit doesnt mean they are innocent. Equal rights now. When men are abused, especially in marriages, such as using sex as.a.tool (that's abuse) or any other forum of manipulation like t
Threatening divorce because she knows she will get money and the kids (which should be illegal, lock those women up or label them so others know) people dont care, they let it happen. Think about it.
 

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Id bet most women who do nothing to instigate a beating, or getting hit dont tell, or call the cops. Dont do things that will result in you getting hit, or don't put yourself in the situation. Most women are not abused by men.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Would you step in to intervene if you saw a woman slapping the sh!t out of her man?
This.

Gentlemen, white knightism is a serious condition. Suppress your inner white knight.
 

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YawataNoKami said:
This.

Gentlemen, white knightism is a serious condition. Suppress your inner white knight.

If being a white knight is wanting to help someone who is actually being abused then, i dont care if im a white knight.

White knighting is coming to the aid of a woman when they don't need it, and they simply accept your white-knighting because they like the attention. But if a woman is being raped/abused I wouldnt consider it whiteknighting to go intervene and help you fellow human being.

Would you all help a child if they were being abused?

Would you all help the elderly if they were being abused?

Would you help an animal if they were being abused?

Would you help a disabled person if they were being abused?

I would expect most of you would intervene on these, but simply because its a woman being abused by a man in a relationship you turn a blind eye because its not "alpha." And ya'll automatically assume the violence is justified. lawl what?

Whoever said this site was turning into anti-women is completely fvcking right.
 

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Desdinova said:
Independent, strong women don't need a man to stick up for them. Society told me so.
Yeep. I got the same memo from society.
 

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narcissist said:
If being a white knight is wanting to help someone who is actually being abused then, i dont care if im a white knight.

White knighting is coming to the aid of a woman when they don't need it, and they simply accept your white-knighting because they like the attention. But if a woman is being raped/abused I wouldnt consider it whiteknighting to go intervene and help you fellow human being.

Would you all help a child if they were being abused?

Would you all help the elderly if they were being abused?

Would you help an animal if they were being abused?

Would you help a disabled person if they were being abused?

I would expect most of you would intervene on these, but simply because its a woman being abused by a man in a relationship you turn a blind eye because its not "alpha." And ya'll automatically assume the violence is justified. lawl what?

Whoever said this site was turning into anti-women is completely fvcking right.

Would you all help a child if they were being abused?
Define abuse.

Would you all help the elderly if they were being abused?
An old man........hell yeah.

Would you help an animal if they were being abused?
100 times yes, specially dogs.

Would you help a disabled person if they were being abused?
A disabled man ; yes.
 

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YawataNoKami said:
Would you all help a child if they were being abused?
Define abuse.

Would you all help the elderly if they were being abused?
An old man........hell yeah.

Would you help an animal if they were being abused?
100 times yes, specially dogs.

Would you help a disabled person if they were being abused?
A disabled man ; yes.

troll is obvious
 

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narcissist said:
troll is obvious
MMM. I Wouldn't say this is a troll per se.. Just someone who hasn't swallowed the red pill yet.
 

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Of course not, maybe its her fault. Based on not having a complete grasp of the situation I can only continue to keep walking and mind my own business. If, however you are there for the duration of the episode and know for sure that the man is wrong and the woman is COMPLETELY innocent, then and only then should you step in to help her.
 

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logicallefty said:
MMM. I Wouldn't say this is a troll per se.. Just someone who hasn't swallowed the red pill yet.
I don't care who's "red pill d*ck" is smaller or bigger, no one should ever be physically attacked and if you turn a blind eye simply because you think "they deserved it" then you are a fvcking idiot. Especially with women, "she disrespected me so I slapped her!" No she disrespected you because you both have twisted morales and you have absolutely no idea how to handle yourself or your emotions. Now if were talking military Intel then that's a different story.

If it's REALLY okay with your own morales to leave someone getting attacked simply because of their gender then I'm going to question you as a person.


Were all here to get women not hate them.
 

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Frayzer said:
If it's REALLY okay with your own morales to leave someone getting attacked simply because of their gender then I'm going to question you as a person.
I think we have gone too far into gynoculture such that every unwanted physical contact is necessarily "abusive." Almost all physical altercations I've seen in life have been 1. none of my business, 2. I don't have enough facts to understand the situation in context, 3. the contact was relatively minor and presented no danger of material bodily harm. I am not the arbitrator of right and wrong, and appreciate others having the same view of things where me and my actions are concerned.

Basically, if 1, 2, and 3 above are at play, legal knowledge, training and personal experience put up a huge red STOP sign between me and getting involved.

If someone gets slapped, grabbed, pushed, cussed, spit on, kicked, and it ends there, well I'm not doing anything over that, not my problem, not my job, and if that makes me a monster or ahole, so be it.

If escalation or grievous bodily injury or death is a reasonable possibility, my involvement should be 1. call police, and not offer ANY assistance until that has been done. 2. try to end the danger non physically in some way by grabbing witnesses, shouting 3. only then, once all other means exhausted, -consider- any physical intervention.

Do otherwise, just "jump in" to altercations you don't understand, and end up in jail, sued, the hospital or worse. At least have some steps and process in mind for dealing with such rationally, or very bad, expensive things can happen to you.

Some guy slaps some girl and that's it, and you want to jump on in and defend her, end up in a fight? Watch yourself end up sued and your homeowner's insurance won't pay. Enjoy indentured servitude and someone taking your things over getting into something that wasn't your business.
 

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Women are enabled to behave like sh1t and get away with it. Not ok. She shouldn't put herself in that situation, plus they are brainwashed by feminism to think we are all abusive so you'd think they would be very skilled at avoiding putting themselves into situations that result in them being abused.

Sure if she was getting beat badly, I wouldn't want that to happen to most people, but off its just a slap, or a shove.and he stops himself there its not my business.

Most men don't abuse women, fact.

So maybe she puts herself or chooses to stay in that situation, its her body her choice.

No excuses. It would be very rare for me to feel the need to step in.

Maybe men who abuse women were abused themselves. Instead of demonizing men, or treat them like animals and lock them in a cage, you b should try to help them. If you abuse women you are probably a Person with a lot of pain. Hurting people do hurtful things. He has some problems and doesn't understand how to fix himself, so he lashes out because that's his reaction.

Women get away with far too much crazy, retarded bullsh1t. Men are more confused then ever in history.

An angry, unhappy man who has not taken the red pill is at high risk to hurt others. If the manosphere was introduced to boys before they start dating and.fvcking there would be less abuse towards women.
 

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Dasein you're like a robot I swear... BEEP BEEP Target did not do x so I will not engage BEEEEEP... But I do agree with the steps for your own safety however. I wouldn't just automatically retaliate.

When somebody attacks someone in broad daylight for every one to see and hear then that becomes everyone's issue. Something that should probably be dealt with in private is instead being dealt with in public. Call it a time and a place.
 

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I used to think yes, but now I wouldn't bother. Way to risky. My roommate in college was an offensive lineman, huge dude (6'4 300lbs). He saw this guy beating on his girlfriend at some party and went over there and beat the ever living sh!t out of the dude. Cops came and guess who got arrested for assault? My roommate. The girl that was getting hit on even told the cops "he attacked my boyfriend for no reason".lol Luckily our head coach has major pull in that town and got the cops to drop the charges and agreed to allow him to do community service. I'm willing to bet the girl that told the cops on him is still dating the guy who was pounding her face in. So, no, I would never help out due to the fact that you won't be appreciated for it and you'll likely be the one who gets sued or arrested for trying to do a good thing.
 

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Frayzer said:
Dasein you're like a robot I swear... BEEP BEEP Target did not do x so I will not engage BEEEEEP... But I do agree with the steps for your own safety however. I wouldn't just automatically retaliate.

When somebody attacks someone in broad daylight for every one to see and hear then that becomes everyone's issue. Something that should probably be dealt with in private is instead being dealt with in public. Call it a time and a place.
It's obvious your not an American. Your problem is not my problem. I can choose to help You, its wrong for you to expect anything from any one.

Expectations are premeditated resentments.

If I chose to help You, you should be grateful.

No one owes you anything. If you are on fire, its my right to not even p1ss on you to ease your suffering. That's the real world. That's life, cold but so is the red pill.
 

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I would take action only on attacks against animals or old people, regarding children it depends on who is doing what.
Some kids really need a slap from their parents nowadays.

Regarding a guy slapping a woman or similar situations, honestly I would call the police I would simply find an other woman and inform her about whats happening and let her do all the stuff.

Its very likely that the woman being "abused" was the first to facilitate the situation either teasing the guy then denying him intimacy like at the club or p1ssing him off in any possible way only to decide to stop the "game" once it wasnt going as she wanted.

Most of abuses happen at home for a reason, women choose animals over nice guys everyday so the same happens in dating or meetings, cant be responsible of other people wrong choices.

So yeah if I hear a woman screaming and a guy being beligerant toward her on a street corner I would simply find a woman or a local person and point the situation at them, plain and simple no need to have the goverment involved in my life.

I dont deny however that it also depends on my instinct, what kind of woman is that? a leftist hipster? a housewife? looks like a decent girl? and so on.
If it looked like a decent woman with no connection to the man like in a robbery, I would try my best to harm him before leaving I simply believe criminals should be treated in the 1940s ways.
 
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